K
KD8TZC
Guest
This is a tough issue and I don’t know how I would have handled it. I know when I was preparing to become a Extraordinary Eucharistic minister someone asked what we should do if someone we know who is not Catholic comes up to receive the host or the precious blood. The priests who were there said it was not up to us to withhold Jesus from anyone even if we know this person is not Catholic. They said that we need to mention it to the priest after mass and let them deal with it.
Now, with this, I would more than likely let it happen and mention it to the priest. If he said it is no big deal, and it occurred again, I think I would approach the priest again, and point out the great links that others have provided on this matter and tell him that you did some research and feel very uncomfortable with the matter as the teachings of the church contradict what he is telling you.
Someone earlier had said something about you would make them consume the host first because who knows what they might do with it if they don’t and just walk back to the pew with it. I think you have to consider that with every person who receives the host from you. Personally, I’m not going to worry myself sick about it. If I see someone do something that I don’t agree with, I just will say a quick prayer for them when I get back to the pew after communion. I know many times when I give communion, people will come up, I say “The Body of Christ!” and many will say “Amen” but others may say “YEP” “U-Huh” or nothing at all. When this happens, I just say in my head “Amen” for them. I know it’s not the same as them saying it, but I just hope in my simple mind that God is okay with that and that someone is trying to look out for them.
YBIC - John
Now, with this, I would more than likely let it happen and mention it to the priest. If he said it is no big deal, and it occurred again, I think I would approach the priest again, and point out the great links that others have provided on this matter and tell him that you did some research and feel very uncomfortable with the matter as the teachings of the church contradict what he is telling you.
Someone earlier had said something about you would make them consume the host first because who knows what they might do with it if they don’t and just walk back to the pew with it. I think you have to consider that with every person who receives the host from you. Personally, I’m not going to worry myself sick about it. If I see someone do something that I don’t agree with, I just will say a quick prayer for them when I get back to the pew after communion. I know many times when I give communion, people will come up, I say “The Body of Christ!” and many will say “Amen” but others may say “YEP” “U-Huh” or nothing at all. When this happens, I just say in my head “Amen” for them. I know it’s not the same as them saying it, but I just hope in my simple mind that God is okay with that and that someone is trying to look out for them.
YBIC - John