This guy talks like my dad with the same kind of broken English.
It’s a real post, people.
And as for the poster (lavidagrande), please don’t buy your son this thing. If you’re open about sex, and you should be, talk about married sex with him – i.e. the kind that is supposed to take place between a woman and a man, and be genuine, tell him how it’s so far better, perhaps infinitely so, that it can’t closely compare or be compared to any other kind. And that any other kind is twisted, deviant and sick. Explain how and why. Tell him that sexual desire is reserved only for marriage, and that masturbating to fantasies or even pornography, is not anywhere near the real thing, and is also sick, deviant and twisted.
And tell him to love, respect and care for people no matter what/unconditionally, especially the opposite sex (women). Is it going to be hard for him to do this? Is the Devil evil? But respecting, loving and caring for people unconditionally is the biggest virtue of this faith, and perhaps the biggest virtue there is other than loving God (The Truth) Himself, so you can care for others even more (the purpose of The Truth).
That means to exercise common sense and not accept their behaviour or anything that might lead you to it, or promote it in any way, shape or form. And it means to care. Genuinely care. They are another human being in there somewhere, though you may not see it. Respect them and their ability to make a choice. And let them make it. You on the other hand, be there as a role model; let them change their life (or lives) on their own accord if they feel like it. Try to prevent it by telling them how and why it’s wrong, befriend them if they have similar interests and goals and respect your decisions, i.e. don’t attempt to pull you into some degenerate behaviour (non-marital sex, theft, lying, drinking past your limit, drug usage).
That’s the entire Bible for you summarised with a somewhat practical application (I didn’t get too far into specifics).
This cost me years of my life and untold amounts of stress.
You can thank me later.
