The part you have highlighted refers to approaching the priest and preparing for the sacrament, not to the actual sacrament taking place. We always encourage them to do that before the baby’s born so that baptism can take place soon after.
As for the process and requirements for baptism it requires that the minister pour the water on the person and speak the words at the same time. Except for moments like the surgery in utero scenario posted above, there is no possibility of doing that without invading the uterus.
Thank you for your comments. Like many of the comments, the argument for maintaining that the sacrament of Baptism be normally withheld pending birth is based on, and only on, the proximate matter of the sacrament – the pyhsical union of water with the person.
Of course I respect the current Catholic postiion. However, the proximate matter required for the validity of the sacrament is not part of eternal law but man’s law. Remember that the form and remote matter for this sacrament does not preclude the Baptism of the unborn. Further, the transmission of God’s grace in infant Baptism, unlike all the other sacraments including non-infant Baptism, is independent of the recipient’s inner dispostion. God’s sanctifying grace flows if only the proper form and matter are present even if the minister is a well-intentioned pagan. The infant’s role in the sacrament is to be but alive. And, I think, unfortunately, also born – certainly, an event that changes physical status but does not change whatsoever in spiritual status – the child is absent sanctifying grace.
I think there is an apparent discontinuity in Catholic teaching. We are thankfully aggressively pro temporal life and demand the civil rights especially the right to life of the unborn. How much more so should we be pro eternal life for the unborn? Does the unborn have less of a right to eternal life than the born?
I understand my sympathy to expand the population of the Kingdom by allowing unborn Baptism (by changing the proximate matter in order to make the sacrament practical) may only be considered whimsical since I am not of the Magisterium and, therefore, may not be Spirit led.
However, what of the *in vitro *children awaiting implantation which for many will never occur. Ought we not baptize these “unwombed” and unborn children before they die in their frozen state?
To leave the fate of these children to the mercy of God when we potentially have means to brings them into the Church is, I think, tantamount to tempting the Lord. In the second temptation, the devil tries to tempt God by encouranging Jesus to throw himself off the pinnacle of the temple and relying in God’s mercy to save Him. Citing Psalm 91, the devil says, "He will give his angels charge of you, and on their hands they will bear you up, lest you strike your foot against a stone.” Jesus didn’t test the truth of the Psalm rather Jesus quotes Deuteronomy 6:16, “You shall not tempt the Lord your God.” The word that we have today is that the fate of these unbaptized children is at best uncertain, at worst, they are denied the Beatific vision for eternity. Are we not testing the mercy of God by withholding Baptism from the “unwombed” and unborm child?
I’m hopeful that Father Ted Pacholczyk will get around to this moral dillema in his excellent analyses of the new moral issues confronting us with the technological changes in human reproduction.
Thank you all for your comments. I will close my