Children as Eucharistic Ministers?

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How familiar this squabbling sounds. It reminded me immediately of a particular Bible verse I have heard many times since I was a small child:

People were bringing even infants to him that he might touch them, and when the disciples saw this, they rebuked them.

Jesus, however, called the children to himself and said, "Let the children come to me and do not prevent them; for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.

Amen, I say to you, whoever does not accept the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it."

Luke 18: 15-17

Do some of us not sound like the disciples just now?

And one more:

At that time Jesus said in reply, "I give praise to you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, for although you have hidden these things from the wise and the learned you have revealed them to the childlike.

Yes, Father, such has been your gracious will.

All things have been handed over to me by my Father. No one knows the Son except the Father, and no one knows the Father except the Son and anyone to whom the Son wishes to reveal him.

Matthew 11: 25-27

I will elaborate if this is not self-explanatory enough.

Let us first think of a small child. A child is innocent and trusting. He believes in Jesus with unfaltering faith. This is how Jesus calls us all to be. Jesus loved the children and set them forth as an example of how He calls all of us to be.

Think also of ourselves, as “adults.” We think we’re all grown- up, wise, spiritual, important. We are not. We are all children – children of God. When God looks at us, He does not view us as legal, driving, voting adults. No, He looks at us as His children. We are all on equal grounds as each other with God no matter our age – whether we are newly born, or on the deathbed and 100 years old. Let us humble ourselves and realize where we all stand in God’s eyes. This world’s standards and qualifications for adulthood have no meaning to God.

Let us also consider where Jesus says, “No one knows the Son except the Father, and no one knows the Father except the Son and anyone to whom the Son wishes to reveal him.” God may choose to reveal Himself to a five year old, and not to you. Does this appall you? Make you angry? Perhaps you think you’re better somehow than a small child, a nobody in this worldly world or ours. Remember, we are all children in God’s eyes. He is wise and knows to whom he will reveal Himself.

Let me also say, that I have known children who are wiser and kinder than many adults. Wisdom may come with age, but so can other things such as pride and selfishness.

Children who are extraordinary ministers can be an example as to how we should be; remember Christ stipulated that we become childlike in order to inherit His kingdom.

I will also add that I was the child who became a minister right after being confirmed. I was young, true, but I knew full well the gift and the responsibility that I had been blessed with in being able to administer the Body and Blood of Christ. It was an integral part of my maturing as a Christian. Think not of your own desires or how humiliating it may feel that Christ has chosen a child to receive the same great gift of ministry that you have. But, instead, rejoice that the next generation of Catholics desires to serve the Lord in whatever way He calls, and also consider the graces bestowed upon the child who ministers.

And I respect CatholicCid who is waiting to be a minister. Hang in there. You are a very wise young adult. I was born in 1985 and am young myself. I admire your courage and your maturing.
 
Orientale Lumen:
The title is “Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion”. Why don’t we take a look at the word “Extraordinary”?

ex·traor·di·nar·y adj

  1. *]Beyond what is ordinary or usual: extraordinary authority.
    *]Highly exceptional; remarkable: an extraordinary achievement.
    *]Employed or used for a special service, function, or occasion: a minister extraordinary; an extraordinary professor.

    What sort of situation is so beyond the normal that a child is needed to distribute Holy Communion? the ‘office’ EMHC was not instituted as a teaching tool or to get the laity more ‘involved’ in the Mass! They are to be properly trained (which includes fully understanding what they are doing) and used in “extra-ordinary” circumstances.

    Personally I’d like to see EMHCs done away with completely. More often than not they are misused. An “inconvenience” (e.g. taking ‘too long’ to distribute Communion) is not an “extraordinary” situation.

    Pray for the Church.

  1. :amen: :amen: :amen: :amen:
 
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Augustina:
How familiar this squabbling sounds. It reminded me immediately of a particular Bible verse I have heard many times since I was a small child:

People were bringing even infants to him that he might touch them, and when the disciples saw this, they rebuked them.

Jesus, however, called the children to himself and said, "Let the children come to me and do not prevent them; for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.

Amen, I say to you, whoever does not accept the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it."

Luke 18: 15-17

Do some of us not sound like the disciples just now?

…And I respect CatholicCid who is waiting to be a minister. Hang in there. You are a very wise young adult. I was born in 1985 and am young myself. I admire your courage and your maturing.
Well said Augustina! Some just don’t want the young to do anything in the Church… Sort of “Children should be seen and not heard” syndrome that I grew up with…:whistle:
 
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Orientale Lumen:
What sort of situation is so beyond the normal that a child is needed to distribute Holy Communion? QUOTE]

The 5th Joyful Mystery.
The Finding of the Child Jesus in the Temple.
Non sequitur. How does finding the Child Jesus preaching in the Temple justify minors as EMHC? I have yet to see justification for a minor as an Extraordinary MHC.

EHMCs were not instituted to get people more involved in the Mass. News flash: one does not have to spend some time on the Altar to be “involved” in the Mass. Attend, listen, respond, pray! Don’t just sit there “watching the show”.

If EMHCs can’t be done away with all together (how about working on vocations rather than instituting ‘substitutes’?) I’d like to see the minimum age raised to that for the ordination to the deaconate, which I believe is 23 or thereabouts. Even better - impose the same age/family requirements as for permanent deacons! Remember, we are talking about handling the Body and Blood of our Lord God Saviour Jesus Christ - not passing around chips and the bean dip!

Pray for the Church
 
“How does finding the Child Jesus preaching in the Temple justify minors as EMHC? I have yet to see justification for a minor as an Extraordinary MHC.”

I don’t think you got it. In God’s eyes there is no such thing as “minors.” God doesn’t share our definition of “adult” and “child” - we are all His children - meaning, in His eyes we have equality with each other - no one of us is more important to Him than another - regardless of age, legal rights on this earth, race, nationality…or .any human other construct really. And, for your information “child” and “adult” as far as meeting age qualifications are nothing more than human constructs, because, as we all know, life and aging is on a continuum. There is no real point at which we magically become adults.

And I would also like to note that your argument for doing away with ministers is not related to the topic - the idea in question here is, provided lay people are allowed to administer eucharist, which they are, is it acceptable to allow children to be included.
 
Orientale Lumen:
Remember, we are talking about handling the Body and Blood of our Lord God Saviour Jesus Christ - not passing around chips and the bean dip!
↑↑↑ Listen to you ↑↑↑
When a man speaks he is talking about himself.
 
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wannabee:
OH BOY - wait for Social Services to descend - try explaining to them that she is Consuming the Most Precious Blood of Christ - not alcohol .
My daughter is a social worker and social services would not be called because every state has an exemption in the laws concerning the drinking age when alcohol is used in religious services.
 
And I respect CatholicCid who is waiting to be a minister. Hang in there. You are a very wise young adult. I was born in 1985 and am young myself. I admire your courage and your maturing.
Thank you Augustina, I truly appreciate that.
On a side note, we all know 1987 was the best year 😛 (Got to be a kid at heart 😉 )
Remember, we are talking about handling the Body and Blood of our Lord God Saviour Jesus Christ - not passing around chips and the bean dip!
Age has no meaning in how respectful or reverent one is.
If I asked my 17 Yr. old cousin and my 40-so Yr. old Aunt about the True Presence of Christ in the Holy Eucharist, I believe my Cousin would have a better understanding of Christ in the Eucharist. I honestly believe my Cousin would be more reverent if handling the Eucharist.
I can understand how you wish to see no more EMHC all together, yet alone young ones, but in some areas they are needed and not abused.
At my Parish, if recieving the Eucharist took 30 seconds, one Mass would be over in about 13+ hours. That is definiately an Extrodinary Case…

Prayers to your daughter Deaconswife, as being a Social Worker is so exhausting in these days.
 
I am probably biased since I was an EMHC when I was 16, but I don’t see the difference between an adult as an EMHC and a teen as an EMHC if they are properly trained. As a teen, I was held to the same standards of dress and reverance as the adults. However, I do realize that this is not the case is all parishes. On very rare ocassions, I find myself at another local parish’s Sunday evening “teen Mass” where all the EMHC and readers are from the youth group. I think they are a complete embarrassment - they all look like they are about to hit the clubs after Mass. But I think the deeper issue is why does the priest continue to allow them to dress in such a manner. I think that is the real problem.
 
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wannabee:
How many of you been appalled at the casual even sloppy irreverent attire of the EHMCs on the Altar ?
I’ve had times when I was more appalled at the irreverent behaviour of the priest. If we set 18 as the minimum age, the Jesus would have been 3 years old when Mary could have served her own son! It has absolutely nothing to do with age. It has to do with maturity and reverence. If a young person is spiritually mature and reverent, there is no reason that they cannot bring Jesus to other people.

Please don’t argue with your opinions. Let’s argue based on evidence. When did Jesus establish an age limit for any kind of service?
 
Since I started this thread it is about time for me to give my humble opinion to the subject. First, I must admit that I am a bit old fashioned and do not consider myself worthy enough to be a eucharistic minister. It is not because I have not been confirmed or know the catechism because I have been confirmed many years ago and have been attending daily mass and communion for many years. I still do not consider myself worthy to be a minister. Some day when I am ready to join a 3rd degree religious order I might feel I would be ready…that is after a two or three year period of intensive prayer in that order. Please have patience with my “old-fashioned” views. It is my personal feeling that to be a eucharistic minister is such a privilege that only priests, deacons or dedicated religious should even be considered for such an honor.
Yes, children are beautiful and innocent but I don’t think that should qualify them for the holiest job on earth.
 
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onetruechurch:
First, I must admit that I am a bit old fashioned and do not consider myself worthy enough to be a eucharistic minister.
God doesn’t call the qualified, He qualifies the called. If He calls you to that ministry, it won’t be due to your worthiness. It will be due to His master plan. :yup:
 
Michael Welter:
God doesn’t call the qualified, He qualifies the called. If He calls you to that ministry, it won’t be due to your worthiness. It will be due to His master plan. :yup:
:amen:
 
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