Cell phones at Mass

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…But how about when it’s the priest’s phone?! At the parish I belonged to a few years ago the priest used to remind people before the service started to switch their phones off. One memorable Sunday, during his homily, a cell phone rang persistently, the ringing coming from the Vestry, one embarrassed priest!

On another occasion, when I was working as a secretary at the same church, one of the priests was going to celebrate a weekday Eucharist at one of the chapels in the district. Just after he left the office, the chapelwarden phoned to ask for some more candles to be sent out. I quickly phoned the priest to ask him to wait while I got the candles as he was probably still in the parking lot. Now how was I to know that he was in the Vestry, getting his prayer book, with his phone on its loudest setting, while there was a service taking place in the church and the door between the church and the vestry was open to get the benefit of the breeze.
Reminds me of a daily Mass a year ago.

I was sitting in the front pew. During the consecration, I heard a buzz. It wasn’t real loud, but I could hear it. At the time, I didn’t have a cell phone that could be put on vibrate. So I didn’t recognize the sound. The buzz stopped. Then a minute or so later, it started again. Then it stopped. 🤷

After Mass, Father asked if I heard his cell phone. He had put in on vibrate, like always, but had put it in his pocket with change or keys or something that gave it something to vibrate against. He figured I heard it, since I looked really confused when it buzzed.
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Everyone can forget once or twice.
 
If I wish to contact someone who I think may be at Mass or some other place where the ring would disturb people then I usually text them.

Then even if they’ve forgotten to set their phone to vibrate it usually only rings once.
 
I always turn my phone’s sound off. But, as I unfortunately figured out, it doesn’t apply to alarm clock in my phone model! And one time during Mass, my alarm clock started ringing (and it has VERY annoying sound 🙂 I don’t already remember why I’ve put in on for evening time - usually it’s set for morning. I was confused a lot, of course, and felt stupid. Of course I turned it off as fast as possible.
(in my phone model, turning it off doesn’t work with alarm clock - the alarm rings anyway 🙂
(I don’t have a car to leave my phone there! 🙂
But as for incoming calls, it’s of course annoying when people answer them in the church, or let them ring without turning the sound off immediately…

Once I’ve talked by phone in the church, but it was in a moment when the Mass haven’t started yet. I was giving directions to my friend, how to reach the church, while holding a seat for her (the church was crowded). And she found the church and got there in time. And she enjoyed the Mass, and now seriously thinks about being baptized… so I believe the phone was used for good! 🙂
 
*It could be forgetting…could be rudeness. I wouldn’t jump to either thought, but I wonder what we all did before cell phones? 🤷 I mean…we did manage to get through our day without talking to someone every half hour. 😛 I HATE my cell phone, if it were up to me, my dh and I wouldn’t have one…however, I carry one because I travel on the highway a lot to get to work…so, for safety reasons. But, wow, what did we all do before these things??? :o (and before pagers?)
 
To be fair, I also knew a priest whose cell phone rang repeatedly during Mass. He tried to unobtrusively flip it open and shut to cut off the call; but they kept calling back.
Now, that’s just truly messed up. No wonder people think its okay to bring the ringing phone in church.
 
As large as our parish is, I’m surprised I don’t hear them more often. But, for the most part, we have very few cell phones going off during mass. My priest’s cell phone rang while I was making my first confession though. He did answer it, and then apologized for the interruption. It turned out to be someone calling him to come to the hospital for last rites.

I was afraid God was calling him to tell him, “Don’t absolve this one…”😃
 
The interesting thing, is that when we have large group meetings here at work, it’s requested that the cell phones be placed on vibrate…and NO ONE’s phone goes off. Gosh, is mass less reverential than our places of employment? If you can shut your phone off during a conference, or meeting–do so at mass. Please. :thankyou:
 
🙂 Similar experiences here…

I usually attend the 7AM Sunday mass at my parish. I have never heard a cell phone go off once. I am 49 YO and one of the younger attendees. So, that may have something to do with it, too. I attended the 11AM Easter Sunday Mass (totally jam packed with people which was great). Many many cell phone vibrating and ringing thru out the service despite the Deacon asking all to turn off before the start of the service.

For me, it’s a distraction. Kinda like a kid fidgeting or infant crying during the service. People are messy but it’s part of the joy of attending the mass in a community…
 
As large as our parish is, I’m surprised I don’t hear them more often. But, for the most part, we have very few cell phones going off during mass. My priest’s cell phone rang while I was making my first confession though. He did answer it, and then apologized for the interruption. It turned out to be someone calling him to come to the hospital for last rites.

I was afraid God was calling him to tell him, “Don’t absolve this one…”😃
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

I think I might have run for the hills if this had happened in my first confession.
 
I rarely, if ever, forget to turn mine off because of a most embarrassing incident that occured several years ago.

I was in the choir (I think it might’ve been a big feast, such as Christmas) while my purse was in a pew several feet away. My phone started to ring loudly during the beginning of the consecration prayer and I couldn’t get to it. The people in the pew behind me started looking for it since no one stopped it. I was so embarrased. A few minutes later, during the actual elevation of the Eucharist, it started to ring again.

Never again.
 
*It could be forgetting…could be rudeness. I wouldn’t jump to either thought, but I wonder what we all did before cell phones? 🤷 I mean…we did manage to get through our day without talking to someone every half hour. 😛 I HATE my cell phone, if it were up to me, my dh and I wouldn’t have one…however, I carry one because I travel on the highway a lot to get to work…so, for safety reasons. But, wow, what did we all do before these things??? :o (and before pagers?) *
…and before post-it notes and copy machines and microwaves and GPS units…
 
The interesting thing, is that when we have large group meetings here at work, it’s requested that the cell phones be placed on vibrate…and NO ONE’s phone goes off. Gosh, is mass less reverential than our places of employment? If you can shut your phone off during a conference, or meeting–do so at mass. Please. :thankyou:
We have the same rule at my job, yet all that happens is people jump out of their seat when the little guy starts to vibrate or they go click happy on their crack-berry responding to an e-mail.😃

The leader of song makes an announcement at every Mass to turn off cell phones, pagers, etc, yet accidents do happen.
 
I’m not ashamed to say it. I think life before cell phones was a lot suckier and I’m glad that we have cell phones.

I would like to see someone re-write the Nancy Drew mysteries with the additions of cell phones and computers. Most of her mysteries would have been solvable in half an hour with these two inventions. And Hannah Gruen could have stopped worrying because whenever Nancy got thrown into cisterns or locked in attics by the bad guys, she could have just taken out the cell phone and called up Carson Drew and said, “Hi, Dad, I’m in a jam!”

It’s wonderful to be able to call home and ask, “Do you need anything at the store?” before I drive all the way home and discover that we are out of milk or cat food.

It’s wonderful when my husband can call me and say, “I’m sorry I’m late, but someone rear-ended me. I’m fine, but it’s going to take a while.” Back in the “old days,” I would have been worried sick.

And when my kids were teenagers, it sure was nice to get a call telling me why they were going to be late.

Last summer when my daughter and husband were driving out to California to settle her on her new college campus, they decided to call one of the famous lodges at the Grand Canyon on the off chance that there would be a room available (website said, "A year’s notice necessary). Well, guess what, there was a room that had just become available, and my husband and daughter got it and slept overlooking the Grand Canyon instead of in a motel 30 miles away. The power of cell phones!

My 80-year-old father just got a cell phone and he loves it. He feels a lot more secure.

As for leaving them on during Mass, c’mon, everyone! 🙂 We’re human beings with frail minds and faulty memories, and we forget. It doesn’t take much to get most of us off of our routine. We get tied up in traffic, or a child distracts us , or our car makes a funny noise and scares us, and then we forget all about leaving the cell phone in the car or turning it to silent mode before we walk into the church building.

C’mon, it’s no different than burping or farting. Sometimes it happens in public even at Mass. We don’t make a big fuss about it and say, “How irreverent!” or “People shouldn’t eat beans on Mass days.” We just accept our limitations as human beings and put up with each other and weaknesses, knowing that NEXT TIME, IT MIGHT BE US! :eek:

IMO, when a cell phone goes off during a religious time (Mass, Confession, Bible study, etc.) we should smile and say, “Someday, we’ll have new bodies in heaven and our brains will always work the way they should.”
 
It seems that someone’s cell always goes off at Mass. If it is a woman, it often is somewhere in the depths of her purse and so it takes a longer time to quiet. I leave my cell in my car when I go into Church. Why is it so difficult to remember to turn the cells off or put them in silent (or vibrating) mode?

Last week a lady in Church had her cell go off on Monday during the homily. On Tuesday the same lady’s phone went off during the first reading. She quieted the phone, but it went off again during the Psalm. On Wednesday…you guessed it.

:mad:
In our Church, before mass begins , they ask everyone to turn their cell phones off, but there are some people who have cell phones & are new to them & maybe they don`t know how to turn them off, I was one of them for awhile, why is it that so many people have so little patience with one another, I dont call that Christian Charity at all. Always looking for the fault to find, what a way to live
 
In our Church, before mass begins , they ask everyone to turn their cell phones off, but there are some people who have cell phones & are new to them & maybe they don`t know how to turn them off, I was one of them for awhile, why is it that so many people have so little patience with one another, I dont call that Christian Charity at all. Always looking for the fault to find, what a way to live
My Church doesn’t make the announcement, but I have been to Churches that do. I realize that some people might not know how to turn a phone off. I also realize that mistakes happen (I make mistakes all the time). I’m not persecuting anyone here or saying that I’m better than anyone. This isn’t about lack of charity, but about reverence in the presence of the Lord. I’d be willing to bet that most of these people would be able to turn off their phones if they were having dinner with the governor or president, but when they are having a meal with the King of Heaven…

If someone doesn’t know how to turn the phone off, they could possibly ask someone else or even leave their phone in the car (that’s what I do). If someone needs their phone to be on, maybe they could sit in the back and slip out when the phone goes off. It seems that most people know how to shut their phone off after it rings so I would think that they could figure out how to do it before Mass. Christian Charity works both ways, right?
 
My Church doesn’t make the announcement, but I have been to Churches that do. I realize that some people might not know how to turn a phone off. I also realize that mistakes happen (I make mistakes all the time). I’m not persecuting anyone here or saying that I’m better than anyone. This isn’t about lack of charity, but about reverence in the presence of the Lord. I’d be willing to bet that most of these people would be able to turn off their phones if they were having dinner with the governor or president, but when they are having a meal with the King of Heaven…

If someone doesn’t know how to turn the phone off, they could possibly ask someone else or even leave their phone in the car (that’s what I do). If someone needs their phone to be on, maybe they could sit in the back and slip out when the phone goes off. It seems that most people know how to shut their phone off after it rings so I would think that they could figure out how to do it before Mass. Christian Charity works both ways, right?
I believe in giving my brothers a break, more than one if necessary, outside in real time, all I do is hear The catholics complaining about this or that, When I Attend mass I always see something beautiful & Moving, I am not there to see how much fault i can find with things,& In my Opinion, I don`t think the Lord would care if a cell phone rang
 
I believe in giving my brothers a break, more than one if necessary, outside in real time, all I do is hear The catholics complaining about this or that, When I Attend mass I always see something beautiful & Moving, I am not there to see how much fault i can find with things,& In my Opinion, I don`t think the Lord would care if a cell phone rang
I also do not go to Mass to try to find fault and assign blame to my fellow Brothers and Sisters in Christ. I too give my brothers and sisters a break, and more than one if necessary. I’m not unforgiving here. I realize that the Lord isn’t dwelling on the fact that people keep their phones on during the Holy Mass. But none of that makes this any less rude. If I suffered from flatulence and let it go freely at Mass, it would distract those around me and it would be rude. Mistakes happen, I realize that.
 
I also do not go to Mass to try to find fault and assign blame to my fellow Brothers and Sisters in Christ. I too give my brothers and sisters a break, and more than one if necessary. I’m not unforgiving here. I realize that the Lord isn’t dwelling on the fact that people keep their phones on during the Holy Mass. But none of that makes this any less rude. If I suffered from flatulence and let it go freely at Mass, it would distract those around me and it would be rude. Mistakes happen, I realize that.
There is not one person who attends mass that has not had to let some flatulence out, there is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with passing gas, although some catholics would be appalled cause they dont have any sense
 
There is not one person who attends mass that has not had to let some flatulence out, there is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with passing gas, although some catholics would be appalled cause they dont have any sense
I guess asking for a little reverence IS asking too much:blush:
 
Does anyone know how did this discussion went from cell phones to passing wind? :confused:
 
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