There is a lot of highly speculative theory in that post. *With all due respect ,pray tell what is the difference between “highly speculative theory” and discerning through reasoned study of scripture, Church History and teachings and the writings of the Saints …indeed you have quoted saints writings and teachings to uphold your position? My position is not mine alone *
I believe that the Holy Theotokos never had any other children because it is traditional fact, in much the same way I believe that she died, was buried and was assumed to heaven. The traditional faith teaches these things as fact but we cannot actually know them to be true, we can believe them to be so if we can be assured that church tradition has not been tampered with over time.
Do you not believe what Jesus said when he told his disciples that He would not leave them alone that He would send them the Holy Spirit? With all due respect I have heard this kind of argument used from our separated protestant brethren/I] But these are not the most important facts of faith and I do not need to speculate as to the meaning of them. *Again with all due charity meant because as I explained, I have been in your position, this is exactly the argument I hear daily from our protestant brethren when they …based on the Bible alone but claiming they have the truth because they have the Holy Spirit ,argue with each-other both believing they are right and the other wrong and indeed they can not both be right and yet we have over 30,000 denominational churches all believing something a little different and all claiming to be Christians and that the differences are not ultimately important to their salvation- to me this is a relativistic argument * There is no reason to get expansive on them. They are only important insofar as they support the saving message of Christ and derive all of their meaning from that, not the other way around.
I don’t accept the arguments laid out in Maryann’s post on Saint Mary of Nazareth’s perpetual virginity as salvific,* I think you misunderstood me, I did not specifically say that Mary’s perpetual virginity is salvific in and of it’s own- Jesus is our salvation, but Mary’s perpetual virginity IS part of God’s plan of salvation because it is part of the whole essence of who Jesus is for us. Your line of thinking I have seen most Protestants use ( sorry I use this example always because it is what I deal with daily because of my work- I do not mean to say that you are a Protestant). They say “you only have to believe in Jesus” but fail to expand on the entire mystery of what that actually means and in doing so often subconsciously reject core teachings of Jesus even though it is in the Bible that they state they use as their sole authority- The real presence for example.* It is one person’s explanation for what he/she believes. My strong belief in her perpetual virginity is based on the tradition handed to us, but (all other things being equal) *if *I had never been aware of this tradition my salvation would not be in danger on that count, it is secondary and does not influence one’s faith, actions or life choices. ***You are right that your salvation would not be in danger if you had not been aware of this fact of Mary’s perpetual virginity BUT that is a dangerous argument to make because some have used the “ignorance is bliss” argument to claim that perhaps the un- evangelized are better off not knowing the Gospel because then they will be ignorant and not held accountable due to their ignorance but this idea contradicts Jesus. As far as we know Jesus did not specifically teach about the perpetual virginity of Mary because he did not need to since Mary was there for the Apostles to ask and factual history of that was already known. As we know St John said that if all the things about Jesus were written the book would cover the entire earth and not be enough to contain all the truth. No wonder Jesus sent the Holy Spirit ***
“When comparing doctrines with one another, they [theologians] should remember that in Catholic doctrine there exists an order or ‘hierarchy’ of truths, since they vary in their relation to the foundation of the Christian faith.”
UNITATIS REDINTEGRATIO Rome 1964
There is a hierarchy of belief, some things are indispensably true and some things are true but not necessary, then there are false beliefs or myths which are not necessarily dangerous or even troublesome and other false beliefs which are certainly dangerous. There are all kinds of ideas being shared out there in the world which are not important for salvation yet right or wrong, people obsess over them, sometimes to the point of alienating or even condemning their brothers and sisters in Christ.
Well perhaps I should not have left the table so soon. Thank you for all the comments to my post. I would like to address this one ( my comments in color - I still have not figured out how to do the line by line quote followed by my comment.)