depending on my mood, i’d probably say, “In your opinion, but my opinion is different, obvously because I’m Catholic, and while I will not argue religion topics with anyone, and especially in the workplace, I’d be happy to answer any question you have. If you don’t have a question why don’t we just respect each other’s opinion and right to religious freedom without having to put each other’s chuch down, and I wish you well and my prayer for any non catholic is always that God’s will be done in your life. Have a nice day.”
One gal at work did this little up down up down thing and crossing herself mockery thing and then said, “Catholics don’t know why they do this up down and up down and making marks on themselves and they never take their Bibles to Church.”
My reply was, “First of all, maybe you need to hang out with better Catholics! Second, the Catholics I hang out with know why we kneel every time we kneel and why we stand up every time we stand up, and we do this out of respect for what is happening in the Mass. And sometimes people don’t have their Bible with them but they hear four readings from the Bible in every Mass which is more than I ever heard even as a preacher’s kid growing up – and the Catholics stand up of respect when the Gospel is read – and by the way my Bible does go with me everywhere.”
I don’t let people mock my Lord or my Church. Whatever I say I say it with a nice tone of voice, and I’m polite, but I make it clear we can either discuss something specific, but we won’t be resorting to just casual put-downs of Christ, His Church, or my fellow Catholics or Christ’s mother, saints, pope, etc.
Oh, someone said something one day about the Church should be closed down because of the priest scandal…I quickly pointed out the protestant preacher scandals I had been aware of growing up protestant, does that mean all protestant churches should be closed down? Or, school teachers have been convicted of child molestation…should we close all public schools?
Most people don’t really know what Catholics believe or do not believe. But they love to take a swipe at the Church anyway. I decided I would stand up to it. All the years I believed in the Church before I was baptized I just kept silent. And they just kept on…I’m not silent any longer. They can go mock something else, but not my Lord, not His Church, and not his Mother either, or the saints, or pope, etc. (I love them all.)
When people are allowed to do that in the workplace, they open themselves up to a heap of trouble if someone wants to make a case out of it.
Just my 2 cents. I have found the more I learn the easier it is to respond back.
I said something to a gal today I was doing some beading with. She and I used to belong to same southern baptist church 25 years ago. I was explaining my conditional baptism in the Church and said “because after all ‘there is only one baptism for forgiveness of sins.’” She gave me a look like all confused like, “there is???” HAHA That’s becausse those protestants never preached on that since they didn’t believe baptism had anything to do with sin, it was just a symbol showing you were following Christ.
I did tell her I had found in the Church the complete fullness of faith and truth. And I told her about the finding out that Christ is really presence in the Mass – versus grapes and crackers that are a mere symbol. And that was all that was said, we then went back to our beads.