An excellent and profound question!
The fact is that we don’t know precisely what existing and thinking are! That is why there are disputes about the nature of reality and knowledge. We all live with a stranger who does not completely understand himself or herself. Existence is a mystery and so is thought. We use words, i.e. symbols, to describe our experiences but we are working in the dark.
Yet the success of science demonstrates that we understand reality enough to achieve results even though we cannot get to the “heart of the matter”.That is why, ironically, materialists regard matter as the basic reality. What they forget is that the success of science is due to “us” and our power of thought. Consciousness is our sole certainty. All the rest is speculation. When we feel pain we infer that something caused it but we do not have direct knowledge of that cause. This is where Descartes was dead right. No one else thinks what we think and feels what we feel. We cannot escape from ourselves. But why should we? To exist as individuals free to think and feel for ourselves is a wonderful gift. No one can chain our minds. If others knew exactly what we are thinking we would have no privacy whatsoever! It would be a blessing in some ways but a curse in others. We would no longer be free in the full sense of the word. It would be worse than Big Brother watching us all the time. Others would know every detail of our lives…
If we are Christians we are never alone. Yet this is not a curse but a consolation. We believe God is not a Judge but a Father who loves us more than we love ourselves! The mystery of our existence leads us directly to the mystery of His existence. It makes us acutely aware of how limited our knowledge of reality is, in spite of our technological achievements. We can control objects but to what extent can we control ourselves? We know from bitter experience which is the more important. Ultimately what matters is not what we are but who we are. Our knowledge and understanding are limited but there are no limits to our capacity for love.
We should be grateful to Descartes for his original contribution to our understanding of knowledge. He directed our attention to the fact that knowledge does not begin and end with the outside world, or even with our body, but within ourselves. For us this is the primary reality. Our thoughts and emotions are more important than anything else. We may be living in a magnificent palace with every luxury we desire but at the very same moment we may also be in hell. It is only when our inner solitude is transformed by the highest form of knowledge that we are no longer alone. Love enables us to be united to others and have a foretaste of heaven…