shannin:
I work with a very nice woman that attends a non-denominational Church. In the past we’ve shared our common Christian beliefs - I’m a devout Catholic. One time I even told her how nice it was to work with another person that was such a good Christian. What should I do? Should I (1) just forget about it or (2) explain how Catholics feel about "once saved, always saved in order to defend my Church? Any suggestions or ideas? I’m a little annoyed about this but I do have to work with this woman.
Let her know that you have a very personal relationship with Jesus Christ and that He is indeed your Saviour and invite her to find out more about the Catholic Church.
Here is a Tract that I print out and give such people:
Thank you so much for your concern for my soul. I deeply appreciate it, however with all due respect and all charity, the fact is that in spite of your misunderstanding, we Catholics are Christians, and part of the same Christianity that the early Apostles practiced. Our faith is the same one that began with Our Lord Jesus Christ and has endured for 2,000 years. We Catholics believe that the Bible is the inspired Word of God; that God is a Trinity that consists of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, and that we are saved by a personal relationship with the risen Lord Jesus Christ. We are “born again” and we do our best to live out that relationship by producing fruit worthy of repentance. None of us are perfect; we’re still all too human , but we confess our sins to God in obedience to the scriptures and make a moment-by-moment effort to be the best Christians that we can. There are differences between us…They are the result of a division that occurred about 500 years ago called the Reformation. Prior to that we were all Catholics, and can be verified by the letter of Ignatius, the Bishop of the church of Antioch that he wrote to the church at Smyrna in about 107 AD. (Remember Antioch, the church in Acts 11:26 where we were first called Christians to begin with) This name stuck in order to differentiate between the church of Christ and other heretical groups such as the Gnostics. The difference between us is simple and fundamental. The first has to do with the verifiable fact that the early Christians relied on verbal tradition until the 4th century when the Council of Carthage settled the matter of the canon of the Bible with the 73 books that consist of the 46 books of the Alexandrian text of the Old Testament (also known as the Septuagint,) which was in Greek (not Hebrew) and the 27 books of the New Testament. As a result, the Apostles encouraged the early church to hold fast to the traditions that had been taught to them either by word or letter. Keep in mind that the last verse of Saint John’s Gospel says that not all that Jesus said and did is written down and that the entire world could not contain all the books if they were. Sacred Tradition helps us properly interpret the Word of God. It is not the “traditions of men” that Jesus condemned, since it in no way sets aside the laws of God, but along with the Bible confirms what they mean and helps to guide us into right doctrine. 2nd Thessalonians 2 :14 “Therefore, brethren, stand fast; and hold the traditions which you have learned, whether by word, or by our epistle.” 2nd Thessalonians 3 :6 “And we charge you, brethren, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that you withdraw yourselves from every brother walking disorderly, and not according to the tradition which they have received of us.” The other is the doctrine that we are saved by “faith alone” and that our works have no merit before God, the only place where the words “faith alone” are used together is in James 2:24 where it says, “You see that a man is justified by works and not by faith alone.” Most of the confusion between Catholics and other Christian churches is “trickle-down effect”. This Rest assured that if you are willing to do some research into authentic Catholic writings like the Catechism of the Catholic Church you will find that there are very good reasons for what we believe and practice. You can also check out Authentic Catholic teachings online at
Catholic.com and Vatican.va (The official Vatican Website!). For the truth about the Catholic faith, ask us, we have nothing that we want to hide. We do not attempt to evangelize people who are already part of a Christian church though we will readily dialog with others and try to answer any questions they may have concerning Catholicism. Our focus is on our families and those without a faith or church. The harvest is indeed plentiful, so let’s be about Our Father’s business.