When our church was new, our priest had everyone stand up, greet their neighbor, then we played a verse of “All are Welcome”
I didn’t think this was inappropriate for a new parish.
Fast forward a few years, new priest, new temp building, music ministry splits up to cover more masses… One choir leader got up every week before mass and asked if anyone was celebrating an anniversary or birthday… then asked them all to greet their neighbors and sing. I refused to do this, (as it was not a direct request of the priest.) I told the director that I was there to be a cantor, not an emcee. A few months later, mercifully, the practice was stopped entirely.
I’m not sure what was merciful about it, but that’s okay.
I don’t have nearly the back ground or understanding of the GIRM, liturgical norms, Motu Prop…whatever, of others who frequent these forums - I have what I guess is a simple faith - there are things that ought to happen at Mass and things that ought not happen at Mass because as his holiness indicated, distortions (or whetever the word is) occur.
What should happen, IMHO, is this - I should be on my knees thanking God and Holy Mother Church for the opportunity to give thanks to my Creator and vehicle (the mass, not my car) within which to do this - and at every opportunity that my soul is in the state of grace it ought to be, receive the precious Body and Blood of my Savior, our Lord, Jesus, the Christ.
If the music is exceptional great, if not, I remember the injunction is to make a joyful noise, if not necessarily harmonious (i had to work hard on this one 'cause my dad has a lead ear, but loved to sing.) If the lector doesn’t pronouce every word exactly correctly, I offer it up as thankful that I didn’t have to pronouce the “Taberinth at Mamre” or “the river Jabbok.” If the homily doesn’t keep me on the edge of my seat, or is just plain terrible, I remember the remark of St. Francis, “these are the hands that bring me Jesus.”
But this is MY time with Jesus, with others who are muddling through life, just like me - and I try very hard to not let the action/inaction of others keep me from that focus. Maybe if I knew more, I’d be bothered more - but maybe this is not what Jesus requires of me just yet.
I am not a contentious person - all you have to go by is what you read hear - rest assured, mispellings aside, it is offered, for what it is worth, in peace.
SB