Clothing Optional Beaches

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Ed, those showers were a good thing. It certainly made us smell better and it gave us a normal exposure to other nude bodies. For the most part, the days of mandatory gang showers are past. Some schools systems have done away with PE altogether. If they do have PE, they would rather stink all day long than take a shower. In my day, the gym teacher made sure every got a least a quick rinse off. You have many kids that reach college age that have never been nude in a locker room. Other than there own reflection, their only perception of a nude body is internet porn.

To give you another illustration. A couple of years ago, we were visiting a water park in Florida. I (40 something) took my young son into the locker room to change into our suits. There are the usual benches along the walls. There are also 3 or 4 little changing rooms with full solid wood doors along one wall. I really didn’t even notice them. We set our stuff down on a bench and started pealing off our clothes. One of the doors opens and a 20 something father and son walk out. He holds the door and ask me if we want to use the changing room. I tell him, "No, we’re good. Thanks. " We finished changing into our swimsuits. I could tell the other father was shocked.
We are now in a day and age that being nude for 60 seconds in a single sex locker room when changing makes they younger generation very uncomfortable. It’s very sad. That level of modesty, male or female, is damaging.
The level of modesty being promoted today is 100% wrong. 100% wrong. Young women walking around in thong bikinis because they think, all the other girls do it, why shouldn’t I? People, Catholics in particular, had better start reverencing the other person. Modesty is the natural barrier between an appropriate appreciation of beauty and pornography.

But who is at fault? The 24/7 hyper-sexuality being produced by the media. I’m tired of disgusting images of Lady Gaga. I’m tired of celebrities acting like lust-crazed idiots on TV shows, and in movies.

The biggest falsehood that was sold to the Western World during the 1968 Summer of Love was have sex with anybody and everybody. You Can’t Control Yourself! And Your Kids. They can’t control themselves either. So get them contraception, now!

Stop it. Stop believing the false information and turn off the dirty images. Stop buying the magazines and read a few pages from the Bible each day. Tune your radio to Catholic Radio and leave it there. There is no reason for Catholics to participate in the lewd, crude, vulgar and obscene aspects of the culture. I encourage you.

God bless,
Ed
 
People are hungry. I heard once when Jerusalem was under siege, people were made to starve. It wa so horrible that people ate their own childreen…it could be a different country…I could be wrong

When people are hungry, sometimes they loose reason. Especially when they don’t have strong enough Faith. The nude body has something to do with the understanding of the meaning of life, family, and relationships. Seeing yourself regularly without seeing the opposite sex, and other is not enough to have a well seated idea of the complementality of the sexes. People are stuck with a body they don’t understand. Since man is a rational creatures and want to understand, they will try to satisfy this hunger. Unfortunately in the West, porn turn out to be the closest and only apparent place where nude bodies can be seen. What a shame!

It is not accident that Countries which appear to be puritanical are also the same struggling with homosexuality and all kinds of sexual confusions. Countries that abhor homosexualities are also the same that are relaxed and at peace with simple nudity. They grasp the meaning of relationships almost unconsciously. People there know that breasts are for breastfeeding, for babies not for men. The feeling of chock or lust at the sight of a women breast is unexistant in some cultures. Childreen in neighborhood bathing or swimming together. Grown up swimming sometimes nude in some proper areas. In brief, no puritanical regulations on public nudity. They have a strong sense of modesty, they know that a nude body does not mean ‘prepare for sex’.

Peacefully seeing nudity often is a healthy thing. Like in the way we see an airplane in the sky often. When you hear it, you don’t necessarly look at it. And when you look at it, you look at it with peace in the heart as long as airplanes in sky does not mean ‘imminent danger’ for instance. However, if you are in a place where airplane in sky means ‘bombs are about to drop’. Then…hearing it is a horrific experience…
The solution is not to forbide airplanes in the sky, but to bring peace, so airplane can actually come to mean peace.

I believe nudism is just an other fondementalism. It is the opposite exreme of puritanism.
“The whole curse of the last century has been what is called the Swing of the Pendulum; that is, the idea that Man must go alternately from one extreme to the other. It is a shameful and even shocking fancy; it is the denial of the whole dignity of the mankind. When Man is alive he stands still. It is only when he is dead that he swings.” G.K. Chesterton
However, for a man to take off all his clothers before heading for the waters on a beach, and put them back on once he is out, I don’t see anything wrong with it…objectively speaking. What belong to the spouse is not the form of the body. All men /women have the same form!! What really belong to the spouse is the unique full person who is fully given in marriage, not the small part on the beach or at work or on the street.

When people confuse the meaning of nudity, I think it also affect marriage seriously. If a nude body is seen as a lust generating thing, then people inevitably will lust after their own spouse. Or will think that only my spouse may be allowed to lust after me and call this modesty.

God bless
 
Edwest2,

If you are going to quote me in the future, I would prefer if you would say something that was in some way related to what I have written. 🤷
 
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