Catholics and Non-Catholics: Do you believe in the Perpetual Virginity of the Blessed Mother?

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I tend to believe that Holy Scripture would showcase this if it were in fact reality. It however does not so therefore I do not believe that Mary was a perpetual virgin. I would also say that the Scriptures do more to show a normal marriage for Joseph and Mary than to say that they did not have sex.
There are plenty of Truths of the faith that are not “showcased” in scripture. The purpose of the Gospels was to show Jesus to the world. It was not until heresies arose over His identity that the Church had to step up and clarify who she was, and her role in salvation.

The purpose of the letters was to correct problems. Mary has never been a problem for the Church. 😃

We receive the Marian doctrines through Apostolic Sacred Tradition. I am curious, why would you think Jesus would want Moses and Elijah in heaven more than His own mother?
 
I know there are scriptural passages that can lead one to believe that Mary and Joseph had other childen as husband and wife.
There are references that point to her Perpetual Virginity as well.
  1. Numbers 30 shows that a vow of abstinence, even in marriage, was not unheard of in the Old Testament.
  2. St. Jerome argued for the well-known and commonly held belief in Mary’s virginity in St. Jerome’s “The Perpetual Virginity of Blessed Mary” vs Heluidius (380 A.D.)
  3. Church approved apparitions always speak of Mary as the Virgin (for example, the Virgin of Guadalupe).
What do you think?
I think she was a virgin at Jesus’ birth. I think that, after that, she was fully a wife to Joseph, fully a mother to Jesus, and probably had more children.

Given that, even though celibacy wasn’t UNHEARD of later, there is no biblical evidence that she practiced it once Jesus was born, nor was there any religious or moral reason for her to do so. She was, after all, married.

Certainly her role as Jesus’ mother would not have been compromised in any way if she did practice, fully, the religion she grew up with, believed in…and whose God had given her the unique calling she had.
 
Seems faulty logic on you part. The Bible says Jesus was born to the virgin called Mary. The Bible does NOT say Mary was a perpetual virgin. There’s a HUGE difference, one is easy to believe the other takes a different type of faith.
I think you hit this nail on the head, Doki. The Marian doctrines are such a constellating force because accepting them requires “a different type of faith”. It requires that one be able to trust God to preserve His Word in the Church, just as He has in the Scriptures. Trust of this level was lost during the Reformation, and for most of our separated brethren, has never been regained.
I sometimes wonder what difference it makes. It doesn’t change the fact that Christ was born of a virgin, died for my sins and rose from the dead either way.
I think the reason that it is so important is that the rejection of the Marian doctrines represents an attack and erosion on the Gospel of Truth that has been preserved in the Church. People think they are wiser than God, and can decide for themselves what is “essential to salvation”. This is not the case. The Divine Deposit of Faith was given “once for all” to the Church. It is not within our purview to begin to excise parts of it.
IF the Bible clearly taught it, it would be easy to accept. Its not something I think about, until I log on here!
I think this is also a good point. The lack of awareness of Mary’s role abbreviates the gospel message.
 
I think she was a virgin at Jesus’ birth. I think that, after that, she was fully a wife to Joseph, fully a mother to Jesus, and probably had more children.

Given that, even though celibacy wasn’t UNHEARD of later, there is no biblical evidence that she practiced it once Jesus was born, nor was there any religious or moral reason for her to do so. She was, after all, married.

Certainly her role as Jesus’ mother would not have been compromised in any way if she did practice, fully, the religion she grew up with, believed in…and whose God had given her the unique calling she had.
On your comment that she “probably had more children”, there is no evidence of this in the Bible or in History or from the Early Church Fathers.
 
That’s an interesting position, Catholics believe that Mary was perpetually virgin but not divine.
I misspoke, divinity was not the proper word…I should say I don’t think her engaging in a normal married relationship with her husband would make anything she did lesser in importance, meaning, etc.
 
I think you hit this nail on the head, Doki. The Marian doctrines are such a constellating force because accepting them requires “a different type of faith”. It requires that one be able to trust God to preserve His Word in the Church, just as He has in the Scriptures. Trust of this level was lost during the Reformation, and for most of our separated brethren, has never been regained.

I think the reason that it is so important is that the rejection of the Marian doctrines represents an attack and erosion on the Gospel of Truth that has been preserved in the Church. People think they are wiser than God, and can decide for themselves what is “essential to salvation”. This is not the case. The Divine Deposit of Faith was given “once for all” to the Church. It is not within our purview to begin to excise parts of it.

I think this is also a good point. The lack of awareness of Mary’s role abbreviates the gospel message.
Abandoning the teaching that Mary was celibate might also undermine the case for a celibate priesthood. From what I’ve learned while being a Catholic the celibate state is considered a much more holy state than married life.
 
Coming late to this discussion, although I’ve commented in similar threads in the past, I have no quarrel with Mary’s perpetual virginity. In this, I am following Luther’s own beliefs on the subject.

At the same time, Mary’s perpetual virginity is of no particular consequence in my life of faith. Should someone (and I don’t expect this to happen) prove incontrovertibly that she had other children, it would have no effect on my belief in the Triune God. What is more important, in my view, is her example of faith and obedience to God as she assented to God’s plan to bring our savior into the world through her.
 
I think she was a virgin at Jesus’ birth. I think that, after that, she was fully a wife to Joseph, fully a mother to Jesus, and probably had more children.

Given that, even though celibacy wasn’t UNHEARD of later, there is no biblical evidence that she practiced it once Jesus was born, nor was there any religious or moral reason for her to do so. She was, after all, married.

Certainly her role as Jesus’ mother would not have been compromised in any way if she did practice, fully, the religion she grew up with, believed in…and whose God had given her the unique calling she had.
This is what I believe. 👍
I think you hit this nail on the head, Doki. The Marian doctrines are such a constellating force because accepting them requires “a different type of faith”. It requires that one be able to trust God to preserve His Word in the Church, just as He has in the Scriptures. Trust of this level was lost during the Reformation, and for most of our separated brethren, has never been regained.

I think the reason that it is so important is that the rejection of the Marian doctrines represents an attack and erosion on the Gospel of Truth that has been preserved in the Church. People think they are wiser than God, and can decide for themselves what is “essential to salvation”. This is not the case. The Divine Deposit of Faith was given “once for all” to the Church. It is not within our purview to begin to excise parts of it.
Sure. But that all holds if and only if one is Catholic. You can persuade other Catholics with it, but not us “separated brethren.” 🤷

All that said, I do believe Mary is worthy of the honor the Catholic Church gives her. But I don’t see that being a consecrated virgin is any more holy a status than being a normal married woman.
 
How about this one that I heard the other day .Marriage is a covenant relationship in the old testament .Was it also not sealed in blood ? on the marriage bed ? If Mary had no relations with Joseph ,was she really married ? Was the covenant consumated ?
 
On your comment that she “probably had more children”, there is no evidence of this in the Bible or in History or from the Early Church Fathers.
There is even less evidence that she did not…that is, while the term ‘brothers’ WAS used in relation to Jesus, there isn’t anything in the bible that says she stayed celibate.

In fact, given the scriptural evidence we do have, plus the religious and cultural rules of the time, and the total lack of any evidence to the contrary, I think she probably did have more children.

I’m not claiming that you MUST believe this, or that anybody is going to hell because they do or don’t believe in the perpetual virginity of Mary. I simply answered the question in the OP.

After all, I"m not Catholic. There will be differences in our beliefs…or I would be Catholic. 🙂

As at least one poster has mentioned, it’s a mind set that non-Catholics often do not have; this idea that a life of celibacy is somehow more holy than being married, or that Mary, married and fully a wife to Joseph, somehow by that sullies her role and position as Jesus’ mother.

I don’t see how it would. Quite the opposite, actually…so the question isn’t about the perpetual virginity of Mary so much as it is about why it is so very important to Catholic thought that she be thought so.
 
Coming late to this discussion, although I’ve commented in similar threads in the past, I have no quarrel with Mary’s perpetual virginity. In this, I am following Luther’s own beliefs on the subject.

At the same time, Mary’s perpetual virginity is of no particular consequence in my life of faith. Should someone (and I don’t expect this to happen) prove incontrovertibly that she had other children, it would have no effect on my belief in the Triune God. What is more important, in my view, is her example of faith and obedience to God as she assented to God’s plan to bring our savior into the world through her.
Apparently, there is a consequence. If you don’t believe in the perpetual virginity of Mary is important you don’t believe in the authority of the Catholic Church. That puts you in danger of hell.
 
Apparently, there is a consequence. If you don’t believe in the perpetual virginity of Mary is important you don’t believe in the authority of the Catholic Church. That puts you in danger of hell.
This is where we disagree. I would be in danger should I not believe in the Triune God. I would be in danger should I not believe that Jesus Christ is true God and true man. I would be in danger if I denied that our Lord’s suffering and death were necessary for my salvation. But, despite my respect for the Catholic Church as part of the one, holy, catholic, and apostolic church, I do not believe that my acceptance of its authority is necessary to my salvation.
 
I know there are scriptural passages that can lead one to believe that Mary and Joseph had other childen as husband and wife.
There are references that point to her Perpetual Virginity as well.
  1. Numbers 30 shows that a vow of abstinence, even in marriage, was not unheard of in the Old Testament.
  2. St. Jerome argued for the well-known and commonly held belief in Mary’s virginity in St. Jerome’s “The Perpetual Virginity of Blessed Mary” vs Heluidius (380 A.D.)
  3. Church approved apparitions always speak of Mary as the Virgin (for example, the Virgin of Guadalupe).
What do you think?
I don’t see anything in the Bible to indicate that she did not have normal marital relations with her husband after Jesus was born, so I vote “no”.
 
I don’t see anything in the Bible to indicate that she did not have normal marital relations with her husband after Jesus was born, so I vote “no”.
You make a very interesting point. The OP refers to writings of early church fathers that are not found in the bible to make the case of Mary’s perpetual virginity, and goes on to describe purely Catholic experiences; visions and apparitions. Holy Tradition.

That’s not a problem at all—if one is Catholic. However, Protestants generally had major problems with Holy Tradition; they accepted some of it, rejected a lot, if not most, of it…and refused to use any of it as prooftext material for doctrine. In fact, for a Catholic to attempt to prove the truth of a doctrine to a non-Catholic by using Holy Tradition is very much like a Mormon attempting to prove the truth of a belief by quoting from the Book of Mormon.

Both extra biblical sources of doctrine are great for proving WHAT beliefs are, but neither are any good for proving to non-believers that those beliefs are ‘true.’ First…get everyone to agree that those extra-biblical sources are appropriate sources, and then use them.

Catholics have a bigger row to hoe here with Protestants than they do with Mormons. At least we accept the idea that doctrine and beliefs CAN be found in extra-biblical sources. 😉 The idea of 'Holy Tradition" doesn’t bug us at all. It’s just that we believe that much if it is, well…apostate. 😉

What Catholics must do, in speaking to Protestants about the virginity of Mary,(that is, in trying to prove it) is to use only those sources that all participants in the discussion accept. Using quotes from Holy Tradition is fine–to show why Catholics believe. It’s not so good for convincing those who dismiss Holy Tradition that they must believe, too.
 
This is where we disagree. I would be in danger should I not believe in the Triune God. I would be in danger should I not believe that Jesus Christ is true God and true man. I would be in danger if I denied that our Lord’s suffering and death were necessary for my salvation. But, despite my respect for the Catholic Church as part of the one, holy, catholic, and apostolic church, I do not believe that my acceptance of its authority is necessary to my salvation.
We don’t disagree. My fellow Catholics are the ones saying the Church imposes this doctrine as a test of faith. I don’t happen to think the Church’s authority rests on whether or not Mary was a perpetual virgin, but many Catholics (and perhaps even the Catholic Church itself) seem to think it does. Why the Church would put itself out on a limb to defend what I consider an unnecessary doctrine is something I can’t grasp. It feeds into the misperception that even within married life the Catholic Church sees sex as more of a necessary evil than an uplifting union of a married man and woman.
 
Mary’s ‘other’ children would be feral compared to Jesus…
 
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dianaiad:
Catholics have a bigger row to hoe here with Protestants than they do with Mormons. At least we accept the idea that doctrine and beliefs CAN be found in extra-biblical sources. 😉 The idea of 'Holy Tradition" doesn’t bug us at all. It’s just that we believe that much if it is, well…apostate. 😉
Not to mention that you both believe we’re apostates.
 
You make a very interesting point. The OP refers to writings of early church fathers that are not found in the bible to make the case of Mary’s perpetual virginity, and goes on to describe purely Catholic experiences; visions and apparitions. Holy Tradition.

1. First of all, we know St. Jerome lived and we know he wrote on the topic of the Perpetual Virginity of the Blessed Mother. So, we know that the early Church believed in this.
2. Actually, I tried not to use “purely Catholic experiences” for this post. Most Protestants do not totally discount the writings of the ECF and to my knowledge, Martin Luther believed in the Perpetual Virginity of the Blessed Mother as well.
3. Because there is much to prove the apparitions of the Blessed Mother, I really don’t feel these are “purely Catholic.” Which is why I used the example of Our Lady of Guadalupe which has received some popular attention, even on television. Just google apparitions of Mary, in Zeitoun, Egypt. There are pictures! She was seen by millions
- Jews, Muslims, Orthodox, Catholics, Atheists…Really, this stuff is out there for all to see. Not just Catholics. (Unless we choose not to then we can stick our head in the sand and call it “purely Catholic”).

That’s not a problem at all—if one is Catholic. However, Protestants generally had major problems with Holy Tradition; they accepted some of it, rejected a lot, if not most, of it…and refused to use any of it as prooftext material for doctrine. In fact, for a Catholic to attempt to prove the truth of a doctrine to a non-Catholic by using Holy Tradition is very much like a Mormon attempting to prove the truth of a belief by quoting from the Book of Mormon.

**No, because there is very little that the Mormons do today that is in the BoM. **

Both extra biblical sources of doctrine are great for proving WHAT beliefs are, but neither are any good for proving to non-believers that those beliefs are ‘true.’ First…get everyone to agree that those extra-biblical sources are appropriate sources, and then use them.

I disagree. Look up the pictures of the apparitions in Egypt and read the stories of the millions who saw her. Read about the image of Our Lady of Guadalupe, then tell me it is only for Catholics!

Catholics have a bigger row to hoe here with Protestants than they do with Mormons. At least we accept the idea that doctrine and beliefs CAN be found in extra-biblical sources. 😉 The idea of 'Holy Tradition" doesn’t bug us at all. It’s just that we believe that much if it is, well…apostate. 😉

What Catholics must do, in speaking to Protestants about the virginity of Mary,(that is, in trying to prove it) is to use only those sources that all participants in the discussion accept. Using quotes from Holy Tradition is fine–to show why Catholics believe. It’s not so good for convincing those who dismiss Holy Tradition that they must believe, too.
**I was not trying to convince anyone of anything. I was hoping posters would provide what they considered to be proof of either side of the argument. Not just opinions. Frankly, I grow weary of those who need to be spoon-fed every little bit of information on a topic and don’t give it much research and thought. Just knee-jerk, stuck-in-my-ways, reactions. I don’t learn from that. By the way, I started this post because a Catholic said s/he did not believe in the Perpetual Virginity of Mary. I thought I would open it up to non-Catholics too to get their (name removed by moderator)ut as well.
Diana, you can say that you dismiss the early teachings of the Church because it happened long ago and as I like to say, anyone can Monday Morning Quarterback. However, you cannot dismiss the apparitions seen by millions or the image of Our Lady of Guadalupe that should have disintegrated many years ago.
IMHO, if people really did study Mary, they would end up being Catholic. That’s why they avoid it all together and say it doesn’t matter. We know that through her, many find Jesus, her Son.🙂 **.
 
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