That’s just it, the married man does not really serve the Lord, not fully anyway:
Clearly, Scripture PREFERS a celibate clergy.
Peter’s “wife”: Scripture refers to Peter’s mother-in-law, so the presumption is that Peter was or had been married. But we have Gospel testimony from Peter himself that he (and the other apostles) gave up everything…including wives…to follow Christ:
If Peter did not, then Peter would not have been fully serving Christ per Paul in 1 Cor. 7:32-33
1 Tim. 3 & Bishops: This does not necessarily mean that Bishops were currently married. Paul specificually refers to the wives of Deacons (1 Tim. 3:11) but not so the Bishops’ supposed wives. Paul most likely means that Bishops should not have had multiple marriages/divorces…for how could a series of marriages/divorces show that they were qualified? (You might ask that of the various divorced/remarried Protestant Pastors.) It also means no remarriage after becoming a widower…not just one wife at a time.
Again, if Paul meant that Bishops HAD/SHOULD be married, that would make them non-servers of the Lord per 1 Cor. 7: 32-33.
The typical Protestant interpretation of 1 Tim. 3 is absolutely ridiculous. It would make the clergy
EXCLUSIVE to those who do not serve the Lord (married men); while
EXCLUDING from the clergy those who do serve the Lord (unmarried men). 1 Cor. 7:32-33.
Finally, compare the Bishops in 1 Tim 3 with the widows in chap. 4. They are also to have been married once, but they are widows, not currently married. I have an old article: Nuns in the New Testament Church?
shasta.com/sphaws/cathview-nuns.html (Linked from my old website)
The real question is this: If Protestantism is supposed to be the true Church or expression of Christianity, how come virtually none of their leaders are willing to give up everything…including wives…to follow Christ and fully serve the Lord?
Fact is, Scripture prefes a celibate clergy and to do away with it would relegate the Holy Catholic Church to a second class clergy. (It’s not perfect, but the best that can be had.)