Contarini:
True enough, but that’s not the claim that is often made.
Maybe I’m too literal, but my understanding is that Christ founded ONE Church at the Ascension. That Church He founded could not have been relying on Scriptures not yet written for their authority.
Contarini:
In the 20 years or so between the Ascension and the writing of I Thessalonians (or whatever the first NT book was), the Church still had the Scriptures because it had the OT.
At that time the Christian Church had Scriptures with no mention of Christ’s death, resurrection and ascension. Certainly it could not, at that time, be a Christian Church based on Scripture.
Contarini:
That’s both naive and heartless.
Not at all. Because I love them I do not want to encourage them to engage in sinful behavior.
Contarini:
You know perfectly well that sexual passion can lead people to do all sorts of foolish and unhealthy things.
And your position assumes that people are animals limited by their impulses. If they would accept God’s grace they could overcome those temptations. Furthermore where else do we encourage people to enage in risky behavior and simply take precautions? I missed the “Just Smoke Filtered Cigarettes” campaign. Or the “Well, if you are going to use drugs stick with pot or coke instead of meth.” Or “Drink and drive slow with your hazards on so everyone else stays out of your way.” Or “Well, at least make sure the safety is on before you point that at someone.”
Contarini:
- Strong animal passions impel us to engage in sexual activity. No similar passion impels us to use condoms.
Do you believe fornication is sinful?
Contarini:
People who commit fornication are not necessarily saying “I don’t agree with the teaching of the Church”
No, they are saying “I don’t care what God says.”
Contarini:
Rather, they are swept away by their passions. Procuring a condom, however, is a deliberate act, and the Church (rightly) teaches that deliberate acts are far more sinful than acts committed under the sway of passion. It’s my opinion (based on at least some experience) that some Catholics have a tendency to presume on this, giving themelves a certain amount of license to sin under the influence of passion while refraining from doing deliberate acts such as buying condoms.
The condoms are deliberately purchased with the intention of committing (or wanting to commit) the sexual act, which makes it just as deliberate. They may be in the heat of passion, but they went there willingly.Everyone tries to justify their sins.
Contarini:
- Many men don’t like to use condoms, and will leap at any excuse not to.
If they were only engaging in the sexual act within the confines of their marriage, it wouldn’t matter.
Contarini:
But all I’m suggesting is that the Church should follow the example of St. Thomas Aquinas and refrain from attempting to influence governmental policy and social mores on this point.
IMO, there is a difference between government policy and social mores. Government policy relies upon force of arms for compliance and, ultimately, a willingness to kill violators. I’d agree that some issues do not reach this level. Condom use is probably one. But I’m not aware of the Magesterium advocating that SWAT teams storm drug stores with automatic weapons, and a willingness to use, them to seize condoms.
OTOH, social mores do not rely on violence for compliance. People can choose to comply or not. The Church is called to be a light to the world. If she is not supposed to try to evangelize people and bring them God’s word, just what exactly is she supposed to do?
So, I see nothing wrong with Catholics and like minded others from boycotting a drug store because they sell condoms, pornography, etc. I think our priests and bishops should be exhorting us to. I don’t think it would be right to drag a pharmacist out and lynch him, then raze the store, because he was selling condoms, etc.
Contarini:
In other words, teach chastity all you like, but don’t prevent secular organizations from giving condoms to those who disregard your teaching.
You’ll have to give an example of where the Church had the force to prevent a secular organization from distributing condoms. And even so, it would only make the method wrong, not the teaching.
Contarini:
And of course the really difficult cases are those of married people when one spouse has AIDS. It seems to me that both the duty of preserving life and the obligation to pay the “marriage debt” are more important than the prohibition of condoms.
A married couple has an obligation to be open to life when engaged in the sexual act. There is no obligation to take part in the sexual act - Mary and Joesph didn’t.