Again, I’d just like to say that the sacramental life is the primary means of sanctification of the Christian. Chasing after things like “Baptism in the Holy Spirit” or “speaking in tongues” to the neglect of the sacramental life is doing the Devil’s work for him. Satan would love it if you prayed for deliverance, cast out demons, spoke in tongues, and felt the Holy Spirit…but you never go to Confession. Such a soul will go before their Lord ill-prepared on their last day.
These experiences are not signs of heavenly election, nor should people who have these experiences judge those who have not had similar experiences as “less spiritual” or not in close relationship with Christ. I say this, because I have met many Pentecostal Protestants (from whom much of Charismatic Catholicism has borrowed terminology and mindset) who sincerely believe that if you haven’t been “baptized in the Holy Spirit” you have not truly been converted. Beware this import from those outside the fullness of the Faith who are trying to piece together Christianity from a Bible-only perspective.
Learn the faith. Live the faith. Share the faith. It’s a faith that has guided souls for 2,000 years successfully to Heaven. Don’t feel you have to re-invent Catholicism. If these spiritual experiences are given to you - great. If not, don’t worry that you are not truly Christian. Seek after Christ, pray daily, learn the doctrines that saints and martyrs lived and died for. That will get you to Heaven.