Hmm, I empathize with your frustration but not your personalization of the situation. This is not being done to you.
In our area we’ve closed three parishes, merged three more into one big parish with just two priests and there are two more parishes to come on board when their shared pastor dies. Blunt but true. I strongly suspect that when that happens the church I prefer to attend will be closed.
This same area used to have enough Catholics and enough priests to support ten thriving parishes with at least two priests, if not three, serving each one. Now we have four priests covering the same geographical area. Less Catholics and less priests. I’m fortunate that I live in a more populated area in our state. A good number of the priests in our diocese have hundred-mile commutes between churches on the weekends and spend part of the week in one parish and part of the week in another. Think of how that makes for scheduling of funerals, much less weekend masses?
I don’t like to think about the church I prefer closing. I must admit that I’m attached to it and to the ministries I’m involved with there. I’m more worried, though, about my bishop and priests and how much pressure they are under to serve an ever increasingly ungrateful flock.
The source of the problem goes deep. Our contraceptive society no longer believes in marriage much less family, which is where vocations come from. When we pray for vocations, pray for vocations not only to the priesthood but also to marriage. They go hand-in-hand.