I find that interesting, as when he was being ordained, it was for the entire church, not one parish. He freely moves from parish to parish, with needs for each being addressed. Of course, he always is in obedience to our pastor, and seeks this movement with his permission. They do maintain a serving schedule and he tries not to get in the way of that. But he also feels he is serving the entire community, regardless of location. We are considering a large relocation and where he is serving is not even in the picture. Perhaps there is a difference between the legality and actual practice - it has not ever come up. He used to attend daily orthros at a different parish because it was near his work - he still serves there on a somewhat “as needed” basis, even though it is not close to our home, nor is it our home parish. Our parish has members from the greater suburban area, because there are so few Melkite parishes; you have to commute!! :>)
I didn’t even think of the terminology as regards to the priesthood! I have been eastern so long, I totally forgot how the latin rite has that designation - it is a foreign concept in the east. The door to priestly ordination is always open to my husband; however, I doubt it would ever be pursued. If it was, his ordination would not take place on US soil but at the Patriarchate, out of courtesy to the latin church & the agreements made with them regarding the married priesthood. He would not seek ordination unless our personal situation changed - our kids were all financially independent and he was retired with some sort of retirement income, or if I have passed away. It is just too difficult to stay afloat, financially, as a married priest here.
Hope that helps. Of course, it is from someone’s perspective who is in the trenches, living this life on a daily basis. So it is from familiarity with it, not perhaps as a scholar would experience it. Subtle differences, I think.
Blessings…
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