Catholics and Non-Catholics: Do you believe in the Perpetual Virginity of the Blessed Mother?

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When did Ambrose, Tertullian and Augustine ever say that marriage was a crime against God?
Sorry .take that one back .Can not find credible source for “crime against God” .The context however ,stands ,that of virginity being better than marriage back then. These saints may not view marriage as highly or rightly as we do today , but they certainly were more balanced than some allege .
 
You don’t have sufficient evidence in favor of your theory at all? That’s what boggles my mind here? I can (and did with the above post, please read) supply a steady stream of statements by ECF’s affirming the perpetual virginity of Mary. But where will you find anyone (save heretics!) who proclaim her a typical sexually-active married woman? I think you have no evidence to the affirmative?
It has nothing to do with want, I haven’t seen sufficient evidence to the contrary yet.

If your wife was paralyzed and couldn’t have sex with you, would you abandon her? OF COURSE NOT! You’d be a good spouse, supportive, and love her through every means at your disposal, from the heart. Is a marriage possible without sex? Joseph knew his marriage was not a typical marriage and that his relationship was unique. Are you saying that since Joseph wasn’t immaculate like Mary he was inacapable of living the celibate life? Pretty cynical. Paul did it. Priests and bishops have done it for centuries. I know plenty of people who have. Are you not willing to also look at Joseph as being called-out, special, and a deeply holy man? Why are you so slow to believe that he was given graces by God to live the celibate life and be happy?
You can make that argument for Jesus and for the sake of this discussion I’ll even give you Mary, but Joseph was exactly like us in every way, a virtuous man to be sure, but only by God’s grace, because he like we was a sinner. As for Mary, no earthly thing is going to taint or degenerate her status as the virgin mother, even if she had more children.

With all due respect, you point out that I’m looking back anachronistically at Joseph trying to read his mind and motives and yet you go on to do the same in spades saying what you suppose he “didn’t” see coming? Were you and I privy to the conversations Christ had with his parents as a young man? Do you think he withheld their destinies and roles and heart from them? Joseph started out his marriage obviously thinking he was just marrying a great girl. And he is very cynical and doubtful with her pregnancy. We both know the story. But God intervenes, speaks to Joseph, enlightens him, and blesses him. Why are we to assume God stopped and he remained on a blind path needing sexual needs fullfilled all the time and not knowing his purpose or role in the plan of salvation for all mankind?You suppose that Joseph had a profound understanding of what God’s plans were. You’re seeing it from a present-day view with a completed bible and a litany of saints and doctors of the church. Joseph didn’t have any of that. It’s not likely that he saw the ‘Queen of Heaven’ or God’s Holy Ark, or even the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords, judging from the scriptures, Joseph seriously looked like he was playing things by ear. He probably saw a sweet gal that he’d been betrothed to, and who’s child God had plans for. However, given that that same God had given Mary to him as his wife laying with her is not an unreasonable prospect.

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… but through prayer and meditating on the mysteries of the Rosary, I came to see things very differently. Her virginity was a revelation in my heart and mind…
Oops. I neglected to say that I also did research the biblical and traditions writings as well as the prayer and meditation. :o
 
Thanks for your understanding.

What do you think my child would think if I said, ‘you can’t watch TV until your homework is done’?
Again you are using an example instead of a definition.

What part of speach is your example. It is a preposition phrase which used as a function word to indicate continuance (as of an action or condition) to a specified time until your homework is done.

However, until used by Matthew is a conjunction which indicate up to the time that : up to such time as but does not indicate anything after. In other words, you aren’t using it the same as Matthew does.
 
I know there are scriptural passages that can lead one to believe that Mary and Joseph had other childen as husband and wife.
There are references that point to her Perpetual Virginity as well.
  1. Numbers 30 shows that a vow of abstinence, even in marriage, was not unheard of in the Old Testament.
    2. St. Jerome argued for the well-known and commonly held belief in Mary’s virginity in St. Jerome’s “The Perpetual Virginity of Blessed Mary” vs Heluidius (380 A.D.)
  2. Church approved apparitions always speak of Mary as the Virgin (for example, the Virgin of Guadalupe).
What do you think?
In a word: YES!!!
 
She shares the very blood of Jesus Christ through her veins. Her womb was the vessel, the very Ark that held the Saviour of
Just a quick note .Because of the abortion debate ,may I get a little technical ,and hopefully accurate with something I thought I heard . The fetus is a separate entity (person) .The blood of the fetus is NOT the blood of the mothers-they do NOT mix. Jesus was fully a separate entity within Mary. She "carried " Him and nourished Him, which , because of His holiness, still did not require Mary to be anymore than ourselves ,when we become His temple at regeneration. Indeed , full of grace , thus obedient. Hopefully I am medically accurate .Thanks-enjoy your dialogue.
 
We all carry the genetic material to some degree of our parents, DNA. So one way or another, they are biologically linked and I believe they had a spiritual bond that transcended the physical in any case.
Just a quick note .because of the abortion debate ,may i get a little technical ,and hopefully accurate .I thought i heard that indeed .the fetus is a separate entity(person) .that is the blood of the fetus is NOT the blood of the mothers-they do NOT mix.Jesus was fully a separate entity within Mary.She "carried 'Him and nourished Him,which ,because of His holiness,still did not require Mary to be anymore than ourselves ,when we become His temple at regeneration.Indeed ,full of grace ,thus obedient. Hopefully I am medically accurate .Thanks-enjoy your dialogue.
 
You’re adept enough in theology and in the culture of the Jewish people in those days to know that “brother” was the word also for extended family and cousins.
True…it comes down to what was likely meant by the usage…just b/c it could mean “cousin”, doesn’t mean that we should conclude that it meant “cousin” in every instance
Let me ask you this, to be holistic—have you read any evidence in the early Church at all or for the next 1000 years from any theologian worth a darn any evidence that Christ had brothers?
yep Tertullian…you might have heard of him. Before Athanasius came along, Tertullian helped shape our trinitarian understandings. Here is something I have already posted elsewhere on these forums:

*They found it easier to esteem him a prophet, some great one no doubt, but one in any case who had been born. Even if there had been reason to tempt him by investigating his nativity, any other means would have been more in keeping with such temptation than the mention of those relations whom, in spite of having been born, he might by that time have lost. Tell me, does everybody who has been born, have a mother still living? Does everybody who has been born, have brothers born to him as well? Vs Marcion 4:19 *

**here Tertullian designates the brethern of Jesus to be Mary’s sons…now if you want to interpret Tertullian’s wording to mean that he believed Mary had sons by way of the pre-existing children of Joseph, it’s possible, though more than he explicitly says and unlikely given what else he said. **

*But let Apelles, as well as Marcion, hear from me what was the reason behind the reply which for the moment denied mother and brethren. Our Lord’s brethren did not believe in him: this also is included in the Gospel as it was published before Marcion’s day. His mother likewise is not shown to have adhered to him, though Martha and other Marys are often mentioned as being in his company. At this juncture their unbelief at last comes into the open. When Jesus was teaching the way of life, when he was preaching the Kingdom of God, when he was occupied in healing infirmities and sicknesses, though strangers were intent upon him these near relations were absent…‘Who is my mother, and who are my brethren?’? When Christ was preaching God and giving proof of him, was fulfilling the Law and the Prophets, and was dispelling the darkness of long ages past, was it without justification that he used this expression to castigate the unbelief of those who stood without, or at least to expose their unseasonableness in calling him back from his work?

On the Flesh of Christ 7*

** here Tertullian indicates a lack of evidence of Mary’s adherence to Jesus, thereby questioning her faithfulnesss to the Lord at the time of John 7:5…Why do venerators say God ensured to perpetual virginity of Mary? Isn’t a main reason to emphasize her absolute purity…something entirely at odds with questioning her faithfulnesss to the Lord? Do you really think that Tertullian would call into question Mary’s faithfulness and still hold to her virginty after Christ’s birth? **

*She who bare (really) bare; and although she was a virgin when she conceived, she was a wife when she brought forth her son. Now, as a wife, she was under the very law of opening the womb, wherein it was quite immaterial whether the birth of the male was by virtue of a husband’s co-operation or not; it was the same sex that opened her womb. Indeed, hers is the womb on account of which it is written of others also: Every male that opens the womb shall be called holy to the Lord.

On the Flesh of Christ 23*

** Here Tertullian declares his belief in Mary’s virginity at conception and indicates that the birth process opened her womb…no virginity through the birth process…**

*Turning now to the law, which is properly ours— that is, to the Gospel— by what kind of examples are we met, until we come to definite dogmas? Behold, there immediately present themselves to us, on the threshold as it were, the two priestesses of Christian sanctity, Monogamy and Continence: one modest, in Zechariah the priest; one absolute, in John the forerunner: one appeasing God; one preaching Christ: one proclaiming a perfect priest;…For who was more worthily to perform the initiatory rite on the body of the Lord, than flesh similar in kind to that which conceived and gave birth to that (body)? And indeed it was a virgin, about to marry once for all after her delivery, who gave birth to Christ, in order that each title of sanctity might be fulfilled in Christ’s parentage, by means of a mother who was both virgin, and wife of one husband.

On Monagamy 8 *
Here Tertullian sounds as if he is putting forward a view similar to Helvidius’s (as described by Jerome)…namely that Mary held both of the titles of sanctity by being both the virgin and the wife (a wife being a non-virgin, as being under the very law of opening the womb).

The foregoing should make it clear that Tertullian accepted Mary’s virginity at conception and rejected the idea that Mary remained a virgin through the birth process. It should also leave little doubt that Tertullian did not believe in Mary’s continued virginity after the birth of Christ. So what is it that you think?..You want to claim that Mary’s perpetual virginity (before, during and after the birth) is a 2000 year old teaching of the Church, yet somehow, either Tertullian was a) not aware of that teaching or b) thought it was not apostolic and should be rejected? Do you disregard his voice b/c he was a Montanist heretic? Why? Did the Montanists reject other apostolic teachings? Jerome highly praised Tertullian. Cyprian and Augustine were greatly influenced by him.
 
We all carry the genetic material to some degree of our parents, DNA. So one way or another, they are biologically linked and I believe they had a spiritual bond that transcended the physical in any case.
Good ,I thought of that too,but then ,and I have never pondered this ,but if half the dna was Holy Spirit for sure (no man) ,how do we know the other half was not also Holy Spirit ? Did Mary provide the egg ? I would think so in order to fulfill the prophecy of the Davidic line .or would simple carrying and birthing be enough “seed” for prophecy fulfillment ? It is getting late.
 
Tertullian is one man. He is also a heretic who became a Montanist. So he is not someone, as I said earlier, whom I put a great deal of stock in. He made some valuable contributions but his private opinions are not all 100% gospel. His willingness to embrace Montanism shows an all-too flawed man.

Read all the ECF’s I quoted earlier and look at what they said about the Blessed Virgin. Whether it was Ambrose or Augustine, Origen or St. Leo I, and a slough of others, the prevailing majority opinion was that she was Ever-Virgin. I’ll take Augustine of Hippo and Ambrose over Tertullian any day of the week.

Look at what Orthodox and Catholic scholars and theologians as well as great doctors of the Church have taught by and large for centuries. The idea that she mothered more kids after Jesus is a minority opinion to put it mildly.

Let’s just be intellectually honest. Dead honest. Seriously. Do you think there is more reasonable doubt that she WAS or WASN’T a virgin based on Scripture, the ECF’s, saints, doctors of the Church, tradition, and common sense? Seriously. Can you produce as much evidence “against” as in favor? Try arguing this from my side, play devil’s advocate (I hate that term in this context! :p) and I think intellectual honesty will lead you to the traditional view.
Many blessings.
True…it comes down to what was likely meant by the usage…just b/c it could mean “cousin”, doesn’t mean that we should conclude that it meant “cousin” in every instance

yep Tertullian…you might have heard of him. Before Athanasius came along, Tertullian helped shape our trinitarian understandings. Here is something I have already posted elsewhere on these forums:

**here Tertullian designates the brethern of Jesus to be Mary’s sons…now if you want to interpret Tertullian’s wording to mean that he believed Mary had sons by way of the pre-existing children of Joseph, it’s possible, though more than he explicitly says and unlikely given what else he said. **

On the Flesh of Christ 7
** here Tertullian indicates a lack of evidence of Mary’s adherence to Jesus, thereby questioning her faithfulnesss to the Lord at the time of John 7:5…Why do venerators say God ensured to perpetual virginity of Mary? Isn’t a main reason to emphasize her absolute purity…something entirely at odds with questioning her faithfulnesss to the Lord? Do you really think that Tertullian would call into question Mary’s faithfulness and still hold to her virginty after Christ’s birth? **

*She who bare (really) bare; and although she was a virgin when she conceived, she was a wife when she brought forth her son. Now, as a wife, she was under the very law of opening the womb, wherein it was quite immaterial whether the birth of the male was by virtue of a husband’s co-operation or not; it was the same sex that opened her womb. Indeed, hers is the womb on account of which it is written of others also: Every male that opens the womb shall be called holy to the Lord.

On the Flesh of Christ 23*

** Here Tertullian declares his belief in Mary’s virginity at conception and indicates that the birth process opened her womb…no virginity through the birth process…**

*Turning now to the law, which is properly ours— that is, to the Gospel— by what kind of examples are we met, until we come to definite dogmas? Behold, there immediately present themselves to us, on the threshold as it were, the two priestesses of Christian sanctity, Monogamy and Continence: one modest, in Zechariah the priest; one absolute, in John the forerunner: one appeasing God; one preaching Christ: one proclaiming a perfect priest;…For who was more worthily to perform the initiatory rite on the body of the Lord, than flesh similar in kind to that which conceived and gave birth to that (body)? And indeed it was a virgin, about to marry once for all after her delivery, who gave birth to Christ, in order that each title of sanctity might be fulfilled in Christ’s parentage, by means of a mother who was both virgin, and wife of one husband.

The foregoing should make it clear that Tertullian accepted Mary’s virginity at conception and rejected the idea that Mary remained a virgin through the birth process. It should also leave little doubt that Tertullian did not believe in Mary’s continued virginity after the birth of Christ. So what is it that you think?..You want to claim that Mary’s perpetual virginity (before, during and after the birth) is a 2000 year old teaching of the Church, yet somehow, either Tertullian was a) not aware of that teaching or b) thought it was not apostolic and should be rejected? Do you disregard his voice b/c he was a Montanist heretic? Why? Did the Montanists reject other apostolic teachings? Jerome highly praised ertullian. Cyprian and Augustine were greatly influenced by him.*
 
After reading this discussion it becomes really apparent that reading the Bible at face value wouldn’t lead anyone to the conclusion that Mary remained a virgin after the birth of Jesus. We Catholics sure do have to turn a lot of pretzels to defend it. It seems to me the Early Church Fathers’ defense of Mary’s ever virgin status is necessary mainly to defend their belief in priestly celibacy and the idea that celibacy is somehow a holier state than matrimony. It is interesting that this defense seemed to have come hundreds of years after the events of Mary’s life.
 
After reading this discussion it becomes really apparent that reading the Bible at face value wouldn’t lead anyone to the conclusion that Mary remained a virgin after the birth of Jesus. We Catholics sure do have to turn a lot of pretzels to defend it. It seems to me the Early Church Fathers’ defense of Mary’s ever virgin status is necessary mainly to defend their belief in priestly celibacy and the idea that celibacy is somehow a holier state than matrimony. It is interesting that this defense seemed to have come hundreds of years after the events of Mary’s life.
The ECFs didn’t waste time defending doctrines that were known and accepted and believed; they fought heresy. The heresy of Mary not being a perpetual virgin didn’t arise for several hundred years after her death.

As for celibacy being a holier state than matrimony, it’s clearly spelled out by St. Paul. It doesn’t mean that matrimony is unholy or unworthy, however. Mary, being an extraordinary woman, was called to extraordinary holiness.
 
True…it comes down to what was likely meant by the usage…just b/c it could mean “cousin”, doesn’t mean that we should conclude that it meant “cousin” in every instance

yep Tertullian…you might have heard of him. Before Athanasius came along, Tertullian helped shape our trinitarian understandings. Here is something I have already posted elsewhere on these forums:

*They found it easier to esteem him a prophet, some great one no doubt, but one in any case who had been born. Even if there had been reason to tempt him by investigating his nativity, any other means would have been more in keeping with such temptation than the mention of those relations whom, in spite of having been born, he might by that time have lost. Tell me, does everybody who has been born, have a mother still living? Does everybody who has been born, have brothers born to him as well? Vs Marcion 4:19 *

**here Tertullian designates the brethern of Jesus to be Mary’s sons…now if you want to interpret Tertullian’s wording to mean that he believed Mary had sons by way of the pre-existing children of Joseph, it’s possible, though more than he explicitly says and unlikely given what else he said. **

*But let Apelles, as well as Marcion, hear from me what was the reason behind the reply which for the moment denied mother and brethren. Our Lord’s brethren did not believe in him: this also is included in the Gospel as it was published before Marcion’s day. His mother likewise is not shown to have adhered to him, though Martha and other Marys are often mentioned as being in his company. At this juncture their unbelief at last comes into the open. When Jesus was teaching the way of life, when he was preaching the Kingdom of God, when he was occupied in healing infirmities and sicknesses, though strangers were intent upon him these near relations were absent…‘Who is my mother, and who are my brethren?’? When Christ was preaching God and giving proof of him, was fulfilling the Law and the Prophets, and was dispelling the darkness of long ages past, was it without justification that he used this expression to castigate the unbelief of those who stood without, or at least to expose their unseasonableness in calling him back from his work?

On the Flesh of Christ 7*

** here Tertullian indicates a lack of evidence of Mary’s adherence to Jesus, thereby questioning her faithfulnesss to the Lord at the time of John 7:5…Why do venerators say God ensured to perpetual virginity of Mary? Isn’t a main reason to emphasize her absolute purity…something entirely at odds with questioning her faithfulnesss to the Lord? Do you really think that Tertullian would call into question Mary’s faithfulness and still hold to her virginty after Christ’s birth? **

*She who bare (really) bare; and although she was a virgin when she conceived, she was a wife when she brought forth her son. Now, as a wife, she was under the very law of opening the womb, wherein it was quite immaterial whether the birth of the male was by virtue of a husband’s co-operation or not; it was the same sex that opened her womb. Indeed, hers is the womb on account of which it is written of others also: Every male that opens the womb shall be called holy to the Lord.

On the Flesh of Christ 23*

** Here Tertullian declares his belief in Mary’s virginity at conception and indicates that the birth process opened her womb…no virginity through the birth process…**

*Turning now to the law, which is properly ours— that is, to the Gospel— by what kind of examples are we met, until we come to definite dogmas? Behold, there immediately present themselves to us, on the threshold as it were, the two priestesses of Christian sanctity, Monogamy and Continence: one modest, in Zechariah the priest; one absolute, in John the forerunner: one appeasing God; one preaching Christ: one proclaiming a perfect priest;…For who was more worthily to perform the initiatory rite on the body of the Lord, than flesh similar in kind to that which conceived and gave birth to that (body)? And indeed it was a virgin, about to marry once for all after her delivery, who gave birth to Christ, in order that each title of sanctity might be fulfilled in Christ’s parentage, by means of a mother who was both virgin, and wife of one husband.

On Monagamy 8 *
Here Tertullian sounds as if he is putting forward a view similar to Helvidius’s (as described by Jerome)…namely that Mary held both of the titles of sanctity by being both the virgin and the wife (a wife being a non-virgin, as being under the very law of opening the womb).

The foregoing should make it clear that Tertullian accepted Mary’s virginity at conception and rejected the idea that Mary remained a virgin through the birth process. It should also leave little doubt that Tertullian did not believe in Mary’s continued virginity after the birth of Christ. So what is it that you think?..You want to claim that Mary’s perpetual virginity (before, during and after the birth) is a 2000 year old teaching of the Church, yet somehow, either Tertullian was a) not aware of that teaching or b) thought it was not apostolic and should be rejected? Do you disregard his voice b/c he was a Montanist heretic? Why? Did the Montanists reject other apostolic teachings? Jerome highly praised Tertullian. Cyprian and Augustine were greatly influenced by him.
So your entire argument is based off one individual? Tertullian debunks Mary’s perpetual virginity? He later followed the likings of Montanism, yet still defened against Gnostics.
 
Hey, that was my line! 😛 I already said that. You stole my line! 😛
So your entire argument is based off one individual? Tertullian debunks Mary’s perpetual virginity? He later followed the likings of Montanism, yet still defened against Gnostics.
 
The ECFs didn’t waste time defending doctrines that were known and accepted and believed; they fought heresy. The heresy of Mary not being a perpetual virgin didn’t arise for several hundred years after her death.

As for celibacy being a holier state than matrimony, it’s clearly spelled out by St. Paul. It doesn’t mean that matrimony is unholy or unworthy, however. Mary, being an extraordinary woman, was called to extraordinary holiness.
In 1 Corinthians 7:25 Paul specifically says regarding his thoughts that he has no command from the Lord regarding these things. It is his personal opinion. I am not sure it isn’t proper to conclude that the heresy that Mary was a perpetual virgin arose several hundreds of years before the Fathers commented on it and they just were following a heretical tradition. It’s hard to say which came first.
 
Let’s just be intellectually honest. Dead honest. Seriously. Do you think there is more reasonable doubt that she WAS or WASN’T a virgin based on Scripture, the ECF’s, saints, doctors of the Church, tradition, and common sense? Seriously. Can you produce as much evidence “against” as in favor? Try arguing this from my side, play devil’s advocate (I hate that term in this context! :p) and I think intellectual honesty will lead you to the traditional view.
Many blessings.
Having read many accounts of Marian apparitions, does her being a virgin or not a virgin really have any significance? She remains the virgin Mary, the mother of our Savior and Redeemer, Jesus.

The concept of virgins or virgin women setting themselves apart in devotion to God has been prevalent within Christianity since the time of Paul. Justin referred to it in his writings. We don’t have a Biblical reference to when Joseph died. Had he died early, it would be more easy to assert her virginity. Regardless, we have the witness of so many that Mary refers to herself as a virgin. Bernadette, and all the others, either saw Mary or they did not. If they saw her, she is the Blessed Mother and perpetual virgin.
 
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