since you are talking about determining how you will proceed, your dialogue makes no sense. You don’t have to justify your choice to anybody – if you have to justify anything, it is your right to make a choice, the sources to support which are readily available.
Let’s assume, for sake of argument, that you’re right that it isn’t necessary to justify the choice to anyone else. I think that’s incorrect (cf., mutatis mutandis, 1 Pet 3:15), but I’ll stipulate it. I still have to justify the choice to myself and to God.
I cannot imagine a circumstance in which your decision to receive on the tongue requires you to prove to anybody that it is the “universal norm.” A perfectly valid response in your dialogue would be “I find this option better for me spiritually, so that’s what I’m gong with. Well, it was nice chatting. Bye.”
It’s a valid response. Not a very good one, though. It will leave the other person suspicious that you haven’t really given the matter any thought at all—that you simply went along with what everyone else in your parish was doing, or did what your friends did, etc. Which may actually be correct: talking to converts from other parishes, many have said that none of their catechists even broached the issue, told them that they had a choice, let alone encouraged them to think about it.
The fact is, a wholly rational response isn’t going to be possible: “I did a lot of research and thinking, but in the end, I felt the spirit was leading me to receive __ the __” may be the honest answer. Perhaps I am overthinking the issue a little, but I would rather overthink it than give it no thought at all.
there is no logical connection between COTT being a “universal norm” for the church and it being the form you ought to use. You have me entirely baffled here; I can’t imagine why you apparently think that finding a document that declares COTT to be the general norm would solve your decision dilemma immediately.
It doesn’t
solve it, but it weights the scales. With respect, I think that the connection is pretty obvious. We are allowed to choose, as I have said, but which should we choose? What are the relevant factors to consider? It seems obvious to me that if COTT is the universal norm for the Church, standing at the head of a thousand years of tradition, it is presumptively the form that should be used unless one is persuaded otherwise. These two points don’t settle the matter, but they do tilt the scales dramatically. Similarly, if COTT is the prevailing practice in the Church at large (the focus of my second question), that, too, tilts the scale.
What seemingly pervades your comment, if I may, is the assumption that if the choice is offered, the faithful can do whatever they like, without giving it any thought or prayer. What’s more, like many comments on this issue, you seem to just assume that since CITH is authorized, it ought to be the default. None of this seems appropriate given the gravity of the subject matter. I can see the argument for advising catachumens to way carefully the two options without a thumb on the scale; both are allowed. And I can see the argument (obviously, since it’s my position) that if there
is to be a thumb on the scale, it should favor the universal norm and tradition of the Church. But
I find entirely baffling the notion that people should just do whatever springs into their mind, which generally means absorbing their practice with nary conscious thought nor prayer on the subject from the prevailing practice in their parish.
It seems to me that what you ought to be asking is, “Persuade me which form I should use.” Instead what you seem to be asking is, “Persuade me which form I should use – but the sole criterion is which is the general norm, and I will not accept anything less than unequivocal proof.”
Well, that, of course, it the broader question I’m trying to answer. My OP here was much more limited because it had a quite specific request. I’m happy to rely on
Memoriale Domini for myself, because I think it’s crystal clear, but the fact is that other people don’t agree: look at Okham’s thread, for example. Repeatedly, CITH proponents point to the U.S. version of the 2003 GIRM and say “behold! The indult has been superseded because the norm is now a choice, so there is no universal rule whence to dispense!” I don’t think that argument holds water, but a document stating unambiguously that COTT remains the universal norm would extinguish that line of argument.
I’m well aware that many CAF denizens have opinions on the broader subject.
