In this life we can’t know the depths of what the Holy Trinity is, inherently. Those who make dogmatic statements about new discoveries of its gender, or lack of gender, must have secret sources of revelation. But we can describe a little of what has been revealed about God’s relationship to us, which includes the roles of Father, Son of the Father, and Holy Spirit.
God may have other kinds of relationships to angels, to animals, or to other kinds of creatures or levels of existence we have no awareness of. God may reveal other aspects of the Holy Trinity to other entities; but to us, the Scriptures are the chosen medium.
When my father was alive, I suppose I could have called him “Len”, or “Lieutenant” (since he was in the National Guard), or his job title, or “Committee Chairperson”, or “Coach” (since he coached our Little League team one year) or a few other things. The Church of Sweden would insist each of those would be technically accurate. They might even say those names were preferable for me to use (less sexist, more egalitarian), than the old paternal references.
But I called him “Dad” till the day he died. I would have no confidence in the judgement of someone who called their father “Committee Chairperson” even if their father was a committee chairperson for some neighborhood program.