Perhaps a separation is the better answer. There is absolutely no remarrying, I would not say that any church would want a person to stay in an abusive environment, especially with children, but there should be loving, faithful, and hopeful prayer that the abuser will be enlightened to what he/she has been doing. Sometimes it is very hard to see what you are doing wrong unless you can open your mind and heart to the fact that you are flawed. Try to see the worst in yourself and try to change to save the love filled marriage, after all with God as the bond there must be a solid foundation, right?
