Honestly, I expected to be banned in minutes as is the standard practice on most Christian forums. I mostly haven’t bothered in the last ten years, except that I had a theological question to ask with regards to my mother.
Doxus:
CAF provides anyone with the benefit of a doubt. Really, all that is expected is common courtesy and hospitableness. All Catholic debaters expect is to debate
in good faith.
Y’all surprised me by not using the banhammer instantly on people you disagree with, and after a conversation with one of your moderators who turned out to be perhaps over-sensitive, but an intelligent chap, I had high hopes that I might be able to engage in honest discussion here.
Good. I’m glad.
Instead, I’ve found more than the usual hostility.
Really? Can you point to an example? You do realize that you have charged in here like a bull, trying to bring with you your own personal set of rules. Neither you nor I get to set the rules. Whatever rules there are, are for the common good. And, that includes
good faith. (You know what I mean by “good faith,” I’m sure.)
There are some rather quite nasty people on here who are practically rabid toward any mention of the possibility that they could be wrong.
Could you provide an example?
And there are others who insist–no, demand–that “atheism believes x”, despite being told by an atheist that that’s not the case.
Could you provide an example of this?
It would be like someone running around claiming that Catholics believe the transubstantiation is cannibalism, then when corrected by a Catholic they say, “Nuh-uh, Catholics actually believe that, you’re wrong, you just don’t understand anything!” It’s nasty, arrogant, childish, and rude to presume to be able to tell someone else what they believe, and then expect them to defend the strawmen you have erected.
Well, I think you’re being a tad over-zealous. Re-read some previous posts, including yours, and consider the attitudes of the writers, including yours. It’s my policy that, within the bounds of forum rules, I meet anger with anger, hostility with hostility, angst with angst, blatant disgust with blatant disgust. I do this to bring us both to the same level, and then, I try (although I’m not always successful) to bring my opponent up-tone. When we are both up-tone - as you and I are now - we will both have a civil debate and, who knows, perhaps minds will change.
I find it interesting that Catholics respect all other viewpoints on the existence of god; Protestants, Islam, Hinduism, Shintoism, Juadism, even pagans. Even on this forum, threads on those subjects appear to be mostly civil. But if you’re an atheist, god help you, then it’s free game to make up whatever you like to slander them, and the fact that these people exist is so offensive that you don’t even allow discussion of their viewpoints in the Non-Catholic area of the forum–an oddly permanent “temporary” ban.
Well, I don’t think that that’s necessarily true. I have seen small exhibitions of uncharitableness, but rarely and not too severe. The mods do a pretty good job of handling. But, understand: we receive new atheists every day, almost hour by hour. It’s frustrating for most of us that
we can’t find the words that get us through to most atheists. However, we know we must try. We want all comers to find the Truth, and believe that we are to blame for our losses, i.e., in the immobility of our atheist brothers and sisters. Yet, we stay and try.
I’m going to be busy most of today. I’ll address your major points when I can. I’m sorry, I won’t be wasting my time on strawmen you’ve created.
Now, you see . . . that was uncharitable. That was way more than an
ad hominem; that was a jab in the eye with a sharp stick. Fortunately, I have thick skin for eyelids.
God bless,
jd