Choosing a Patron Saint

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I’m in RCIA and just learned I need to have a name for Easter about two weeks ago. That night they said just choose a saint that you feel you have an affinity for or a relationship with.

I also read that it’s good to find one whose spirituality draws you.

I’ve always felt close to St. Michael. Tonight I learned that I can’t have a male saint. The only couple of saints I was even considering were male: Michael, Francis and Luke. Sigh.

Does anyone know what the basic spirituality is of St. Michael and whether there are any women saints affiliated with him?
Sorry I can’t give an answer as to who might be a female saint with the same spirituality as St. Michael, but I do have a few observations I’d like to relate.

First, the name “Michael” has variants in other languages. In French, it’s “Michel.” In French, the feminine counterpart to the name “Michel” is “Michelle.” I don’t know if you could get around this obstacle by trying a route such as this, but it might be worth looking into.

I am Eastern Orthodox. My priest’s daughter was born on February 2nd, which is the Feast of the Presentation of the Lord in the Temple. I would’ve thought he might’ve named his daughter Anna because of this–St. Anna having encountered the Holy Family there that day. However, my priest instead named his daughter Simeona, after St. Simeon, who also encountered the Holy Family that day. (See Luke 2:22-38 for details.)

I was baptized into the Orthodox Church at Easter three years ago. In my reading, I had come across a few brief references to picking a saint’s name at one’s baptism, but my priest never brought the issue up. There were a couple (Orthodox–but not Catholic) saints whose spirituality had attracted me and whose names were floating around in my mind as possible ones that I could choose (namely, St. Gregory Palamas and St. Seraphim of Sarov), but I had always considered St. Stephen the First Martyr as my patron saint because that is my name given to me by my parents. (And that was at a time when my family and I were non-practicing Protestants–and Protestants don’t even have patron saints!) I didn’t want to push St. Stephen out as my patron saint, so I never brought the issue up to my priest about picking a baptismal name. I later learned that those who have picked a new name at baptism are usually addressed by two names when receiving communion, e. g.: A woman given the name “Mary” at birth, but who picked St. Catherine as her patron saint at baptism, is addressed by the priest as “Mary Catherine” when she receives communion. I guess I could’ve been “Stephen Gregory” or “Stephen Seraphim,” but I’m just plain old Stephen now. Too late to cry over spilt milk!

[And as a side note here: I wonder if anyone can tell me if the “new name” mentioned in Revelation 2:17 is one’s baptismal name, or are we all due for another name change when we get to heaven?]

To go on with the topic of baptismal names (in the Orthodox Church, at least), I was the only person to be baptized in my parish church at Easter three years ago. Two years ago, there was also only one person baptized–but he picked a baptismal name. His circumstance was a bit different than mine, though. He had a family who was “sponsoring” (if I can use that word) his entry into the Church–that is to say, they had led him there (whereas I had come to the Church without anyone on this earth leading me there) and were advising him about such matters. The other thing was, his given name was not a saint’s name, so I guess he needed to pick one.

Last year, there were seven people baptised in my parish. Two were infants born of Orthodox parents, so they didn’t do any name-picking. Four are members of a family which converted en masse to Orthodoxy: None of them picked new names–however, they all had saints’ names as given names already. The seventh person was a woman who had been married to an Orthodox man for a number of years and who was finally joining the Church. She had a saint’s name as her given name, but she picked another baptismal name anyways.

And my final observation: I am Carpatho-Russian Orthodox. A man in my parish told me about a friend of his who had converted to the Greek Orthodox Church. He was told to pick a saint’s name for his baptism. He picked one out, but when he informed the priest of what it was, the priest told him “No,” and that he’d have to try again. The problem? The priest told him it couldn’t be the name of any Orthodox saint–it had to be the name of a Greek saint!
 
Hey Y’all!

There’s *SO *many great saints to pick from…how does one chose just one, maybe two?

For those of you who have been through the process, do you have any tidbits of advice…plans of attack?
I had thought of a number of saints before my conversion- none of them were the one I chose. I told my RCIA sponsor my patron saint choice about one minute before I was baptized- and I hadn’t even considered them before then. It seems the saint chose me- not the other way around. I suggest you pray about it- ask God to give you a patron saint, and to lead you to them.
 
Hey Y’all!

I question especially for the converts 🙂

In preperation for the Easter Vigil, I’ve started the process of researching Saints and in all honesty, am finding the whole thing just a little overwhelming. There’s *SO *many great saints to pick from…how does one chose just one, maybe two?

For those of you who have been through the process, do you have any tidbits of advice…plans of attack? Oh, and I do have the “Dictionary of Saints” and know a number of great websites that deal with Patron Saints.

Thanks!

~Jess

:blessyou:
I found my patron by looking through a dictonary of saints and reading up on pretty much everyone in there trying to find one that mirriored my life at least a little bit. I did not find one in there. After months of searching I looked at my calendar and spoted my birthday and saw the feast of st.thomas Aquinas is on the same day and it just clicked for me that that is who my patron is. We have somethings in common like being obsessive thinkers and some personal events in life mirrior eachother. But in the end my patron was staring me in the face all along. So is yours and you’ll find him/her when you most need to.
 
Hi…
Mine patron Saint is St Maximilian Kolbe… His faith and courage has deeply inspired and touch me. I think he is somewhat close to me as well. Take time and pray and research and choose your patron saint.

God bless u. 🙂
 
Does anyone have any advice, comments, etc. concerning how a FAMILY chooses/acquires a patron saint if it does not have one?
One of my sisters died 9 days after she was born. She was baptized and everything so she’s in Heaven now and my family all prays to her. So we sort of have a family patron saint. You could do something similar if you have someone in your family you are sure is in Heaven.

Also, Blessed Anne Catherine Emmerich was granted a vision that in addition to individual guardian angels, each parish and diocese, each city and country has a guardian angel. So I suppose it’s possible that each family has a guardian angel? I wouldn’t bet on it, but its not out of the question.

Finally Saint Josemaria Escriva read that each priest was granted an additional archangel when they get ordained. He later said that even if the author was wrong, he was sure that the Lord granted him one anyway since he prayed so devoutly to it. So I suppose you could follow in Saint Josemaria’s example and simply ask the Lord to grant your family a special guardian angel and hopefully he’ll answer your prayers?

Hopefully that gives you a little more insight into the matter. But the best thing to do is probably just pick a saint that the family all likes and have everyone develop a devotion to the saint. It’s not like you can’t pray to any saint but your patron saint!
 
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