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Please don’t ridicule teetotallers like me. Thank you.
I converted to Catholicism from evangelical Protestantism in 2004. Believe it or not, alcohol was and remains my most difficult hurdle to overcome in Catholicism.
I agree that there is nothing sinful about moderate drinking and that the Bible doesn’t forbid it.
I personally find it disgusting and nauseating. The stuff smells like pee or sweat, and I hate being around it. In case you are wondering, I don’t do the Communion wine. Yes, I know it is the Blood of Christ, but only sacramentally. The stuff retains the appearance, smell, and taste of alcohol.
No one in my family drinks and no one has drank alcohol for many generations, at least six generations back. Actually a few people in the family have drunk alcohol, and guess what?!–they became skid-row alcoholics and died of alcohol-related causes at an early age. Everyone else in the family is cancer-free, heart-disease free, and lives until their 90s.
Our family does have mental illness (psychosis–the kind where people think they are peanuts, like one of my uncles) running in the family, which perhaps is linked to the alcohol problems.
Alcohol is poison to our family, and I choose, like almost everyone else in my family, to avoid it. I don’t want to become an alcoholic, although IMO, I probably am an alcoholic, one who lives abstinently.
My dad always said that the reason he avoids alcohol is that people say and do foolish things when they drink. He used to go to the bars with his friends and get free food and drink from the bartender. His friends would confess things to my dad while they were buzzed–things like “I’m having an affair,” or “I’m dipping into the office petty cash,” and after they sobered up, they would ask my dad if they had said anything stupid, and he would say, “Oh, yes.” Then he had POWER over them. And he used it to his advantage.
No wonder drinking people don’t care for non-drinkers, right?
Because of alcohol, I hated college, and so does my daughter. Before she went to college, a CATHOLIC college, BTW, we tried to tell her that 99% of the students are just there to drink and party and she tried to tell us that things have changed since we went to school. She’s been there three years and hates it. She says that she has never met a decent MAN there, because all they are interested in is drinking as much as possible and that they don’t know how to have a conversation or do anything besides drink. The women aren’t much better. She was one of the most popular girls in high school, but now she has only one good friend. And no, she doesn’t walk around with her nose in the air around the drunks. But in college, when someone doesn’t drink, they are ostracized. No one wants to be friends with someone who doesn’t party.
Men,you should be ASHAMED of yourselves!! Way to go, Catholic men! My daughter is not Catholic, and by acting like jerks and placing alcohol consumption above all else, you are giving her a good reason to avoid Catholicism.
My other daughter attended an alcohol-free college. Yes, students do drink off-campus, but the majority of students who attend the college are non-drinkers and the no-drinking rules are strictly enforced by the college. She had a great time in college and made lots of friends.
One of my best uncles, a dear man who spent 10 years working his way through seminary, and his wonderful wife, were killed at a young age by a stinkin’ drunk driver. Most of the people who drink and drive are not alcoholics and I’ll bet that many of them don’t abuse alcohol. It is the ALCOHOL that kills on the road, not the driver. If people don’t drink alcohol, it’s not an issue behind the wheel of a car.
Personally, I think that consumption of alcohol is somewhat inconsistent with a pro-life stance, considering that half of all accidents have alcohol as a factor.
I think it’s sad that people need alcohol to have a good time. My family always has a good time. We don’t need alcohol. We enjoy talking and laughing and life. A good meal, music, laughter–these are enough for us.
I have tried to give you several of the many reasons why I avoid alcohol and its users. You’ll notice that I didn’t mention the Bible. My reasons have nothing to do with Christianity. So please don’t make fun of those who choose to abstain. It’s not always blind fundamentalism.
I converted to Catholicism from evangelical Protestantism in 2004. Believe it or not, alcohol was and remains my most difficult hurdle to overcome in Catholicism.
I agree that there is nothing sinful about moderate drinking and that the Bible doesn’t forbid it.
I personally find it disgusting and nauseating. The stuff smells like pee or sweat, and I hate being around it. In case you are wondering, I don’t do the Communion wine. Yes, I know it is the Blood of Christ, but only sacramentally. The stuff retains the appearance, smell, and taste of alcohol.
No one in my family drinks and no one has drank alcohol for many generations, at least six generations back. Actually a few people in the family have drunk alcohol, and guess what?!–they became skid-row alcoholics and died of alcohol-related causes at an early age. Everyone else in the family is cancer-free, heart-disease free, and lives until their 90s.
Our family does have mental illness (psychosis–the kind where people think they are peanuts, like one of my uncles) running in the family, which perhaps is linked to the alcohol problems.
Alcohol is poison to our family, and I choose, like almost everyone else in my family, to avoid it. I don’t want to become an alcoholic, although IMO, I probably am an alcoholic, one who lives abstinently.
My dad always said that the reason he avoids alcohol is that people say and do foolish things when they drink. He used to go to the bars with his friends and get free food and drink from the bartender. His friends would confess things to my dad while they were buzzed–things like “I’m having an affair,” or “I’m dipping into the office petty cash,” and after they sobered up, they would ask my dad if they had said anything stupid, and he would say, “Oh, yes.” Then he had POWER over them. And he used it to his advantage.
No wonder drinking people don’t care for non-drinkers, right?
Because of alcohol, I hated college, and so does my daughter. Before she went to college, a CATHOLIC college, BTW, we tried to tell her that 99% of the students are just there to drink and party and she tried to tell us that things have changed since we went to school. She’s been there three years and hates it. She says that she has never met a decent MAN there, because all they are interested in is drinking as much as possible and that they don’t know how to have a conversation or do anything besides drink. The women aren’t much better. She was one of the most popular girls in high school, but now she has only one good friend. And no, she doesn’t walk around with her nose in the air around the drunks. But in college, when someone doesn’t drink, they are ostracized. No one wants to be friends with someone who doesn’t party.
Men,you should be ASHAMED of yourselves!! Way to go, Catholic men! My daughter is not Catholic, and by acting like jerks and placing alcohol consumption above all else, you are giving her a good reason to avoid Catholicism.
My other daughter attended an alcohol-free college. Yes, students do drink off-campus, but the majority of students who attend the college are non-drinkers and the no-drinking rules are strictly enforced by the college. She had a great time in college and made lots of friends.
One of my best uncles, a dear man who spent 10 years working his way through seminary, and his wonderful wife, were killed at a young age by a stinkin’ drunk driver. Most of the people who drink and drive are not alcoholics and I’ll bet that many of them don’t abuse alcohol. It is the ALCOHOL that kills on the road, not the driver. If people don’t drink alcohol, it’s not an issue behind the wheel of a car.
Personally, I think that consumption of alcohol is somewhat inconsistent with a pro-life stance, considering that half of all accidents have alcohol as a factor.
I think it’s sad that people need alcohol to have a good time. My family always has a good time. We don’t need alcohol. We enjoy talking and laughing and life. A good meal, music, laughter–these are enough for us.
I have tried to give you several of the many reasons why I avoid alcohol and its users. You’ll notice that I didn’t mention the Bible. My reasons have nothing to do with Christianity. So please don’t make fun of those who choose to abstain. It’s not always blind fundamentalism.