Dear 7 Sorrows,
I’m so sorry to read that the leader of your group told you you were not allowed to be an “observeer / guest” at Legion the meetings any more. I’ve read nothing in the Legion Handbook about such a procedure, On the contrary we invite parishioners to visit the Legion in order that they may learn our purpose so they can determine whether or not they may want to join either as an Active Member or as an Auxiliary Member.
Perhaps the leader of the group you thought about joining was being overly cautious about the possibility of your continuing to come without any intention of joining. There may have been an instance where someone came to meetings and left without joining but spoke imprudently or even dishonestly afterwards about the Legion. I’m not sure. At any rate, we try to welcome guests.
We also invite Auxiliaries to visit a meeting any time they can – their work is “Prayer” and they are not obliged to attend meetings, but a few like to come once in awhile to pray with us as sisters and brothers in the same Legion of Mary.
I’ve been a member of the Legion of Mary for many years. I joined the Junior Legion of Mary (for those 8 to 18 yrs old) as a teenager in High School. I was Vice-President of the Junior Curia, and I was President of our Adult Parish Legion for six years, ( Presidents may only serve 2 terms of 3 years each). I am still an active Member of our Parish Legion.
The Handbook is a beautiful book written by Servant of God Frank Duff who was inspired to found the Legion after reading St. Louis de Montfort’s treatise on “
True Devotion to Mary”. The Handbook echoes many of St. Louis de De Montfort’s words.
Perhaps you may want to consider joining the Legion as an Auxiliary Member. Frank Duff called the Auxiliaries the “Prayer Wing” of the Legion. They pray the Rosary and the small leaflet of Legion Prayers daily, and many of our Auxiliaries tell me how much they have grown in their love for Mary by joining the Legion. I hope you may consider talking with the leader again and perhaps seek membership as an Auxiliary. Our Mother Mary could use more “helpers” as she seeks to bring more of her children closer to Jesus.