I did a little research and it seems that Nick’s view of regeneration is the one held by several prominent Calvinist theologians and apologists, including R.C. Sproul, James White, and Wayne Grudem. Though it seems that there is a dispute among Calvinists
when this regenearion occurs:
calvinistflyswatter.blogspot.com/2006/05/southern-seminary-welcomed-wayne.html
The following link is Wayne Grudem’s explanation of regeneration:
monergism.com/thethreshold/articles/onsite/regeneration_grudem.html
Grudem makes reference to Cornelius, and cites Acts 10:44 as the moment Cornelius is regenerated:
**Effective calling is thus God the Father speaking powerfully to us, and regeneration is God the Father and God the Holy Spirit working powerfully in us, to make us alive. These two things must have happened simultaneously as Peter was preaching the gospel to the household of Cornelius, for while he was still preaching "the Holy Spirit fell on all who heard the word’ (Acts 10:44). **
The stark black and white scenario created by this view of regeneration conflicts with the account the Bible presents of Cornelius. If man
prior to regeneration cannot seek God, please Him, and submit to His law, and regeneration is the equivalent of drawing (a view upheld by Grudem), then how is it that Cornelius feared God, continuosly
sought Him through prayer, and God was pleased with his prayers and almsgiving? By identifying divine activity within man prior to faith and repentance with regeneration, Calvinists are now faced with the possibility that Cornelius was able to seek God by his own natural powers, which contradicts Calvinism’s total depravity and also contradicts Catholic theology. But if the
only divine action that can cause a man to even
seek God is regeneration - since regeneration and drawing mean the same thing - then Cornelius’s case demonstrates that Calvinists are incorrect. Either they admit that Cornelius sought God under divine influence but without being regenerated, which would contradict the drawing = regeneration argument, or that Cornelius was able to do it on his own, which would contradict total depravity.
Moreover, if God is able to cause man to seek Him without necessarily regenerating him, then this also raises another question: how is man
willing to seek God without the radical change that occurs in Calvinist regeneration. How is man able to seek God
without having a “new heart and new spirit,” without being “made alive” in regeneration?
God Bless,
Michael