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My child is 11 years old and is in the 6th grade he brought home a permission slip to be signed wether or not to let him view it. My wife feels that he shouldnt, I have mixed feelings about the situation and am wanting to hear what other Catholic parents would do in this situation.

He attends a local public school.

Thanks!🤷
 
I remember 10 years ago bringing that same slip home to my parents, when I was in 5th grade.

I don’t know what to tell you, except that you need to make sure he gets strong Catholic teaching at home, that he will be influenced by that far more than anything he could learn at school that is contrary to it.

If you don’t sign it, he will be extremely embarrassed tomorrow when the rest of the class goes to watch the movie, and he (and *maybe *one or two others) cannot. The teacher is likely very liberal, and in her wrath may not even exhibit the charitableness to sooth your son in this situation. But this also has the ability to be a very good situation for him. If my parents did not sign my slip, that kind of situation may have quickened the formation of my courage for faith. I may have stood up for it more throughout middle school and high school, instead of only gaining the courage to publicly support it in college. Though I could imagine other outcomes as well.

hmmm…
 
You could just keep him home from school. That’s what I would do if my daughter attended school (she’s homeschooled). It seems like the school didn’t give you much notice. You should have been able to review the content before hand. I wouldn’t send my child not knowing what they will teach him.
 
You could just keep him home from school. That’s what I would do if my daughter attended school (she’s homeschooled). It seems like the school didn’t give you much notice. You should have been able to review the content before hand. I wouldn’t send my child not knowing what they will teach him.
This is possible… although I would also not discount the possibility of the child putting off getting the note signed. I know I did!
 
What is wrong with the kid learning about sexual reproduction? They also cover menstrual cycles and development of the male system as well.

I moved to a different town before the showed the video at my school and after they showed the video at the new school so I missed out. I had to learn what sex was from my classmates and that was NOT a good thing. I think your kid should be allowed to view the video and then given the Catholic viewpoint on it when at home.

Most Christians think that to protect a child from going haywire they shouldn’t be told anything about sex…this is not the case. They need to be properly educated!!! Or they’ll go to college like one of my suite mates who thought she could get pregnant by a touching a guys member with her hand…she was in college! She said her parents wouldn’t ever talk about sex b/c they were Christian.

That is pitiful!
 
Or they’ll go to college like one of my suite mates who thought she could get pregnant by a touching a guys member with her hand…
But certainly that is a better misconception to have than the notion that premarital sex is only wrong if you don’t use a condom, that the morning after pill is a good option, etc. etc.
 
But certainly that is a better misconception to have than the notion that premarital sex is only wrong if you don’t use a condom, that the morning after pill is a good option, etc. etc.
No, I think ignorance, especially about sex, is dangerous.

I mean, this entire thing comes down to what you and your husband are comfortable with. If you feel that it’s okay, then let your child watch the sex ed. video. I’m sure you’re a responsible parent, since you’re asking what’s best. Sexual education should come primarily from home, and maybe you and your husband could sit down before and/or after with your child and explain what they’ll be seeing, or explain what they saw, and explain the moral ramifications of having sex. However, again, this comes down between what you and your husband decide is most appropriate for your child’s development.
 
No, I think ignorance, especially about sex, is dangerous.
Why the “No” preface? Is thinking that premarital sex is OK not an ignorance with regard to sex? Indeed, it is. And it will manifest itself far more disastrously than the incorrect notion that hand-genital contact can result in pregnancy.
 
But certainly that is a better misconception to have than the notion that premarital sex is only wrong if you don’t use a condom, that the morning after pill is a good option, etc. etc.
I would rather my child not be ignorant…and I would consider myself a good enough parent to let them know that premarital sex is not a good idea not only for religious purposes but for physical and psychological reasons as well! But to be ignorant about the basic workings of the body could really get a kid into trouble. For example if a girl didn’t know what sex was a guy could totally take advantage of her and vice versa…Education is everything
 
I don’t mean to say it isn’t important to be educated with regard to sex. But we also have to make sure we sort our priorities! Most important is the knowledge of and agreement with the catholic teaching on sex. If anything stands in the way of that, in the name of “abolishing ignorance,” we should give caution the benefit of the doubt when dealing with matters that could bring our children nearer to the sexual deviancy of the day.
 
Why the “No” preface? Is thinking that premarital sex is OK not an ignorance with regard to sex? Indeed, it is. And it will manifest itself far more disastrously than the incorrect notion that hand-genital contact can result in pregnancy.
This is getting away from the point, but I’m saying if you don’t know anything about sex, that can be dangerous. I mean, if one isn’t told that sex can lead to pregnancy, who’s to stop that indvidual from having sex without being aware of the consequences?
 
I don’t mean to say it isn’t important to be educated with regard to sex. But we also have to make sure we sort our priorities! Most important is the knowledge of and agreement with the catholic teaching on sex. If anything stands in the way of that, in the name of “abolishing ignorance,” we should give caution the benefit of the doubt when dealing with matters that could bring our children nearer to the sexual deviancy of the day.
Yes. So leave the teaching aspect and when to expose and what to expose to their children up to their parents. I’m sure this fine couple knows what’s right and wrong in regards to sexuality. They’re askin whether or not they should let their child view the film, not if it’s important or not.
 
I would ask the teacher what exactly the film will be covering. If it’s a straightforward, biological presentation, then I feel that would be fine. But if discussion ensued about contraceptive alternatives and alternative lifestyles, or if the film mentions this, then this would be a problem.

If I remember sex ed correctly, contraception and such was not discussed at this age level. However, I remember some of these ideas being discussed in high school sex ed.
 
as mentioned before I was not able to watch the video
but from what other people said it was strictly biological. The video that I did watch was during AP bio and it was also strictly biological…the only part that disturbed me was that it showed pregnancy and a live birth. Made me never want to have children…ever lol oh well

If they changed it then the school board needs to be dealt with
 
Your kid is 11. Does he not already know where babies come from and how they’re concieved? If him learning at school is an issue, perhaps you should tell him yourself. Then it’s a complete non issue. Kids learn biology in school…all of it. Leaving certain parts out will make a kid suspicious. You can tell a kid what the heart does, what the lungs do etc etc, and then miss out on something as important as human reproduction. I mean COME ON? He’s 11. That’s old enough. Girls his age are already menstruating. When do you plan to teach him? When he’s already going through puberty? By that time…it’s too late. He’ll learn in freshman biology or from his friends. By that time you missed your chance to talk to him about ANYTHING that pertains to his body and he’ll shut you out. How many girls alienate their mothers because mom put off the important discussions pertaining to their period and anything about sex. If you make sex a secret to him, guess what, he might take it as a personal insult and get back at you for it. I know alot of girls had to discover sex from their peers, not their parents. That only leads to them sneaking around, sleeping around as some sort of “screw off” to their mothers. 11 is not that far from 13. Take this as a sign that you simply can’t put off this talk anymore.
 
This is what went on in the “Health” class I took at a public elementary school (6th grade was part of elementary school back then and middle school) from another post:
If you send your child to an American public school, you’re going to get the barnyard version of human sexuality from the “Teach”.
No Christian morality or any morality present in that class.
I remember 6th Grade rolls around in public grade school, and this chain-smoking Italian-American teacher told us boys and girls in the class to masturbate and wait “for later” (she died of lung cancer a few years later).
The subject was shelved for a year, and then 8th grade rolls around, and there is some funky class called “Health”.
The class dealt with a number of issues like euthanasia, teenage suicide, I think drugs and alcohol, dissecting frogs, some basic study of the human anatomy, the environment, and human sexuality.
The message about human sexuality was the same as 6th grade; they even talked about male homosexual sex (granted, I don’t think at that time circa 1981-1982 it was part of the official curriculum, but this one student asked about it, and the 8th Grade teacher went into all this unbelievable graphic (that would make a sailor blush) detail for several minutes.
If you ever wanted to know what an American public school “Health” class is like, that’s what it is like.
Although I imagine now the public schools probably have homosexuality and lesbianism as part of the official curriculum
That’s what it was like.

It’s really up to you, but you certainly don’t need these state bureaucrats and the Ministry of Culture explaining their non-Christian version of sex to your child.

I think it would help if you’re willing to have a sit down and explain it to your son (if your son watches the junk on TV and goes to public school, he probably knows about it already).

There might be some Catholic literature on explaining this to your son, maybe even at this forum, for instance, CA’s Apologist’s Jason Evert’s Pure Love Tract.

Look, if they sent you **a note **and you have to sign it, those bureaucrats only bother to do something like that in order to cover themselves from parent complaints when their kid comes home and tells his folks that it was all about contraception. And then Mr. So And So will say, well parent, you signed it!

Now your kid might get razzed by some of his peers in the “class,” but it is almost the end of school anyway, and they’ll forget it over the summer.

And, if he lucks out, some “cool” kid’s parents will opt their child out too; then he’s got nothing to worry about. I’d tell him not to care too much about the opinions of a bunch of eleven year old kids.

(So much for the theory that there should be no prayer or Bible readings in public schools, because so students might feel “left out” or “made fun of”).
 
wow what kind of school did you go to! We never covered homosexuality! and I was in sixth grade in 1996! Much more recent than the 80s. We never covered that graphic stuff in high school either. You had an unfortunate experience but that does not mean that all schools are like that. The parents should be involved in the school enough to know what it is like.
 
Like I said, some kid asked about it.

I went to school in Michigan (I think it helps a little if people said what part of the country they’re from; for instance, the American South is a little more religious in culture than the North).
 
Just know that health classes in public schools are absolute hotbeds for immoral ideas, if not directly from the teacher (though often this is the way it is), it is through student discussion that is often condoned by the teacher.
 
My child is 11 years old and is in the 6th grade he brought home a permission slip to be signed wether or not to let him view it. My wife feels that he shouldnt, I have mixed feelings about the situation and am wanting to hear what other Catholic parents would do in this situation.

He attends a local public school.

Thanks!🤷
Ask to view the movie before so you can make an informed decision on what you feel comfortable with.😉 OOPS just noticed this advice is too late.

My daughter is in 9th grade and in health right now. They are learning ALL sorts of controversial sensitive topics. Plus she has a teacher that like to give her own worldly opinions:mad:
I told her that if she didnt want me to yank her out of the class she had to have open conversations with me daily about what is being taught and if the teacher states opinions.

She agreed and it has been going well. I did have to call VP and tell him some of her opinions were inappropriate. I told him if I cant come in and talk about christianity then she needs to keep her opinions to herself!!
She was told to remain neutral and stick to the curriculum. We’ll see how it goes.:eek:

Dont be afraid to contact the school and have dialog with them about what is in the movie. It is the only way we can counteract(with our children) anything the school may teach that does not agree with our faith.
I dont mind my child learning this stuff under my supervision, so I can then teach her what God says about it:thumbsup:

This should all be done way before college and even before high. school. This way you will be able to have open dialog with your child as they enter high school:eek: After all high school is a VERY SCARY time:eek:
 
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