This really demonstrates an incredible historical naivete. Just look at the caste system in India to see an example of a living artifact of pre-Christian social structures. Any reputable historian would agree that it is specifically Judeo-Christian values that have shaped modern civilization. And “if that’s the case”, the obvious answer to your question is one that you cannot accept: they were led by God.
Actually, condoms cut the risk of HIV infection by only 80% and are much less effective against many other STDs. And comparing condoms to guns is a faulty analogy. People intentionally misuse guns by shooting people; the misuse of contraceptives is a matter of practical mistakes. Further, people are not inclined to murder nearly as much as they are to have sex. The obvious effect of promoting contraception is a virtual invitation to sexual promiscuity, ergo more sex partners, ergo more sexual encounters, ergo more infections, pregnancies, etc. The statistics bear this out. Did you read that article? Literally everywhere where contraception is widely available, these problems increase. They don’t help the problem. Simple as that. There’s nothing to argue.
When’s the last time you saw Catholic priests roaming the country side looking for fornicators and masturbators? The Catholic Church is not obsessed with sex, it’s obsessed with saving souls and spreading the teaching of Jesus Christ, of which sexual issues account for a very small part. It is the world that is obsessed with sex, and thus obsessed with the relatively simple (simple in theory, difficult in practice) teachings of the Catholic Church. It’s not the Church that’s neurotically fixated on this: it’s the world.
And, again, the social effects of deviating from these teachings have been demonstrably bad for society. Again and again and again.
Come on. No one is that stupid. Sexual desire is as old as life itself. But, as rational creatures, we can control it. So it’s a good thing that the world is so relaxed and open about it, because people feel good? Let’s move away from that emotional argument (people feel good when they take drugs, too. So I guess heroin’s a great thing, right?) and look at the real world effects of this sexual liberation: broken homes, rampaging rates of divorceand infidelity–and children with more psychological, social and emotional problems as a result–insane rates of STD infection and unwanted pregnancies, a complete loss of respect for the inherent dignity of human life, civilizations waning and in decline. History, as always, bears witness: civilization is built upon the nuclear family (monogamous couples with children) and any civilization that abandons that model inevitably fails.
No, it’s not. Sex is what builds and sustains any human institution. What a society believes and practices sexually has ramifications on all of its members. Sex is not simply a “personal matter.”