How else could you have carried it home? If you received on the tongue, which would have been quite a feat in the early Church since what was received was a loaf and not a wafer, you would have either had to take It out of your mouth and put It in your hands or carried It all the way home hanging from your mouth.
No, reception in the hand in those days actually had a valid reason behind it. Today it does not. But if anyone out there can give me a good reason I’ll be glad to listen. So far no one has been able to but who knows, maybe one day.
I think the Eucharistic minister has more to do with reception than most recipients. For example, on a recent visit to the Shrine of the Blessed Sacrament, in Hanceville, Alabama, I attended a Mass in the chapel below the Shrine. It was evident that reception was at the rail, kneeling and on the tongue. I say it was evident as everyone lined up and knelt at the rail, and they used a paten held by a server as one of the priests distributed the host.
The next day, I attended a small Catholic Church in town. Distribution was standing, but it was evidently to be distributed on the tongue as a server immediately placed the paten below each recipients chin.
At my parish, they do not use patens and a lot of the time the host is given by a Eucharistic minister, who acts unsure of how it’s going to be received.
When there is not a paten, I cup my hands together.
Believe me, I have the utmost reverence in my heart for receiving the Lord sacramentally.
Other concerns expressed by posters that I don’t agree with, is forcing one to go one way or the other. I try not to observe what others are doing, as I try to remain as focused on the sacrament as fully as humanly possible.
There are elderly people, or people with health reasons that cannot easily kneel.
Also, I wear dentures. If a paten is not in use and a Eucharistic minister appears to be unsure or maybe nervous, I prefer to cup my hands to prevent a ‘slip’ at a very bad time.
I had an in-depth discussion with one priest one time about the lack of a paten. He told me how there was a lack of hygiene from distribution on the tongue. He also said some people close their mouths early, catching his fingertips or at the very least causing his fingers to be wet with saliva. Who am I to try and correct a priest? I tried as charitably as possible, but it was evident he wasn’t going to listen to me on the subject.
I have tried to explain this as best as possible so some might see there are reasons for reception in the hand that are not a lack of reverence.
I really have wondered whether people are ‘judging’ myself or others for the style of reception. What would be worse, me receiving in my hand with reverence in my heart, or the person judging me as not being reverent during communion?