Civil Unions: Can Catholics Support Them?

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But miracles and the work of God has shown many past child bearing age having children.

Why Elizabeth giving birth to John the Baptist

Abrahams wife giving birth.
 
B, but I believe you already know this.
Yes, it is indeed what I stated in my first post I believed the Catholic Church taught. It is nice to know that my understanding is not totally off the mark.

Therefore, it is incorrect to say, as rpp did:
“Remember that the Church presume a marriage, even a civil one, is valid.” There are a great many heterosexual civil marriages that are legally valid in this country that the Catholic Church does not, in actuality, consider to be valid. This is a very important point to remember in such discussions. If that the statement were true, then one would be arguing from the position that any marriage that is made legal civilly somehow forces the Catholic Church to recognize that marriage as a valid marriage against the will of the Church. That is patently untrue as it does not do so currently for those who are divorced or who are related more closely than the Church allows, though such marriages have been allowed for, in the case of divorce, centuries in this country. I am not sure how long first cousin marriages have been allowed, and know that they are not legal in all states and only under certain restrictions in many states.
 
Yes, it is indeed what I stated in my first post I believed the Catholic Church taught. It is nice to know that my understanding is not totally off the mark.

Therefore, it is incorrect to say, as rpp did:
“Remember that the Church presume a marriage, even a civil one, is valid.” There are a great many heterosexual civil marriages that are legally valid in this country that the Catholic Church does not, in actuality, consider to be valid. This is a very important point to remember in such discussions. If that the statement were true, then one would be arguing from the position that any marriage that is made legal civilly somehow forces the Catholic Church to recognize that marriage as a valid marriage against the will of the Church. That is patently untrue as it does not do so currently for those who are divorced or who are related more closely than the Church allows, though such marriages have been allowed for, in the case of divorce, centuries in this country. I am not sure how long first cousin marriages have been allowed, and know that they are not legal in all states and only under certain restrictions in many states.
Yes and no. As long as the people involved are not Catholic the assumption is that they should be considered valid (legal in the sense of allowed.) just not sacramental. So in a round about way it could force those that see only a man & woman as being able to be considered civilly married (valid not a sacramental) to accept the legal status of other types of “marriage” so as you can see it is a yes and no situation.:eek:
 
The Church and Her followers have a moral obligation to see to it that every single article of faith is codified in civil law. The modern notion of a separation between Church and state is a poisonous one that will, in the end, bring this country to ruin. To give recognition to any attempted legal arrangement between persons engaging in same-sex sexual behavior is to forfeit one’s salvation. To be clear, this means no marriage, no civil unions, no wills, no private contracts, no healthcare surrogacy and no deeds held in tandem. Absolutely no legal means for such individuals to make an end-run around the moral law can be permitted. The love of Christ demands that we use every means at our disposal to rip such individuals apart from one another. A truly just society provides no safe harbor for sin!
I think the Church might differ with you on the idea that the best state is a Church/State. Her experience with being in that kind of power arrangement has not been a very good one, and most see her present independence as vastly preferable. But hey, you may in fact argue for theocracy…I don’t think I would say it too loudly however. There is plenty enough Catholic bashing and Catholics making it hard for other Catholics already.
 
By this do you mean to say that the Catholic Church presumes that any marriage deemed legally valid is also automatically sacramentally valid?
Hardly…No the church holds a great many marriages it had nothing to do with invalid. Such as the valid civil marriage between a Catholic and any divorced person, even when the divorced perso is not and never been Catholic nor married in a Catholic Church. The Church, declares the Catholic to be living in sin, until such time as the spouse obtains a annulment (how two non-Catholics can be dragged into an annulment is a bit strange to me). So they do indeed speak to marriages they have nothing to do with and find them invalid. I did some research for a neighbor on this, and sad to say, its true…At least it seems sad to me.
 
To be consistent with that logic, couples who are pass the age of child bearing, who are physically incapable of procreation (disease or physical dysfunction), and who opt to not have children would also lack the procreation element of mariage. Should these be allowed to marry?
Only the latter is I believe prohibited. To desire no children is considered disordered and the penalty is that the person must remain celibate and unmarried for life or until such time as they return to a proper ordered mind. Hopefully, not a lot of this stuff gets too public, I don’t think it plays particularly well in a democratic state. The first two you mentioned still allow the Miracle to take place wherein God intervenes. Apparently, and I sincerely don’t know why this is, God doesnt intervene when a contraceptive is used, though no doubt he could, so only in the latter is there a real refusal to allow for pregnancy, which is the only valid reason for sex. The state of mind of the former two seems not at issue.
 
To be consistent with that logic, couples who are pass the age of child bearing, who are physically incapable of procreation (disease or physical dysfunction), and who opt to not have children would also lack the procreation element of mariage. Should these be allowed to marry?
Yes. There is still the will to procreate. (In most cases) They can adopt if they want a child. Plus, you need parents of BOTH genders in an ideal marriage. Without one or the other to as a mother or a father, your child really misses out. Imagine: whenever a heterosexual preteen boy hits puberty and his gay dads have to counsel him, what are they going to be able to tell him about women, feelings, and womanly anatomy? 🤷
 
I think the question asked in the title of this thread is different from the question asked in the poll. The first asks if Catholics (as a group) can support civil unions. The other question asks if you (as an individual) support civil unions. The difference in the two is Church teaching, and the willingness to oppose Church teaching. Catholics, as a group, can not hold positions contrary to Church teaching. But individuals may choose to oppose Church teaching.

The Vatican document The Considerations Regarding Proposals To Give Legal Recognition To Unions Between Homosexual Persons, published in 2003 and authorized by Cardinal Ratzinger, seems to say ‘no’ to civil unions.
The Church teaches that respect for homosexual persons cannot lead in any way to approval of homosexual behaviour or to legal recognition of homosexual unions. The common good requires that laws recognize, promote and protect marriage as the basis of the family, the primary unit of society. Legal recognition of homosexual unions or placing them on the same level as marriage would mean not only the approval of deviant behaviour, with the consequence of making it a model in present-day society, but would also obscure basic values which belong to the common inheritance of humanity
vatican.va/roman_curia/congregations/cfaith/documents/rc_con_cfaith_doc_20030731_homosexual-unions_en.html

I don’t see very much wiggle room in it. I suppose the question could be asked (okay… I am asking 😊 ) if a celibate loving couple, with no intention of adoption, be approved for civil unions. Much of the document is about sex and the raising of children - if these are not involved is the love between two persons of the same sex to be respected? Can that love be validated in a celibate, childless civil union?
 
Imagine: whenever a heterosexual preteen boy hits puberty and his gay dads have to counsel him, what are they going to be able to tell him about women, feelings, and womanly anatomy?
Probably what a lot of heterosexual dads tell their sons… not a whole lot! 😃
 
I think the Church might differ with you on the idea that the best state is a Church/State. Her experience with being in that kind of power arrangement has not been a very good one, and most see her present independence as vastly preferable. But hey, you may in fact argue for theocracy…I don’t think I would say it too loudly however. There is plenty enough Catholic bashing and Catholics making it hard for other Catholics already.
Why is it that you suppose that the Church would oppose the union of temporal and spiritual authority? Vatican City is, itself, an example of exactly this sort of arrangement. You say “most” see the current secular state of government as preferable to one where religion forms a formal component of the state. I wonder who it is that these individuals are and I further question their motives in preferring such a government. Too often the preference for a secular state is rooted in the individual’s desire to be free to engage in the sins he or she is tempted towards.

In the question over civil unions, we have come upon just this sort of deviant behavior seeking legal sanction based on some of the more secular principles of the eighteenth century. Though there are secular arguments to be made that oppose granting legal recognition to same-sex couples, ultimately such arguments must return to the morality we all mean the state to enforce. Since a secular morality is a contradiction, in order to win the battle against this pervasive evil we must begin to return to a legal framework that is explicitly grounded in religious values.

To install Catholic religious values into the government this means that for same-sex couples there can be no marriage, no civil unions, no wills, no private contracts, no healthcare surrogacy and no deeds held in tandem. Absolutely no legal means for such individuals to make an end-run around the moral law can be permitted. The love of Christ demands that every means be used to rip such individuals apart from one another. The truly just society that we, as serious Christians, are called to enact provides no safe harbor for sin!
 
Why is it that you suppose that the Church would oppose the union of temporal and spiritual authority? Vatican City is, itself, an example of exactly this sort of arrangement
**You should look at the Church historically. When the Church became immersed in politics, the invariably ran into problems. That’s where you find the anti-popes and the multiple popes, and well other heretical behavior. It took the Church some time to readjust to its new position as a Papal State, governing only itself, but I don’t think it would happily return as the state Church. **

. You say “most” see the current secular state of government as preferable to one where religion forms a formal component of the state. I wonder who it is that these individuals are and I further question their motives in preferring such a government. Too often the preference for a secular state is rooted in the individual’s desire to be free to engage in the sins he or she is tempted towards.

**OUr country was founded on the principal that the Government shall make no law establishing any religion. Nobody, last I heard was in favor of changing this. I think its motivated by wanting to be free to practice one’s own religion or no religion without interference by the state. **

In the question over civil unions, we have come upon just this sort of deviant behavior seeking legal sanction based on some of the more secular principles of the eighteenth century. Though there are secular arguments to be made that oppose granting legal recognition to same-sex couples, ultimately such arguments must return to the morality we all mean the state to enforce. Since a secular morality is a contradiction, in order to win the battle against this pervasive evil we must begin to return to a legal framework that is explicitly grounded in religious values.

**Well you go out and announce that as your platform, and we can see how happy people are to be in a Catholic theocracy. **

To install Catholic religious values into the government this means that for same-sex couples there can be no marriage, no civil unions, no wills, no private contracts, no healthcare surrogacy and no deeds held in tandem. Absolutely no legal means for such individuals to make an end-run around the moral law can be permitted. The love of Christ demands that every means be used to rip such individuals apart from one another. The truly just society that we, as serious Christians, are called to enact provides no safe harbor for sin!
**Yes to be sure, in the name and for the love of Jesus, use “every means. . . to rip such individuals apart.” 😦 **
 
\To install Catholic religious values into the government this means that for same-sex couples there can be no marriage, no civil unions, no wills, no private contracts, no healthcare surrogacy and no deeds held in tandem. Absolutely no legal means for such individuals to make an end-run around the moral law can be permitted. The love of Christ demands that every means be used to rip such individuals apart from one another. The truly just society that we, as serious Christians, are called to enact provides no safe harbor for sin!
It sounds like you are making them something less than human. 😦

This is a very slippery slope whenever anyone views anyone else as something lesser than them based on some arbritary gauge.
 
I would have answered this differently if the meaning of Civil Unions were expanded.

Colorado voted down Civil Union precisely because it was limited (deliberately) to homosexuals only. It would have passed if it had wider application. Civil unions if we are going to have them should include anyone who wishes to establish an arrangement of living together. Civil unions should not be based on sexual orientation or on sex at all. Many here wanted people like an elderly relatives to live with other relatives and have the benefits and rights for each other. The homosexual element however was trying to do an end run around the ban of same sex marriage.
 
Why is it that you suppose that the Church would oppose the union of temporal and spiritual authority? Vatican City is, itself, an example of exactly this sort of arrangement. You say “most” see the current secular state of government as preferable to one where religion forms a formal component of the state. I wonder who it is that these individuals are and I further question their motives in preferring such a government. Too often the preference for a secular state is rooted in the individual’s desire to be free to engage in the sins he or she is tempted towards.

In the question over civil unions, we have come upon just this sort of deviant behavior seeking legal sanction based on some of the more secular principles of the eighteenth century. Though there are secular arguments to be made that oppose granting legal recognition to same-sex couples, ultimately such arguments must return to the morality we all mean the state to enforce. Since a secular morality is a contradiction, in order to win the battle against this pervasive evil we must begin to return to a legal framework that is explicitly grounded in religious values.

To install Catholic religious values into the government this means that for same-sex couples there can be no marriage, no civil unions, no wills, no private contracts, no healthcare surrogacy and no deeds held in tandem. Absolutely no legal means for such individuals to make an end-run around the moral law can be permitted. The love of Christ demands that every means be used to rip such individuals apart from one another. The truly just society that we, as serious Christians, are called to enact provides no safe harbor for sin!
By this do you mean to say that the Catholic Church presumes that any marriage deemed legally valid is also automatically sacramentally valid?
No not sacramentally valid. Valid only if there are no impediments to the marriage. Valid in form.
Other Eric
That is pretty good and I am with you mostly. There are a few issues of exceptions as I see them
  1. Often misunderstood in this thread is church teaching on marriage. Which s marriage is a designed state between a man and a woman designed primarily to procreate humans. Additionally the church teaches that the design of man and woman is such that they are to pair bond for life and may practice sex for unity. Unity being the marriage of their flesh for life.
  2. Because of what marriage is, we can see that SSA couples cannot meet such a definition. So no SSA marriage in the church regardless of civil standing.
  3. Does civil union mean marriage? Does civil union
    afford child bearing (and rearing) benefits? Neither can be answered in the Church because the marriage issue is no marriage can exist , and the benefits are not an issue of morals. So issues as “no wills, no private contracts, no healthcare surrogacy and no deeds held in tandem” are outside the church.
In summary the Church traditions would never allow a marriage definition be applied to a SSA couple. As “civil union” is not a clearly defined state the church could not determine if such a state is acceptable or not until the definition is made clear. It is important to remember sex is designed for the married man and woman so any action which contradicts such is unsupportable.

Additionally, for the earlier misunderstanding concerning marriage outside the church. The church recognizes noncatholics answering god’s call ( known as Natural Moral law) so the pair bonded husband and wife married outside the church are recognized. Any who arrive with a marriage certificate but are not in compliance with Moral Natural Law cannot be recognized. Hope that helps
 
It sounds like you are making them something less than human. 😦

This is a very slippery slope whenever anyone views anyone else as something lesser than them based on some arbritary gauge.
If it sounds as though I am making those who have same-sex attractions out to be less than human, that is your inference, not my argument.
 
Other Eric
That is pretty good and I am with you mostly. There are a few issues of exceptions as I see them
  1. Often misunderstood in this thread is church teaching on marriage. Which s marriage is a designed state between a man and a woman designed primarily to procreate humans. Additionally the church teaches that the design of man and woman is such that they are to pair bond for life and may practice sex for unity. Unity being the marriage of their flesh for life.
  2. Because of what marriage is, we can see that SSA couples cannot meet such a definition. So no SSA marriage in the church regardless of civil standing.
  3. Does civil union mean marriage? Does civil union
    afford child bearing (and rearing) benefits? Neither can be answered in the Church because the marriage issue is no marriage can exist , and the benefits are not an issue of morals. So issues as “no wills, no private contracts, no healthcare surrogacy and no deeds held in tandem” are outside the church.
In summary the Church traditions would never allow a marriage definition be applied to a SSA couple. As “civil union” is not a clearly defined state the church could not determine if such a state is acceptable or not until the definition is made clear. It is important to remember sex is designed for the married man and woman so any action which contradicts such is unsupportable.

Additionally, for the earlier misunderstanding concerning marriage outside the church. The church recognizes noncatholics answering god’s call ( known as Natural Moral law) so the pair bonded husband and wife married outside the church are recognized. Any who arrive with a marriage certificate but are not in compliance with Moral Natural Law cannot be recognized. Hope that helps
On the whole, I agree with your assessment of the validity of marriage and the purpose it is meant to serve. Though your argument was better than many I’ve seen, I would still caution against presenting a same-sex couple’s inability to enter into marriage as nothing more than a mere accident of biology. One’s identity as a man or a woman is deep and profound and meant to serve some purpose. One’s gender is not to be thought of as a quality arrived at by chance and that if only one’s body was equipped with the proper set of genitals, such a union would be fine. I suppose I need not point out to you that there exist more than a few individuals who concede your argument and therefore set out on a program of mutilating their bodies through surgery. The prohibition on marriage to a same-sex couple runs much deeper than the mechanics involved in an act of coitus.

In the issue surrounding civil unions, it is clear to me that the Church definitely has taken a stand against them. Marriage comes with a set of legal privileges meant to facilitate its purpose in begetting the next generation and preserving the intimate union of the spouses. To take any one of these privileges, no matter how slight, and apply it to a same-sex couple lends a formal legitimacy to a union that is more about orgasm than anything else. It gives this vulgar union a comparable legal status to marriage and must be rejected. By expecting the state to enforce a will or jointly held deed which would effectively disinherit the family of the deceased to property they might have otherwise received or to allow some unrelated stranger to make medical decisions instead of the patient’s blood relatives is to provide a legal framework in which the family plays second fiddle to a union that the Church teaches is intrinsically evil.

Call it civil union, call it a business partnership, call it a right of free association or paint it yellow and call it a canary, they are all the same thing. Whether through formally codified lawful status or legal chicanery, they all give an official status to a sinful union at the expense of both marriage and the family. The moral law is clear: no marriage, no civil unions, no wills, no private contracts, no healthcare surrogacy and no deeds held in tandem. Nothing must exist that would legally facilitate an inherently sinful relationship.
 
**Yes to be sure, in the name and for the love of Jesus, use “every means. . . to rip such individuals apart.” 😦 **
You cannot imagine that the love of Christ is a saccharine sweet thing that contains within it no bitter pill for those who obstinately persist in evil. Nor can you imagine that Christ has called us to ignore the sinfulness of our brothers and to avoid doing what we must to keep them from error. I choose to believe when Christ spoke of Hell, that He was not bluffing. I further choose to believe that indifference to the plight of our brothers is a grave evil that would merit my own damnation should I permit such an attitude within myself.

The question of the merits to be had in a “theocracy” versus the secular and Godless system we now find ourselves in is a question for another thread. For now it is enough to show that lending any form of legitimacy to the same-sex couple is to participate in the sin of the sodomite. As such the Christian must take care to see to it that such individuals do not have the benefit of any law, no matter how well-intentioned, that would facilitate their own disgusting hedonism.
 
Though marriage began as a religious institution, it is now also a legal institution. As civil unions are strictly a part of the legal forum and make no attempt to deal with religious ceremonies, I see no valid argument why gay and lesbian people shouldn’t be able to enter into a legal civil union or marriage. The rights, privileges, and benefits afforded by civil unions and marriage don’t have much to do with religion, anyway… they include power of attorney in the event that a partner dies or falls ill, the ability to visit the bedside of an ill partner, and similar benefits. I don’t see how granting those rights/privileges/benefits goes against God in any way.

So in short, yes, I think Catholics can and should support civil unions.
 
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