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Revelation13_16
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No, I wouldn’t have a child period.But again, this analogy doesn’t adequately capture how God relates to us. The closest analogy would be this: if you knew before conceiving a child that that particular child would be a wicked person and lead an utterly wretched life, wouldn’t you consider waiting till another night to conceive a child? Obviously even this analogy is inadequate, but I think it gets closer to the real dilemma.
It’s selfish to create a child, if you know in one “timeline” your child is wretched, unless there’s a DNA answer ala Eugenics, you’re still gambling if you choose to create it on another night because you can’t be sure that the night had anything to do with it.
It is better to die childless than to have a child under those circumstances, because not only must you think of your child’s soul (which would be in heaven if it weren’t for you calling it down upon conception) but also the Utilitarian aspect, the damage your child will cause to everyone - and under the Arminian view - the eternal damage your child may cause.
Example, let’s say your child (not yours, I just use the ‘you’ pronoun alot) lives a wretched life, and as part of that wretched life goes joyriding at high speeds.
On his joyride one night, a person’s child is killed coming out of a night service at Church. (the ‘wretched one’ crashes right into the Cathedral)
As a result, the Minister, who’s child was killed, breaks down and loses faith in God, and becomes an Atheist.
From the whole night service, half the people there backslide en masse, they are still Christians but can’t get over why the Minister who was practically faultless could suffer such a horrid action.
The other half of the night service become Presbyterians, believing that the doctrine of predestination is the only way to explain why the Minister fell away from the faith - because he was reprobate all along. (easy explanation)
I know this last paragraph is another jibe at Calvinists but I think its poignant & apt.
If we have free will, we should always choose the best option. The best option is therefore not to conceive if there’s any indication that contra to our best parenting our child will turn out wretched unless we can feel confident that science has the answer and even then I think unless it can be unequivocally proven that a certain sequence of DNA would be responsible, that one should not breed.
Interesting–I see why your feelings are so complicated.
No, it hurts too much.Consider the possibility that both views of God are hopelessly inadequate!
Then that’s God’s choice, not theirs.Well, even in Calvinism they have the option–they just aren’t going to take it unless God chooses to move them to do so.
Well, as I said earlier I think it’s actually the Calvinists who make this criticism of you who are worshipping (if not acting like) Lucifer. The essence of Satan is the warped choice of power over goodness. Your refusal to bow down to anything that is not good is exactly the opposite of Satan’s choice.
If anyone is going to go to hell for their words, it is those Calvinists who have made you think that there’s something Luciferan about loving goodness!
In Christ,
No Calvinist has said this to me, just my conscience.Edwin
Now I’m slightly prone to anxiety by nature, but I’m sure it’s a sin to sin against one’s own conscience.
So when I feel bad about saying these things, I can’t figure out if it’s the Holy Spirit convicting me (the pricks at the heart) or my own anxiety constantly thinking the worst case scenario.