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Mystophilus
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Not so much. The argument for allowing gay couples to have the same sorts of relationships as straight couples is based in equal rights for consenting adults. The argument against paedophilia is based in a concept of consciousness itself, children being deemed incapable of sufficient understanding as to be able to form true consent. This latter understanding is what makes egalitarianism, which argues for gay rights, argue against paedophilia, since that involves extremely-unequal relationships. At most, equal rights could reasonably be used to argue for sexual relationships between children, but not between children and adults; children are unlikely to make such an argument, and no one else has good cause to make it for them. Equal rights is an idea which will be very hard to erase.Almost exactly the same arguments used to rationalize gay sex can be used to lower the age of consent to 12 or so.
The idea of an age of consent is not new; the number has just varied, and it has particularly varied between social classes. The ancient Greeks, who were, in general, hugely permissive about sex, were very firm about not having sex with children; paederasty was with youths (as they defined them), not little boys. The great majority of child bride examples have been in the upper class, a tiny proportion of any given society. It should also be pointed out that the idea itself depends upon a dominating authority structure within the family, whereby the head of the family (almost always the father) can dispose of his daughters like any of his other property. It is, once more, a contravention of equal rights.Objectively speaking, humanity has a MUCH broader history of culturally tolerating and endorsing child brides than it does gay relationships. It’s an extremely recent cultural phenonmenon to consider a 14 year old girl far too young for marriage.
For the lower class, who have always formed the great majority of society, marriage has much more commonly been between adults because it has been financially necessary for both partners to work. The middle class had the wealth to become part of the upper class marriage-market game, and the leisure not to work, but their pretensions of ‘refinement’ made it impracticable to marry off children who had not yet learnt enough. We see examples of the need for a bride of practical age in texts like the Bible (Pr 31:10ff), and in Hesiod’s Works and Days 694ff, where he says that a woman should not be less than four years past puberty. Child brides were the exception, not the rule.
Gay relationships, meanwhile, have been carried on across the world for as long as we have records, even in societies which made them punishable by death. They have always been part of the landscape if not part of the legal one.