Choosing between Orthodoxy and Catholicism -- how and why did you do it?

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I think I shall respond to the OP directly:

I am at the point in my spiritual journey that I am convinced of this: if I had been given the choice and told of the Orthodox Church and received the ability to explore both Roman Catholicism and Orthodoxy, I would be today Orthodox.
 
Surely it will be clear, if you have a predetermined position. :rolleyes:
Rather, it’ll be “unclear” when you’ve determined a priori based on the opinion of “a few non-catholic sources” that there simply cannot be support for the papacy in the early church, rather than read the sources yourself and make up your own mind. Like I said, I’ve seen enough comments from the Orthodox that show that the Pope had not a little authority in the early church, (and he was no Monarch, either, obviously) but try to explain the reasons for this other than by Peter’s chair or Apostolic succession from st. Peter. Really the fathers’ sayings are simply too plain (plainer than scripture, even) regarding the succession of the Bishop of Rome’s headship from St. Peter and his place in the universal church. Only if you have a pre-determined position to the contrary will you fail to see it. 🤷 If you see it in the few verses of scripture that talk about it, I fail to see how you can fail to see it in St. Chrysostom’s multitude of explicit sayings, for example. Like I said, just read through the sayings often given by both sides and the true state of affairs that prevailed becomes clear. You appear to have made up your mind and are unwilling to even consider a fresh look- that fits more what you rolled your eyes about when you gave your criticism to me than anything else. 🤷
 
I looked into the Anglican, Orthodox, and Catholic Church during my discernment. My wife is Catholic but had been non-practicing for years and was open to exploring other faith traditions.

As such, I spent a significant amount of time reading and studying everything I could find regarding the claims that both the Catholic and Orthodox Church had made regarding which is the original Church founded by Christ himself. After much study and prayer, I came to the conclusion that the truth of the Faith was to be found in the Catholic Church. Spiritually, I believe I would have found happiness in either the Catholic or the Orthodox Church. In fact, there are still some things here and there which attract me in Eastern Spirituality. At the end of the day however, it was my study which led me to be Catholic and I am happy to be home.
 
Rather, it’ll be “unclear” when you’ve determined a priori based on the opinion of “a few non-catholic sources” that there simply cannot be support for the papacy in the early church…
I never said that there couldn’t be support for the papacy in the early Church. And I don’t find the matter unclear.
…rather than read the sources yourself and make up your own mind.
You can’t deny that Catholic and Orthodox apologists use their sources to support their respective pre-determined conclusions. So I don’t apologise for reading secondary secular sources, which on this question are consistent with primary sources I’ve read.
Only if you have a pre-determined position to the contrary will you fail to see it. 🤷
In other words the “wrong pre-determined position.” 🙂

(Ironically I approached this question assuming the usual Catholic historical arguments.)
You appear to have made up your mind and are unwilling to even consider a fresh look- that fits more what you rolled your eyes about when you gave your criticism to me than anything else. 🤷
Then I apologise for my sarcasm however I did tell you that I was convinced on the matter. In all seriousness the side conversation needs to end here and I’m glad that more responses are coming in addressing this topic, as at least one new poster has been completely put off by the distraction.
 
Actually, contraception is one issue of a few where I think the Orthodox have it right. I find it difficult accept Catholic sources saying that most contraception is sinful enough to put the soul in danger.
Well any sin done in defiance of God can do that, can’t it?
Divine Liturgy is definitely uplifting and inspiring on a different level than the OF altogether – however, I like that the OF has a bit more participation from the laymen.
Yes… maybe that’s why Protestant converts like it so much. (And that’s NOT a bad thing. :))

But I still prefer the sophisticated ritual of the DL.

Either way, I feel my home is still the Catholic Church - but perhaps not the ROMAN Catholic Church. :o
 
Yes… maybe that’s why Protestant converts like it so much. (And that’s NOT a bad thing. :))

But I still prefer the sophisticated ritual of the DL.

Either way, I feel my home is still the Catholic Church - but perhaps not the ROMAN Catholic Church. :o
I love the Novus Ordo/OF a lot, a lot, a lot! 😃 I’ve frequented too many OF masses at Opus Dei centers to believe the rumor about the lack of greatness, mystery and wonderfulness in the OF. What happened in the years following V2 was this vicious attempt at stripping the Church of her orthodoxy, and part of this attitude has infected the celebration of the mass (Looks like Our Beloved B16 and his brother Bishops are finally putting a stop to this nasty attempt at a coup d’etat/revolution by “progressives”). The OF is actually more faithful to the earliest celebrations where the faithful gathered participated greatly and it was not so passive as many traditional liturgies tend to be. I love it! Right from the “The Lord be with you” to “The mass is ended”. 👍
 
In all seriousness the side conversation needs to end here and I’m glad that more responses are coming in addressing this topic, as at least one new poster has been completely put off by the distraction.
To be fair, you are the one who made that sweeping comment that in the early church, Rome had little authority outside Rome. Now this is a catholic Apologetics Forum. Surely it’s very naive to expect to say such things without being challenged on it, no? 🤷
 
I have a buddy who is an Orthodox deacon, and we talk about this all the time. While neither OC or CC has a pristine record of conduct, it all boils down to church teaching.
So, here is why I am not orthodox, in one sentence:

Orthodox theology developed for 1000 years, but then stagnated, thus over time as humanity continued to mature, the non-maturing Orthodox faith (while apostolic and true with regards to faith and morals) continues to become less and less connective to the needs of our ever evolving human species.

For that reason, due to Church theology, I cannot convert to Orthodxy (however, I do love a great Divine Liturgy, and I love my Orthodox brothers and sisters in Christ!)
 
I think I shall respond to the OP directly:

I am at the point in my spiritual journey that I am convinced of this: if I had been given the choice and told of the Orthodox Church and received the ability to explore both Roman Catholicism and Orthodoxy, I would be today Orthodox.
Perhaps I missed it during the discussion in this thread…but…Why not convert to Orthodoxy then?
 
Perhaps I missed it during the discussion in this thread…but…Why not convert to Orthodoxy then?
The answer to that is simple and two-fold:

I am currently relying upon a kind acquaintance to transport me to Divine Liturgy. I would not be able to attend the instruction classes prior the confirmation, unless a priest and I were to meet somewhere closer than the nearest Orthodox Church. The other option is to wait until I am independent in regards to transportation. (I am a poor college student and live at home for the purpose of not being a financial burden on my family since we live just down the street from campus and student housing is more expensive than food.)

The second reason is far more important. My brother (technically half-brother) wishes to be baptized Catholic. He just turned 11 last month and, though his father was Catholic, my brother has remained unbaptized as his father died before any arrangements could be made. My mother, though raised Catholic (and is returning to her childhood faith) was Southern Baptist at the time. My brother’s desire to become Catholic (the parish he, my mother and I attend is the very same parish his father attended) is partly driven by his desire to know his father. If that desire can lead him into a closer relationship to Christ, I will not do anything to endanger that. As such, my brother (who is very intelligent) understands that I prefer the Orthodox Church and as such will sometimes attend Divine Liturgy instead of Mass. He knows, however, that my example is not to be followed. When he asks a question regarding theology, I try to present the Catholic viewpoint with the Catholic vocabulary, using the Catechism, the Creeds and the writings of the Saints to try to help illustrate for him the answer. I will wait until after I move out and into my own dwelling if I must to ensure that my brother can get to the point where my conversion does not damage his relationship with our Lord. That relationship is the most important thing: my own relationship with Christ has been greatly improved since my introduction to Orthodoxy, but I will hold back so long as I am needed amongst the Romans, so to speak, for my brother’s sake.
 
I just don’t see it. I can see how individual lines on their own can be convincing about Peter being leader over the others, but even if one accepts that, you have the problem that there is no reference in scripture to his successor.

I do understand the issue many Catholics have with the Orthodox Church, that there is no final source for a definitive teaching on a given topic, yet I think this is a side effect of the Orthodox insistence on the spirit of the law over the letter of the law. This leads to many rules requiring council with a spiritual father to figure out how it should be applied, rather than a one size fits all text giving you the answer.
I am a Protestant I don’t think Protestant Christianity is true ?
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=604653&page=2

From my vantage, everything comes down to the credibility of the Church and that can be directly measured by the credibility of the founder.
Both the Catholic and Orthodox Churches were founded by Christ. This lends great credibility to both and of course, almost all doctrines are the same.
So what about the split. When the Eastern Churches left Rome, about 30% of the Church went into schism. Subsequently, 30% of those Eastern Churches returned to Rome as the Eastern Rite Churches

Its hard to say that Rome is in schism with the East, given those numbers.
here is a look at the numbers today:
adherents.com/adh_branches.html#Christianity.

As for the point that we need to reunite. Making this more difficult of course, is that their is not one orthodox church to work with, there are many.​

forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=559107&highlight=gurneyhalleck1&page=5
See post #69 and post #70
Should I check out a Russian or a Greek church first?

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Originally Posted by gurneyhalleck1
The Orthodox could’ve lived side by side with Catholics and the filioque and leavened bread and all the other things,
I’m not so sure of this… to put it mildly.

Since the original thread is about Russian or Greek, here’s my own experience with the Russian EOC. I met a Russian woman back in 2004, and I went with her to the ROCOR (Russian Orthodox Church Outside of Russia) service. One of the first things I learned that all New Calendar Churches are “not really Orthodox”. There are three other Orthodox churches in the city (New Orleans, Louisiana) I was living in, namely a Greek EO, an Antiochian EO, and the Basilian Fathers’ church which serves both the EO and WO Divine Liturgy, but those were “apostate”, “not really Orthodox”, as far as ROCOR was concerned. Thus, the community made up of Russians and others (including a guy of Greek heritage - but he subscribed to the Mount Athos version of Greek Orthodoxy, which is Old Calendar) rather drove more than 100 miles and 3 hours to the nearest ROCOR church two states away in Alabama, because that was “truly Orthodox”.

The number one problem was that these other churches (the local “apostate” churches) accepted the New Calendar. But also, the fact that they had pews, and that the Greek one (also the Antiochian one, I seem to remember) had musical instruments, were critical offenses to Orthodoxy. The Russians insist on no pews, no musical instruments (only human voice). And the ROCOR priest told his parishioners not to attend those other EOC except in special cases when there was no access to a “truly Orthodox” Old Calendar church, and not to present themselves for Holy Communion in the New Calendar (Greek, Antiochian) churches.

Since the benign-looking differences like pews and musical instruments are so major to the Russians (not to mention the Calendar!) that they will break communion with fellow EO over those issues, I came to understand that they will only naturally reject communion with the Catholic Churches, over other issues such as the filioque, unleavened bread, and beardless clergy in the Catholic Churches.

See here:
orthodoxchristianity.net/…c=21910.0;wap2
 
How does sola scriptura being unknown to the fathers rebuke or invalidate the concept? This appeal to the fathers and tradition is widely-used method of argument amongst Catholics, so I figured it might apply here too, but I suppose you can just pick and choose when that guiding principle works and when it doesn’t.
The appeal to the ECF and Tradition is no picking and choosing. Is there another kind of source to appeal to outside the ECF and Tradition?
 
Theological and historical matters aside, one big factor for me was the state of the modern Catholic Church. Since Vatican 2, there’s been a widespread corruption of the liturgy, world wide sex abuse scandal, and emphasis on social justice and liberality that I find absolutely unacceptable. I’ve attended mass at a number of different local parishes, and most of the time I’m so put off that I have to struggle not to walk out. Now to be fair some parishes are more traditional, but they’re a small minority. The one parish that I believe I could become a Catholic at is the Tridentine liturgy parish which is traditional.
 
Theological and historical matters aside, one big factor for me was the state of the modern Catholic Church. Since Vatican 2, there’s been a widespread corruption of the liturgy, world wide sex abuse scandal, and emphasis on social justice and liberality that I find absolutely unacceptable. I’ve attended mass at a number of different local parishes, and most of the time I’m so put off that I have to struggle not to walk out. Now to be fair some parishes are more traditional, but they’re a small minority. The one parish that I believe I could become a Catholic at is the Tridentine liturgy parish which is traditional.
I am sorry,but the current state of affair in our so-called modern world does not negate the santification of Christ Church. You mean to tell me the Orthodox churches have no abuses of any kind or never have in their long history?

I can tell you of one scandal off the bat: Peter denying Christ and Judas turning his back on the Son of God. Do you find that acceptable?
 
The appeal to the ECF and Tradition is no picking and choosing. Is there another kind of source to appeal to outside the ECF and Tradition?
So then saying that it doesn’t matter if the papacy has changed drastically since the early church isn’t just picking and choosing when tradition is important and when it is not? Interesting.
 
So then saying that it doesn’t matter if the papacy has changed drastically since the early church isn’t just picking and choosing when tradition is important and when it is not? Interesting.
Your arguments have no beginning or ending…how interesting. Speaking of convenience.
 
I am sorry,but the current state of affair in our so-called modern world does not negate the santification of Christ Church. You mean to tell me the Orthodox churches have no abuses of any kind or never have in their long history?

I can tell you of one scandal off the bat: Peter denying Christ and Judas turning his back on the Son of God. Do you find that acceptable?
I’m saying that if I can find salvation and holiness in Orthodoxy, why would I struggle with the things I described above?
 
I think I shall respond to the OP directly:

I am at the point in my spiritual journey that I am convinced of this: if I had been given the choice and told of the Orthodox Church and received the ability to explore both Roman Catholicism and Orthodoxy, I would be today Orthodox.
Please tell me why? I received an answer to go to a site, and I did…oh, my dear Lord…we tear ourselves apart, regarding man made theories of who did and thought this or that…there are many reasons why we are separated in the belief in Christ, but I see envy and power, control and manipulation of scripture, too. At this rate, there will never be reconciliation of all Christians in Christ!
 
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