Old Salt, be careful not to violate the rules of the forum in the way you might end up comparing the OF and EF (check the rules).
Anyway, I hope this is not too far off topic, but to echo Cristiano, I am so weary and sick, sick, sick (in a sad way, not an angry way) of people who love the EF (as I do, too) but who also bash on/mock/etc. the Novus Ordo (I am not saying you are necessarily doing this, Old Salt). Cristiano is right, here - it turns off people who justly and rightly fear even the hint of a certain kind of prideful, schismatic “mentality” in the form of a critical attitude towards what are, in the end, legitimately approved rites in the Church. It scares away people who only know the OF and might have otherwise developed a liking for the EF. Let’s focus on the positive and let people see the goodness for themselves!
I like to introduce others to the EF, and I am nervous much of the time that the misbehavior of somebody there along these lines might make the first time at the EF for somebody their last time.
PS I believe one can critique, in a
respectful way, the human-contributed elements of different prayers, etc. - clearly that has always been done in Church history. That’s not what I am talking about above.