Well good morning to all! I was being joe catholic mother after my last post: carting my teens to their assorted (secular) activities such as tutoring and hockey practice (violent activity I might add–like football but faster

). Then, I greeted my joe catholic husband who just finished working a 14 hour day (like a couple of people on this forum who contribute rarely that I have PM’ed with).
I now respond at 6 a.m., after morning prayers, which I get up at 5 a.m. to do before the kids get up

and I have to go to work (P/T thank God!) in a poor inner city middle school on the border of the city’s “war zone.” (how many of you good people know what a war zone is or have worked in one?

)
That is what I mean by joe catholic (except for the war zone part). The catholics who don’t make it to daily mass and are therefore “less faithful” because of course, it is difficult to make it to daily mass when living a joe life. And of course, they are not dumb anymore than the poor are “losers” and “sinners” going to hell because they are non religious and in survival mode or on drugs, in gangs, or have parents incarcerated or dead (3/4 of the kids I work with are in those categories along with homeless and hungry literally).
They and joe are “Dick and Jane,”
suffer the little children in catechesis and rubrics, and so most probably not “faithful to the magisterium” according to all you good people here discussing and making subtle judgements about them in your own “more faithfulness.”

What joe catholic needs, Fr.D, is less subtle and sometimes not-so-subtle talking about them as if they are a “them” in the Church).
I mean no disrespect in saying all that and I say it with good cheer.

I have the time to be on these forums and learn because my joe husband works 14 hour days, loves his family, and does what is right while being a cradle but “cafeteria” Catholic.
So, please in your discussions here and in traditional section especially, try not to look down on us as not true, less faithful, and lesser Catholics who know the liturgy as “good,” “pretty,” and “hey.” We are the ones choked by worldly cares.
This is what I meant by advocating for joe.
With heartfelt smiles and charity :grouphug:
Bailey2
PS. The good thing about liturgical changes is that it should at least for a little while, catch joe’s attention that something new is going on. In terms of catechizing joe, may I suggest something my pastor did. He instituted a “3 minute catechesis” just before the official start of mass via sign of the cross but after the procession. I am sure he will use that same forum to discuss the new changes in liturgy. Our joes are used to learning in small bits each Sunday and the response has been favorable though there are always a few who watch their watch and time the 3 minutes— but they are the minority.
I apologize the length. Off to my joe mom day. I am late!