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I’ve had Protestants say that Jesus was God so He does not really count.So was our LORD “abnormally repressed,” as He lived to the age of 39, but was never married nor had a female relationship?
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I’ve had Protestants say that Jesus was God so He does not really count.So was our LORD “abnormally repressed,” as He lived to the age of 39, but was never married nor had a female relationship?
ICXC NIKA
That’s all well and good but splashing it over the national news isn’t going to help the situation one iota. It is not a government nor joe public issue, it is exclusively to do with the CC and only it can carry out any investigations and carry out the appropriate actions. Nothing ‘illegal’ is going on, all the issues are in relation to CC teachings.Trying to bold the last two paras… YES and this is what we , ie the church have laid ourselves open to … an it be trusted? I am no longer sure. I mean the organisation, the hierarchy… Can they be trusted? I do not think consciences are being much formed in even RC education any more
We have CEIST. But increasingly secualr theories like Steiner, Educate Together, Education Equality are eroding our values
all needs to be in the open; al the reports I have read have come from within the church and the “enemy within” ie ACP
There needs now to be absolute transparency and that is coming via the newspapers etc. No denials are possible either. Not a ? of distortion here this time any more than any of the other scandals.
This situation should never have happened. Our young men should have been safe and developed integrity and holiness…
My dear, on this we differ,That’s all well and good but splashing it over the national news isn’t going to help the situation one iota. It is not a government nor joe public issue, it is exclusively to do with the CC and only it can carry out any investigations and carry out the appropriate actions. Nothing ‘illegal’ is going on, all the issues are in relation to CC teachings.
It is only been latched onto, by the media, so as to disparage the church even further - which is pathetic.
The Scripture says “He is like us in all things but sin.”I’ve had Protestants say that Jesus was God so He does not really count.
Because it should not be ‘national news fodder’. The ‘news’ value is due to the sensationalism of celibate seminarians using gay dating apps to pick up men, getting drunk etc… and then all the subsequent ridicule such stories drum up for the anti-Catholic church brigade.My dear, on this we differ,
These things are real and they happened and that has made the Church fair prey. Joe public? The people the Church has let down, and made themselves fair game .
As for “nothing illegal”? Why “pathetic”? let there be no more of the behind closed doors techniques. That has created the current situation.
Sadness and more sadness,
Goodnight and sleep well
Like Dorothy said, you should remind them that He was also fully human. We tend to either emphasize only His Godness or his humanity. It is hard for us to do both.I’ve had Protestants say that Jesus was God so He does not really count.
How is this ridiculing?And even if so,surely rightly? It makes me ashamed to be Catholic sometimes as this IS what is happening in OUR CHURCH.Because it should not be ‘national news fodder’. The ‘news’ value is due to the sensationalism of celibate seminarians using gay dating apps to pick up men, getting drunk etc… and then all the subsequent ridicule such stories drum up for the anti-Catholic church brigade.
If these stories are to be relayed they can be reported in Catholic papers, as it is a Catholic church matter - not a legal, or national news one - as, unfortunately, the heinous sex scandals were, as the abuse was a crime.
It is the only occasion when the media ‘recognise/acknowledge’ the importance of the Catholic church, in Ireland, i.e. when it can be ridiculed, in some way. However, if there were any positive stories to be released about the CC, they will not be reported on.
One example being, the poll taken asking parents if they wished to retain Catholic schools, which statistics could indicate 90 plus of parents wish Catholicism to remain in schools. This was not reported in the media, but only in Catholic press outlets. irishcatholic.ie/article/questioning-patronage-surveys
So they pick and chose, only when it is disrespectful or negative to the church and is helpful to their secular agenda.
A goodnight to you too.![]()
Wise words, Thank you, A few years ago someone I “knew” on a forum, a seminarian in the US, asked for prayers for a friend /fellow seminarian who was struggling with “unchaste thoughts” and I opined that if it were such a struggle then maybe he should think again re his vocation…Do you think that a married clergy will be protection from scandal? I doubt it.
It is our conscupiscence that inclines us towards sin not our marital status. Single people are not more inclined to sin than married people.
Great post and thank you. The same of course is true of celibate singlehood. My heart and life belong totally and fully to the Lord Jesus Christ … And of course abuse does not invalidate the ideal.There’s an article on this page by Fr John Hardon about consecrated chastity and priesthood:therealpresence.org/archives/Chastity.htm
I think.the idea that is often missed is that consecrated chastity for God actually allows the person to love God more whole heartedly and undividedly. Its not only having more time for service, it also affects the heart and the relationship with God, when truly lived out. Yes marriage is holy, married people can serve God too, and we are all called to be Saints, but this fact remains. Sure there are priests and nuns and monks who are not faithful despite this fact, but that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with the practice of priestly or religious celibacy. It is something holy and the world doesn’t get it because its enslaved to enjoyment.
I never said they were. What I did say was that people who are prepared to take vows of celibacy are not intrinsically more holy and devoted than those who aren’t. There are many reasons for not getting married - as someone else has pointed out, in Ireland and in many other countries vows of celibacy and an all-male environment have been used as cover for sexual deviancy by a lot of men, not just recently but for many centuries.Do you think that a married clergy will be protection from scandal? I doubt it.
It is our conscupiscence that inclines us towards sin not our marital status. Single people are not more inclined to sin than married people.
Agree mostly and this was my point.That someone with a high sex drive ( and I gather that this varies greatly among individuals) is basically not suited to the priesthoodI never said they were. What I did say was that people who are prepared to take vows of celibacy are not intrinsically more holy and devoted than those who aren’t. There are many reasons for not getting married - as someone else has pointed out, in Ireland and in many other countries vows of celibacy and an all-male environment have been used as cover for sexual deviancy by a lot of men, not just recently but for many centuries.
To some extent that’s unavoidable and, as you point out, being married doesn’t mean you’re immune from deviant or scandalous sexual behaviour either.
What I am questioning is the assumption that men who take vows of celibacy are, by virtue of that, holier, more devoted and more suited to the presbyterate than those who don’t. Wanting to have a wife and children, and the love and support of a family, is evidence of being a normal human being, not someone who just can’t keep it in his pants.
Actually priests or consecrated religious are routine mocked and disparaged in popular culture. Too many Catholics do likewise.I never said they were. What I did say was that people who are prepared to take vows of celibacy are not intrinsically more holy and devoted than those who aren’t. There are many reasons for not getting married - as someone else has pointed out, in Ireland and in many other countries vows of celibacy and an all-male environment have been used as cover for sexual deviancy by a lot of men, not just recently but for many centuries.
To some extent that’s unavoidable and, as you point out, being married doesn’t mean you’re immune from deviant or scandalous sexual behaviour either.
What I am questioning is the assumption that men who take vows of celibacy are, by virtue of that, holier, more devoted and more suited to the presbyterate than those who don’t. Wanting to have a wife and children, and the love and support of a family, is evidence of being a normal human being, not someone who just can’t keep it in his pants.
Or the tacit premise that it is somehow WRONG for someone of adult age not to be in, or actively seeking, a spousal or familial relationship.Actually priests or consecrated religious are routine mocked and disparaged in popular culture. Too many Catholics do likewise.
Yet unquestioned is the all too rampant assertion that married people are somehow more holy and better than single people. I’ve come across this perception numerous times.
True.Or the tacit premise that it is somehow WRONG for someone of adult age not to be in, or actively seeking, a spousal or familial relationship.
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