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The concept of comparing best to best was first introduced to me through Lutheran Bishop Krister Stendahl. The underlying idea is that we often compare the best in our tradition with the worst in the tradition of another. This is neither fair nor productive if growth and learning are desired. It may serve to “protect the faith,” but it will never truly educate the faithful.
It is possible to compare the “worst to the worst.” This may have its place if you are merely trying to decide for yourself which religious tradition will best suit you. I personally have formulated what I call the “fatal flaw.” This is an error that I cannot find explained to my satisfaction that so undermines the foundation of a particular belief structure that I personally could not embrace it.
But, if you are comfortable in your religion AND you are not trying to create real or artificial barriers to protect your faith or the faith of those who might turn to a faith you have dismissed, I do not think undue focus on the worst a religion has to offer is productive. I have been lifted up by the knowledge I have gained from Catholics, Eastern Orthodox, Protestants, Bahais, and even some non-Christian Eastern religions.
In addition to this if you are truly SEEKING to know if another belief structure is for you, “the best” is again where to focus. This focus on “the best” is important because nobody strives to embrace a religion so they can commune with racists or pedophiles. Ultimately we should be embracing a particular religion because it is TRUE, but in evaluating it undue focus on the negative will only provide us with no options on where to worship.
With this in mind I would like to mention a little about Mormonism and Catholicism. It has been suggested by critics of both of these religions that members (generally acting in a role where they are defending/explaining the faith) do not honestly represent the beliefs of their traditions. Some are quite bold in that they suggest that not only is the lack of truth evident, but that dishonest intents are at the heart of such folks. I doubt the later of these two has any place in religious discussions, so I will just address the former.
Why is it that self appointed (or beyond self appointed) defenders of Mormonism or Catholicism are sometimes accused by exMormons and exCatholics (or anyone who feels personally informed enough to make such claims) of misrepresentation of true Mormonism or true Catholicism?
The first answer I wish to offer is that former members or non-members by definition do not see the TRUTH within the tradition they do not belong to in the same way that members do. I am not one to suggest that the ideas of critics have no place in the understanding of a religion, but I will suggest that if a religion is true you will NEVER be able to figure this out if you only engage with critics. While it may not of logical necessity be absolutely true, it certainly seems likely that critics will never paint a picture of the most true religion for if this picture was part of their vocabulary they would be members not critics. The words of Catholic apologist Karl Keating seem pertinent here:
Karl Keating:
Now it may well be that a man leaving one religion for another can write fairly, without bitterness, about the one he left behind. But it stands to reason that most people who suddenly think they have an urge to write about their change of beliefs just want to vent their frustrations or justify their actions. Their books should be read and used with discretion, and they should not be used at all as explanations of the beliefs of their old religion if the books betray the least hint of rancor.
Above I think I have gone a step farther than Mr. Keating in that I suggest there are difficulties discovering the truth of a religion from even the most kind and non-rancorous individuals so long as those individuals have conclusions that truth is absent. Those who do not embrace a particular religious structure for any reason will never be able to present the case for its truth as fully as some of the folks who actually believe it to be true.
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It is possible to compare the “worst to the worst.” This may have its place if you are merely trying to decide for yourself which religious tradition will best suit you. I personally have formulated what I call the “fatal flaw.” This is an error that I cannot find explained to my satisfaction that so undermines the foundation of a particular belief structure that I personally could not embrace it.
But, if you are comfortable in your religion AND you are not trying to create real or artificial barriers to protect your faith or the faith of those who might turn to a faith you have dismissed, I do not think undue focus on the worst a religion has to offer is productive. I have been lifted up by the knowledge I have gained from Catholics, Eastern Orthodox, Protestants, Bahais, and even some non-Christian Eastern religions.
In addition to this if you are truly SEEKING to know if another belief structure is for you, “the best” is again where to focus. This focus on “the best” is important because nobody strives to embrace a religion so they can commune with racists or pedophiles. Ultimately we should be embracing a particular religion because it is TRUE, but in evaluating it undue focus on the negative will only provide us with no options on where to worship.
With this in mind I would like to mention a little about Mormonism and Catholicism. It has been suggested by critics of both of these religions that members (generally acting in a role where they are defending/explaining the faith) do not honestly represent the beliefs of their traditions. Some are quite bold in that they suggest that not only is the lack of truth evident, but that dishonest intents are at the heart of such folks. I doubt the later of these two has any place in religious discussions, so I will just address the former.
Why is it that self appointed (or beyond self appointed) defenders of Mormonism or Catholicism are sometimes accused by exMormons and exCatholics (or anyone who feels personally informed enough to make such claims) of misrepresentation of true Mormonism or true Catholicism?
The first answer I wish to offer is that former members or non-members by definition do not see the TRUTH within the tradition they do not belong to in the same way that members do. I am not one to suggest that the ideas of critics have no place in the understanding of a religion, but I will suggest that if a religion is true you will NEVER be able to figure this out if you only engage with critics. While it may not of logical necessity be absolutely true, it certainly seems likely that critics will never paint a picture of the most true religion for if this picture was part of their vocabulary they would be members not critics. The words of Catholic apologist Karl Keating seem pertinent here:
Karl Keating:
Now it may well be that a man leaving one religion for another can write fairly, without bitterness, about the one he left behind. But it stands to reason that most people who suddenly think they have an urge to write about their change of beliefs just want to vent their frustrations or justify their actions. Their books should be read and used with discretion, and they should not be used at all as explanations of the beliefs of their old religion if the books betray the least hint of rancor.
Above I think I have gone a step farther than Mr. Keating in that I suggest there are difficulties discovering the truth of a religion from even the most kind and non-rancorous individuals so long as those individuals have conclusions that truth is absent. Those who do not embrace a particular religious structure for any reason will never be able to present the case for its truth as fully as some of the folks who actually believe it to be true.
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