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zipperc98
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I have been increasingly bothered by this.subject and while I have heard this type of topic discussed before I would still love some insight here.
A large sum of my close friends from the last 6 or so years call themselves Pagan. My best friend in fact, who was raised Catholic and states Catholicism is part of her identity, also practices a small level of paganism. (Tarao cards is pretty much the extent). My bff would also describe herself as “Recovering Catholic” along with her sister, another good friend.
My bff met some of my other friends, one of whom was a non-practicing Wiccan. This other friend states that meeting my bff awakened her Wiccan beliefs, and began practicing again. This friend’s best friend is a Wiccan priestess, also grew up Catholic. She then initiated this other friend to become a priestess as well. What then resulted was a practicing coven group who would meet regularly.
While this all started.before I was Catholic and was considering leaving the LDS faith, I was a tad curious.as to what all this was about. Eventually my ordained priestess friend pretty much sent me an email saying I was not welcome at their events and was never invited. Praise God for this, in hindsight.
What actually bothers me is a couple things. First my best friend, whom by the way, despite her essential Agnosticism, is a wonderful person and I pray for her daily. When she discovered I was becoming Catholic, well she wasn’t happy. She was under the assumption I would become zealous somehow. She holds herself distant because I think she is afraid I will constantly go on and on about my faith? Which wouldn’t be a bad thing…but she assumes I would do it in a confrontational way. I think she is already assuming the worst, and I have no idea how to break the barrier. She herself has told me she is open to the idea of finding faith. I think she is looking for a very tangible sign from God. Anyway, I have heard from her many times the argument that the Catholics got their traditions and teaching from the Pagans…like I had an advent wreath out and she comments how we got that from Pagan traditions.
Besides her, my other Wiccan Priestess friend constantly makes similar claims. In.a friendly discussion she states how the Catholic
church got their practices by adapting Pagan beliefs in order to convert pagans. I informed her the Catholic church is more of the fulfillment of the Jewish faith in some regards, which of course got twisted. Like she states St. Brigitte from Ireland was actually a pagan Goddess…I didn’t agree or believe anything she said but I also couldn’t refute it.
I am curious to find some books or some solid readings or teachings that help ME know what is actually going on there and be able to give truthfully concise answers that are loving and respectful too.
Also I find it really hard to get past the relativism views, especially among most of the people I know. So many people have misconceptions about the Catholic church…and while I know most of the time they are wrong I am not good at responding.
Funny I have shared before that my previous faith is what truly prepared me for Catholicism. I used to hear people claim how persecuted the LDS were. And certainly people disagreed with my decision to join but also respected it. I tell people now, if they want to know what it feels like to be persecuted. Try being Catholic. Churches that reformed from the one true faith despise the church, have misconceptions. And I find myself, even more so, surrounded by anti-religious liberals (I live in Portland Oregon…) who tear apart my beliefs as though I was a bigot or closeminded, or somehow homophobic. The list goes on. My point is my faith is stronger than it has ever been, and the proof is undeniable. And I am fearful of being persecuted.for it the rest of my life. But worse is not being able to defend it.
Can you help me with any recommendations? I know this was long winded and quite the background story. I am trying to.embrace this cross to bear, because it is huge. And I am willing. But I would love a little extra strength in being able to hold it up…any thoughts?
Thanks!
A large sum of my close friends from the last 6 or so years call themselves Pagan. My best friend in fact, who was raised Catholic and states Catholicism is part of her identity, also practices a small level of paganism. (Tarao cards is pretty much the extent). My bff would also describe herself as “Recovering Catholic” along with her sister, another good friend.
My bff met some of my other friends, one of whom was a non-practicing Wiccan. This other friend states that meeting my bff awakened her Wiccan beliefs, and began practicing again. This friend’s best friend is a Wiccan priestess, also grew up Catholic. She then initiated this other friend to become a priestess as well. What then resulted was a practicing coven group who would meet regularly.
While this all started.before I was Catholic and was considering leaving the LDS faith, I was a tad curious.as to what all this was about. Eventually my ordained priestess friend pretty much sent me an email saying I was not welcome at their events and was never invited. Praise God for this, in hindsight.
What actually bothers me is a couple things. First my best friend, whom by the way, despite her essential Agnosticism, is a wonderful person and I pray for her daily. When she discovered I was becoming Catholic, well she wasn’t happy. She was under the assumption I would become zealous somehow. She holds herself distant because I think she is afraid I will constantly go on and on about my faith? Which wouldn’t be a bad thing…but she assumes I would do it in a confrontational way. I think she is already assuming the worst, and I have no idea how to break the barrier. She herself has told me she is open to the idea of finding faith. I think she is looking for a very tangible sign from God. Anyway, I have heard from her many times the argument that the Catholics got their traditions and teaching from the Pagans…like I had an advent wreath out and she comments how we got that from Pagan traditions.
Besides her, my other Wiccan Priestess friend constantly makes similar claims. In.a friendly discussion she states how the Catholic
church got their practices by adapting Pagan beliefs in order to convert pagans. I informed her the Catholic church is more of the fulfillment of the Jewish faith in some regards, which of course got twisted. Like she states St. Brigitte from Ireland was actually a pagan Goddess…I didn’t agree or believe anything she said but I also couldn’t refute it.
I am curious to find some books or some solid readings or teachings that help ME know what is actually going on there and be able to give truthfully concise answers that are loving and respectful too.
Also I find it really hard to get past the relativism views, especially among most of the people I know. So many people have misconceptions about the Catholic church…and while I know most of the time they are wrong I am not good at responding.
Funny I have shared before that my previous faith is what truly prepared me for Catholicism. I used to hear people claim how persecuted the LDS were. And certainly people disagreed with my decision to join but also respected it. I tell people now, if they want to know what it feels like to be persecuted. Try being Catholic. Churches that reformed from the one true faith despise the church, have misconceptions. And I find myself, even more so, surrounded by anti-religious liberals (I live in Portland Oregon…) who tear apart my beliefs as though I was a bigot or closeminded, or somehow homophobic. The list goes on. My point is my faith is stronger than it has ever been, and the proof is undeniable. And I am fearful of being persecuted.for it the rest of my life. But worse is not being able to defend it.
Can you help me with any recommendations? I know this was long winded and quite the background story. I am trying to.embrace this cross to bear, because it is huge. And I am willing. But I would love a little extra strength in being able to hold it up…any thoughts?
Thanks!