I forgot to put that we were both Bapitized, but not in the Catholic church. He was Bapitized in a Methodist church and I was Bapitized twice, once as a baby in the Lutheran church and when I was 18 in a non-demo church. Thank you for your answer.
unless there are other factors (previous marriage by either party, for instance) a civil marriage between these two baptized persons would be both valid and sacramental. It is highly unlikely that all the relevant information can or should be shared on this forum. The conversation with the priest is the time and place to lay out all the facts about your family situation and let him guide you.
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