Communion and remarriage

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Can. 11 Merely ecclesiastical laws bind those who have been* baptized in the Catholic Church or received into it**, possess the efficient use of reason, and, unless the law expressly provides otherwise, have completed seven years of age.*
 
Can. 11 Merely ecclesiastical laws bind those who have been* baptized in the Catholic Church or received into it***, possess the efficient use of reason, and, unless the law expressly provides otherwise, have completed seven years of age.
God’s Divine Law is applicable to all. For example, if you divorce, you are not free to remarry unless the first spouse is deceased. How do we know that’s Divine Law? Matt. 19:3-9

Ecclesiastical laws (internal Church laws) apply to only Catholics. For example, a Methodist is not bound to have her marriage in a Catholic Church, however a Catholics is bound to do so.
 
It just gets nastier and why, maybe because some are defending wrong stands?

Any reasonable read of the thread would conclude that noclevername is a sinner by violation of the canon law which does not apply to her. :whacky: Similarly we see catholics quickly judge, yet again where is the catholic teaching to judge at all! Let alone quickly judge a protestant’s marriage? (…sounds like the old……we do not need any stinking badges…)

I would say this to noclevername, there is not a problem between you and the Catholic Church. There is unfortunately problems here with a few catholics. Your husband is not in full communion with the Catholic Church provided the posts are correct. Now as he already married he would have two options 1) return to single, probably not a realistic option, or 2) ask you to apply for an annulment in the Catholic Church (this does not require you to be Catholic). Something of considerable notion from the thread is even if you complete a catholic annulment and a convalidation/radical sanation, then he could return to communion however he could not be a non practicing catholic or a Methodist. One of the things which may not be clear and is terribly abused is that to accept “Communion” which is actually the sacrament of the Eucharist one has to be in alignment with the Catholic Church. ( ie no artificial birth control, no cohabitation, confession and repentance of all sins to include recent sins….etc)

Hope that helps
 
God’s Divine Law is applicable to all. For example, if you divorce, you are not free to remarry unless the first spouse is deceased. How do we know that’s Divine Law? Matt. 19:3-9

Ecclesiastical laws (internal Church laws) apply to only Catholics. For example, a Methodist is not bound to have her marriage in a Catholic Church, however a Catholics is bound to do so.
But that scripture does not say lay catholics are to judge when (lets use USCCB source: - "…whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawful)" ) it is unlawful verses when it is lawful. For her that judgement is made in Natural Moral Law and for her ( and all in her condition) it is easy. For Catholic’s the Natural Moral Law decision must be upheld by the Catholic Church. Our Church holds its power to bind has been used to require that affirmation from the Bishops office (tribunal) for us. But our Church also holds it does not have binding power over her.
 
Any reasonable read of the thread would conclude that noclevername is a sinner by violation of the canon law which does not apply to her.
No, it wouldn’t. A reasonable reading would conclude that the case she posted in the OP is a marriage considered invalid by the Catholic Church because of two specific impediments.
Similarly we see catholics quickly judge, yet again where is the catholic teaching to judge at all! Let alone quickly judge a protestant’s marriage? (…sounds like the old……we do not need any stinking badges…)
No one is judging. Per Canon Law, the wedding is not valid if what she said is complete and correct. That’s just a restatement of a fact.

“If I rob someone at gun point, did I break the law?” “Yes. It is illegal to rob someone at gun point.” “Don’t be so quick to judge!!!”
But that scripture does not say lay catholics are to judge when (lets use USCCB source: - "…whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawful)" ) it is unlawful verses when it is lawful.
She asked a specific scenario and was given a specific response. As stated several times in this thread, no one can give an internet diagnosis without fully understanding the situation, so she should meet with a priest to discuss the issue (or as suggested, contact her husband’s baptismal parish). But she seems to have no interest in that.

Look at it this way, continuing my example from above.

Asker: “If I rob someone at gun point, did I break the law?”
Respondent: “Yes. It is illegal to rob someone at gun point.”

That is not judging, it’s just restating a fact. However, the respondent isn’t a court of law, so she can’t put the asker in prison. However, she can give general information about what is legal and what is not legal and that is acceptable.
For her that judgement is made in Natural Moral Law and for her ( and all in her condition) it is easy. For Catholic’s the Natural Moral Law decision must be upheld by the Catholic Church. Our Church holds its power to bind has been used to require that affirmation from the Bishops office (tribunal) for us. But our Church also holds it does not have binding power over her.
There are two things you’re ignoring: the Church does not need to exercise binding power over her in the case of Divine Law (i.e. freedom to marry). Also, her husband is Catholic, so the Church does have binding power over him (i.e. the Canonical Form of Marriage).

I’m starting to believe that the whole point of your posts are to confuse people.
 
No, it wouldn’t. A reasonable reading would conclude that the case she posted in the OP is a marriage considered invalid by the Catholic Church because of two specific impediments.
She is not catholic something which is dismissed or reinstated at will. If one understands she is not catholic rather than flip flop one can address her questions. Btw she did not ask the questions being answered.
No one is judging.
somebody is kidding their self
Per Canon Law, the wedding is not valid if what she said is complete and correct. That’s just a restatement of a fact.
She is not catholic
“If I rob someone at gun point, did I break the law?” “Yes. It is illegal to rob someone at gun point.” “Don’t be so quick to judge!!!”
She asked a specific scenario and was given a specific response. As stated several times in this thread, no one can give an internet diagnosis without fully understanding the situation, so she should meet with a priest to discuss the issue (or as suggested, contact her husband’s baptismal parish). But she seems to have no interest in that.
She is not catholic so what is the priest to do, other than explain the correct parts of this thread. He has no authority over her, she is not catholic
Look at it this way, continuing my example from above.
Asker: “If I rob someone at gun point, did I break the law?”
Respondent: “Yes. It is illegal to rob someone at gun point.”
That is not judging, it’s just restating a fact. However, the respondent isn’t a court of law, so she can’t put the asker in prison. However, she can give general information about what is legal and what is not legal and that is acceptable.
She is not catholic, she is not under catholic law. Legal authority is clear an issue lacking proper understanding on this thread. Nothing in this thread indicates a breaking of devine law. ONLY to those who judge her marriage attempts can one assess Devine Law. Without judging the marriages there is no reason to doubt her comments on marriage.
There are two things you’re ignoring: the Church does not need to exercise binding power over her in the case of Divine Law (i.e. freedom to marry). Also, her husband is Catholic, so the Church does have binding power over him (i.e. the Canonical Form of Marriage).
I’m starting to believe that the whole point of your posts are to confuse people.
She is not catholic, and nothing in this thread indicates a breaking of Devine law.

If Divine Law is broken the Tribunal has no value for catholics or non catholics. Catholics are bound to the Tribunal’s interpetation of whether Devine Law is broken, Non-catholics use Natural Moral Law.
 
She is not catholic something which is dismissed or reinstated at will.
I really can’t take you serious anymore. You’ve got to by trying to push some buttons here.

It is perfectly well understood that she is not Catholic. However, she is asking if her Catholic husband is in a state, per the Catholic Church, to receive communion in a Catholic church and this is being asked on a Catholic message board. So, yes, the Catholic view of marriage is germane to the discussion.
If one understands she is not catholic rather than flip flop one can address her questions. Btw she did not ask the questions being answered.
To determine her husband’s state for communion, one would need to determine the state of her marriage. That is the connection between her marriage and her question.
She is not catholic
You do not need to be Catholic to be in a marriage considered invalid by the Catholic Church. Typically, non-Catholics couldn’t care less what the Church thinks, but in her case, it matters because it affects her husband’s ability to receive communion.
She is not catholic so what is the priest to do, other than explain the correct parts of this thread. He has no authority over her, she is not catholic
But her husband is Catholic. She’s asking about her husband’s ability to accept communion. The priest would tell her whether or not her husband can receive communion, and whether or not her marriage is valid in the eyes of the Catholic Church, then the priest would tell her and her husband how to resolve any issues if she wanted to do so.
She is not catholic, she is not under catholic law. Legal authority is clear an issue lacking proper understanding on this thread. Nothing in this thread indicates a breaking of devine law.
Matthew 19:3-9.

She married, divorced, and remarried. By Divine Law under the new covenant, she is still married to her first husband and her second marriage is adulterous. She can refuse to believe that interpretation of scripture - that’s her decision. But by the Catholic interpretation, she is in violation of Divine Law and thus her second marriage would be invalid. Now, she’s not Catholic so why should she care? Well because she’s asking about whether or not her husband can take communion in a Catholic Church.

Again - that’s not a judgment of a person. That’s what the Catholic Church believes. Maybe if I preface everything with legalese it’ll be more acceptable to you:
If Divine Law is broken the Tribunal has no value for catholics or non catholics. Catholics are bound to the Tribunal’s interpetation of whether Devine Law is broken, Non-catholics use Natural Moral Law.
There is a Catholic in the marriage (the husband).
 
I really can’t take you serious anymore. You’ve got to by trying to push some buttons here.

It is perfectly well understood that she is not Catholic. However, she is asking if her Catholic husband is in a state, per the Catholic Church, to receive communion in a Catholic church and this is being asked on a Catholic message board. So, yes, the Catholic view of marriage is germane to the discussion.

To determine her husband’s state for communion, one would need to determine the state of her marriage. That is the connection between her marriage and her question.

You do not need to be Catholic to be in a marriage considered invalid by the Catholic Church. Typically, non-Catholics couldn’t care less what the Church thinks, but in her case, it matters because it affects her husband’s ability to receive communion.

But her husband is Catholic. She’s asking about her husband’s ability to accept communion. The priest would tell her whether or not her husband can receive communion,
agreed
and whether or not her marriage is valid in the eyes of the Catholic Church,
Why should we assume the Priest is so foolish and immature? Does the Priest tell the tribunal no further review is necessary?
then the priest would tell her and her husband how to resolve any issues if she wanted to do so.
Matthew 19:3-9.
She married, divorced, and remarried. By Divine Law under the new covenant, she is still married to her first husband and her second marriage is adulterous. She can refuse to believe that interpretation of scripture - that’s her decision. But by the Catholic interpretation, she is in violation of Divine Law and thus her second marriage would be invalid.
This is just wrong flat out completely wrong. The Catholic Church does not change divine law through the annulment process. You can play games and say under divine law she is married and divorced per scripture (protestant interpretation) or you can use the catholic method she attempted marriage but was unsuccessful, then later married. Both are one in the same. The issue is not what scripture says or whether you wish to use Catholic or non-Catholic verbiage, the issue is was it lawful or unlawful. The error you made and other often make is to believe the Catholic Church makes marriages and thus dissolves marriages, they do neither. The Church writings are clear on that subject. When two Catholics receive an annulment it is not a ruling that: Divine Law has been moved to accommodate you! Either the marriage existed and thus is solvent regardless or never existed, and thus Divine Law never applied as it was not a marriage.
Now, she’s not Catholic so why should she care? Well because she’s asking about whether or not her husband can take communion in a Catholic Church.
Again - that’s not a judgment of a person. That’s what the Catholic Church believes. Maybe if I preface everything with legalese it’ll be more acceptable to you:
There is a Catholic in the marriage (the husband).
So are you agreeing that we have no reason to see sin on her part? Oh, wait you said “her second marriage is adulterous” (but did I mention she is not Catholic?). So it is good to know “her second marriage is adulterous” is in no way a judgment.
 
Thank you Texas Roofer. I appreciate your posts and the way you have explained things is the way I thought they were. And I never went on this forum looking for people to tell me I have an adulterous marriage. Ya know how big that makes me feel? I am a very moral person. I am older than the traditional bride (I’ve been married 7 months) but my husband and I did not live together until after our wedding. A lot of our friends were surprised we didn’t live together but we didn’t. My husband pulled away from the Catholic church years ago. He had some issues with certain things. So he is making his own decisions. He had no intention of taking communion at that wedding, I was the curious one.
 
This is just wrong flat out completely wrong. The Catholic Church does not change divine law through the annulment process. You can play games and say under divine law she is married and divorced per scripture (protestant interpretation) or you can use the catholic method she attempted marriage but was unsuccessful, then later married. Both are one in the same.
You’re putting words into my mouth. I never claimed that the annulment process changes Divine Law. A tribunal only investigates the validity of a marriage. It doesn’t change anything.

And those two above aren’t the same. An unsuccessful marriage is very different than a divorce. Many tribunal investigations determine that the original marriage was valid, and as a result, the individuals can not remarry until the spouse dies.
The error you made and other often make is to believe the Catholic Church makes marriages and thus dissolves marriages, they do neither. The Church writings are clear on that subject. When two Catholics receive an annulment it is not a ruling that: Divine Law has been moved to accommodate you!
Who ever said that an annulment is an “accommodation” or that it alters Divine Law? I have never heard anyone say that, let alone say that in this thread.

I am honestly lost for words. You’re completely inventing an argument then arguing against it. It’s the ultimate straw man. Are you using a translator to convert my comments from English to another language then replying in that other language but using a translator to post?
So are you agreeing that we have no reason to see sin on her part? Oh, wait you said “her second marriage is adulterous” (but did I mention she is not Catholic?). So it is good to know “her second marriage is adulterous” is in no way a judgment.
It’s not judgment, it’s Church teaching. Is she a sinner? Well, I assume that she doesn’t understand that what she’s doing is a grave matter, so take that for what it’s worth.

However, we’re not discussing her or her status as a sinner. The question is whether or not her marriage is valid or invalid. Then how that valid or invalid marriage affects her husband’s status to receive communion.
 
Thank you Texas Roofer. I appreciate your posts and the way you have explained things is the way I thought they were.
His posts are NOT accurate, as has been repeatedly pointed out. But, you seem only interested in what you *want *to hear rather than what actually is.
And I never went on this forum looking for people to tell me I have an adulterous marriage. Ya know how big that makes me feel?
Well, I’m not sure why it is surprising you. Many people told you this would be the case BEFORE you even got married.

You married and civilly divorced your husband. You were not free-- under God’s law, not just “Catholic” law-- to marry someone else. Engaging in sexual relations with the man you now call your husabnd while in reality still married to someone else is adultery. Jesus covered this in the Bible. A person who divorces and marries another commits adultery.

God’s law isn’t just for Catholics. It applies to everyone. Adultery is morally wrong whether a Catholic does it, a Methodist does it, or an Atheist does it. They may each *subjectively *have their own opinion on whether or not it is wrong, but it doesn’t change that God says it is wrong.
 
Thank you Texas Roofer. I appreciate your posts and the way you have explained things is the way I thought they were.
Not only are his posts inaccurate, but they do not make sense.
And I never went on this forum looking for people to tell me I have an adulterous marriage. Ya know how big that makes me feel?
I usually try to be nicer, but that’s how the Catholic Church views the case of a civil divorce / remarriage without an annulment. In such a situation, the person is still married to the first husband so relations with the second husband is adultery. It’s that way for every divorced person that was not granted an annulment, it’s just that most people don’t care or ask.
 
I usually try to be nicer, but that’s how the Catholic Church views the case of a civil divorce / remarriage without an annulment. In such a situation, the person is still married to the first husband so relations with the second husband is adultery. It’s that way for every divorced person that was not granted an annulment, it’s just that most people don’t care or ask.
Coffee Hound,

Well, the presumption is that the first marriage is valid. There are no solid reasons to doubt that presumption, in the case at hand: no one has ever said the first marriage is invalid or even claimed it was invalid. Nevertheless, there is a possibility that the first marriage is invalid for one reason or another. If the first marriage is actually invalid then obviously the person is free to marry.

In terms of civil law, “invalidity” or “nullity” seldom enter into the equation. Civil divorce doesn’t consider the marriage as invalid, nor does civil dissolution: they take what is presumed to be valid and, through a stroke of the pen, declare it non-existent/non-binding from that point forward. Such an action is clearly contrary to divine law but such is the hubris of the civil courts.

Another topic. If both parties are subject to the same law, a marriage can be invalid because of one party–if a man is already married, for example, his subsequent marriage would be invalid even though the woman is acting in good faith. Likewise, if a person is bound by one set of laws regarding marriage and the other is bound by another set of laws (citizens of different countries, for example), the couple has to obey both sets of laws or else the marriage is invalid. Both laws bind both parties. If they do not observe one or the other sets of law, the “whole” marriage is invalid. The marriage can’t be invalid for the man and valid for the woman–the marriage bond is one, unique, singular bond that either exists or not.

So, canonical form binds Catholics and, in a way, non-Catholics who marry Catholics. The Church does not impose canon law on non-Catholics. The non-Catholic freely associates with, and subjects him/herself to, canon law by marrying a Catholic. If he/she ends up ignoring canon law, the Catholic party will also have ignored it, making the marriage invalid.

Dan
 
… A tribunal only investigates the validity of a marriage. ** It doesn’t change anything**…
And there it is from your own pen if a tribunal affirms her first attempted marriage was an invalid sacrament it always was. It does not matter when or if they rule, today, tomorrow, 66 years from now, either it was always valid or always invalid it was never the tribunal acting on part of the Church that changed validity.
 
And there it is from your own pen if a tribunal affirms her first attempted marriage was an invalid sacrament it always was.
Yes, but that does not make her second marriage a valid sacrament. Since marriage enjoys the favor of the law, her second marriage will be invalid regardless of the tribunal ruling on the first marriage because she was not free to marry at the time of the second marriage. There would have to be another marriage to the second husband (a convalidation) to make that marriage valid.

I know it sounds like “wow, those crazy Catholics sure have a lot of unnecessary rules” but keep in mind that this only comes about because one very simply rule was broken: marriage is for life.
The Church does not impose canon law on non-Catholics.
Dan,

Thank you for your post. I agree with most of what you said, except for the above. Canon Law is a collection of Divine Law and ecclesiastical laws. Some Canons apply to all people, regardless of religion and some are imposed only on Catholics. For example, the requirement of freedom to marry is Divine Law imposed on all by God, while the form of marriage is an ecclesiastical law not imposed on non-Catholics.
 
Yes, but that does not make her second marriage a valid sacrament. Since marriage enjoys the favor of the law, her second marriage will be invalid regardless of the tribunal ruling on the first marriage because she was not free to marry at the time of the second marriage. There would have to be another marriage to the second husband (a convalidation) to make that marriage valid.
has anyone mentioned to you she is not catholic?
I know it sounds like “wow, those crazy Catholics sure have a lot of unnecessary rules” but keep in mind that this only comes about because one very simply rule was broken: marriage is for life.
Which would be proof the first wedding did not produce a marriage
 
I agree with most of what you said, except for the above. Canon Law is a collection of Divine Law and ecclesiastical laws. Some Canons apply to all people, regardless of religion and some are imposed only on Catholics. For example, the requirement of freedom to marry is Divine Law imposed on all by God, while the form of marriage is an ecclesiastical law not imposed on non-Catholics.
Yes. My use of “canon law” was not precise. Your clarification is correct and I should have used “ecclesiastical law.” But, my main point was that there are times when there are exceptions to the rule and “merely” ecclesiastical law *does *bind non-Catholics. This happens when a non-Catholic freely submits to the requirements of ecclesiastical law, e.g., the RCIA process, canonical form, procedural law in a marriage nullity process, the norms of c. 844, etc.

Thanks for your time.

Dan
 
has anyone mentioned to you she is not catholic?
We all know SHE’s not Catholic. But the validity doesn’t flow to the person but to the matirmonial bond between the two people. Her husband IS Catholic. The bond cannot be valid unless BOTH parties were free to marry. HE was not free to marry a non-Catholic, outside the Church without a dispensation.
 
We all know SHE’s not Catholic. But the validity doesn’t flow to the person but to the matirmonial bond between the two people. Her husband IS Catholic. The bond cannot be valid unless BOTH parties were free to marry. HE was not free to marry a non-Catholic, outside the Church without a dispensation.
And **she **was not free to marry either. She has a prior bond.
 
has anyone mentioned to you she is not catholic?
Divine Law (freedom to marry) still applies to her. Both Divine and ecclesiastical laws (including form) apply to her husband and thus her second marriage.

But, again, this is only in the eyes of the Catholic Church (and God, but I don’t mean to start a debate on scripture). The Methodist Church would find nothing wrong with the current marriage so if someone didn’t care about the Catholic perspective, they’d ignore the Catholic perspective (but that wouldn’t change the Catholic perspective).
Which would be proof the first wedding did not produce a marriage
Not necessarily. Marriage is for life. But that doesn’t mean that ending a marriage (via divorce) makes it invalid; it would depend on what the individuals intended from the start of the marriage.

But again, a marriage is presumed valid until proven invalid. So the first marriage would enjoy the favor of the law and be valid until proven otherwise. That makes the second marriage invalid (generally, in a situation like this).
And **she **was not free to marry either. She has a prior bond.
Right, so there’s two defects: 1. the bride was not free to marry as she was already presumably validly married and 2. the groom ignored the canonical form of marriage. Both would have to be resolved for a marriage to be valid. Presumably (again, trying not to give the impression that this is authoritative for a specific case - it’s a general case).
 
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