The Church has not said – and will not say – that anyone is in, or is going to, hell. They will affirm that so-and-so is in heaven (canonization), but not the other.
Regardless of the doctrine of Extra Ecclesiam Nulli Salus – even taken to the Feeneyite limit – we do not know that any of the billions of those who came before us are in hell – regardless of their belief, religions, sins, etc.
We do not know what happens at the point of death – what measures the Lord may take, in His infinite wisdom, in combinations with His infinite love, infinite justice, and infinite mercy. We do not have the right to put limits on God’s authority to save or condemn,
as He sees fit.
Remember, we’re talking about a God who became flesh, and offered Himself up as a perfect sacrifice. Is there any sin that is not nullified – not once, but seventy times seven times – by the offering of Our God as scapegoat? So with this infinite supply of Redemption, shall not God do as He pleases when you or I or anyone else stands before Him?
When it comes to believers and non-believers, there are two parables I like (I can’t remember chapter and verse, but I’ll give you the Reader’s Digest version):
]A landowner asks his two sons to go work in the fields. The first says, “Sure, Pop! Love to!”, but buzzes of to the camel races. The second son says, "**** that! I’m off to have some fun!" but goes out and works in the fields anyways. So which son is doing the will of the father? The one who says “Yes, Yes”, but does the opposite, or the one who says, “No, No”, yet does what is demanded?
]At the Judgement, Jesus is there with the sheep and the goats. And the goats see Jesus and look at the sheep and go “Pwned! Epic fail!” and the sheep go "Aw, crp. We’re busted." Jesus says to the sheep, “Go through the pearly gates! Because when I was thirsty, you gave Me to drink…etc”, to which they answered, surprised, “Umm…since when?” And He replied, “Whenever you did so to the least of My brothers…” And He turns to the goats and says, “OK! The Roti Shop for you! I was thirsty, you never gave me a drink, etc…” And they go, “Hey, whoa! Did too!” And He replies, “No, you didn’t, because when you refused the least of My brothers, you refused Me.”
In the first scenario, imagine the first son to be (someone who claims to be) a Catholic, but who does not do the will of God. Imagine the second son to be, say, an atheist: he hears the word of God, but ignores it (or thinks he does, anyway). Yet he goes out and does the will of God in his actions, because he believes them to be right. How do we know that God is not slowly calling him, through his heart? Perhaps the atheist is not turned away from the Faith by God, but by God’s followers.
In the second scenario, it’s pretty much the same. The goats are believers who did not do as Christ demanded; the second were unbelievers who thought they hadn’t, but actually had.
Now, I believe in EENS, that no salvation is possible except under the umbrella of the Church"…but I also leave it up to God who makes the final decision at the end of our lives, how wide He spreads that umbrella.
As Catholics, we want all people to partake of the fullness of truth that subsists within the Church that Jesus founded almost 2000 years ago. But once you’re dead, you are commended to the mercy of God – and we hope that we, as Christians, have done everything we can to help you on your journey, and not to have caused you to stumble (or else one should get fitted for a millstone scapular).
I’m not sure if I have made my point, or made a total bollix of it. I’m sure someone will let me know. 