Condoms to prevent HIV infection during rape

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Actually the scripture speaks of that directly, so its basically telling me you did not read it, or you do not want to believe it. I really see no further need on this discussion, rape has nothing to do with sex, it has nothin to do with a marital act, and it has nothin to do with Gods will. So Humanae Vitae does not in any way possible have any bearing on rape.
I think you are correct. The sin of contraception involves altering the conjugal act. That is an act where both mutually consent. Rape is never a conjugal act. You cannot separate the unitive and procreative aspects in such a case as neither is present.

There is a right to self defense. There is a right to repel an unjust aggressor. The sperm are an unjust aggressor. They have no right to be there and there is no right to attempt to place them there.
 
I think you are correct. The sin of contraception involves altering the conjugal act. That is an act where both mutually consent. Rape is never a conjugal act. You cannot separate the unitive and procreative aspects in such a case as neither is present.

There is a right to self defense. There is a right to repel an unjust aggressor. The sperm are an unjust aggressor. They have no right to be there and there is no right to attempt to place them there.
Then you have exactly the same right to call a child who is a result of rape an ‘unjust aggressor’ as well, and seek an abortion to ‘defend yourself’ from that child. The rapist is the aggressor. The sperm are every bit as innocent as any conceived child would be. Sperm are NOT aggressors of any kind, let alone ‘unjust aggressors’ by any definition of the terms.

Such thinking makes me sick and is a slap in the face of God who is the author of all life and the giver of the gift and blessing of our human reproductive ability, even when the gift is abused during rape.

Sperm are NOT ‘sacred’ (as Monty Python put it) only within marriage - sperm are sacred as a source of life full stop. That’s part of why masturbation is wrong even for unmarried men - and why the sin of Onan was wrong even when it was not his own wife he was sleeping with but his brother’s.
 
Then you have exactly the same right to call a child who is a result of rape an ‘unjust aggressor’ as well, and seek an abortion to ‘defend yourself’ from that child.
No, a child is a new life and that is a different issue.
The rapist is the aggressor. The sperm are every bit as innocent as any conceived child would be. Sperm are NOT aggressors of any kind, let alone ‘unjust aggressors’ by any definition of the terms.
They have no right to be there. Once conception happens the moral dimension changes.
Such thinking makes me sick and is a slap in the face of God who is the author of all life and the giver of the gift and blessing of our human reproductive ability, even when the gift is abused during rape
Take it up with the Church and moral theology. There is no slap in the face to God in repelling them as the act is disordered.
Sperm are NOT ‘sacred’ (as Monty Python put it) only within marriage - sperm are sacred as a source of life full stop. That’s part of why masturbation is wrong even for unmarried men - and why the sin of Onan was wrong even when it was not his own wife he was sleeping with but his brother’s.
What does this have to do with rape? Please see post #9 which is consistent with other moral theology pieces I have read.
 
No, a child is a new life and that is a different issue. They have no right to be there. Once conception happens the moral dimension changes.
But a baby that is the result of rape, by your logic, IS equally an agressor invading the mother’s body, no? Just like its father the rapist (who, being a living person, surely has the same rights as the baby to invade - ie none)?

he act that introduced that baby into the mother’s body is disordered, and it’s the same act that introduced those sperm. The mother would thus have every bit as much right to ‘self-defend’ against a growing baby of a rapist as against the sperm or the rapist by your logic.
Take it up with the Church and moral theology. There is no slap in the face to God in repelling them as the act is disordered.
Then there is no harm in aborting a child conceived of rape either, since the act that produced it is disordered.
What does this have to do with rape? Please see post #9 which is consistent with other moral theology pieces I have read.
Written by who? You know most moral theologians prior to the release of Humanae Vitae were of the opinion that artificial contraception by married couples was OK - they were urging Paul VI to approve it. And they were flat out wrong.

Church law matters more than the opinion of moral theologians, and since Church law doesn’t distinguish AFTER conception between the right to life of offspring of rape, incest, adultery or marriage, then there’s no good reason to distinguish BEFORE conception between our attitude towards fertility - POTENTIAL children - whether these are the result of rape, incest, adultery or marriage.

By the way, the topic is AIDS and not conception. And didn’t Pope Benedict just last week say that condoms are not a solution to the problem of AIDS? Sounds like he’s very much of the opinion that they are NOT to be used in an attempt to prevent the disease - and he doesn’t distinguish between AIDS transmitted by rape and that transmitted by any other kind of sex. And if they are no solution to the problem of disease, then why the problem of conception?

There’s some moral theology for you, from the highest of all possible sources. Higher than your moral theologians, higher than the USCCB. God bless the Pope!
 
But a baby that is the result of rape, by your logic, IS equally an agressor invading the mother’s body, no? Just like its father the rapist (who, being a living person, surely has the same rights as the baby to invade - ie none)?
No, not all all. The baby is growing as babies grow. The baby is not an aggressor. The baby grows as intended by nature.
The act that introduced that baby into the mother’s body is disordered, and it’s the same act that introduced those sperm. The mother would thus have every bit as much right to ‘self-defend’ against a growing baby of a rapist as against the sperm or the rapist by your logic.
No, the baby is a new life. This is not morally equal to sperm.
Then there is no harm in aborting a child conceived of rape either, since the act that produced it is disordered.
Again, the a new innocent life changes the moral dimension. How is killing and innocent person morally equal to stopping an unjust aggressor?
Written by who? You know most moral theologians prior to the release of Humanae Vitae were of the opinion that artificial contraception by married couples was OK - they were urging Paul VI to approve it. And they were flat out wrong.
The moral theologian referred to in that post is as orthodox as they come.
Church law matters more than the opinion of moral theologians, and since Church law doesn’t distinguish AFTER conception between the right to life of offspring of rape, incest, adultery or marriage, then there’s no good reason to distinguish BEFORE conception between our attitude towards fertility - POTENTIAL children - whether these are the result of rape, incest, adultery or marriage.
That has nothing to do with the issue here. Where does the Church teach rape is equal to the conjugal act? Where does the Church teach the sin of contraceptioon applies to rape?
By the way, the topic is AIDS and not conception. And didn’t Pope Benedict just last week say that condoms are not a solution to the problem of AIDS?
Yes, and I defend his words on this very forum.
Sounds like he’s very much of the opinion that they are NOT to be used in an attempt to prevent the disease - and he doesn’t distinguish between AIDS transmitted by rape and that transmitted by any other kind of sex. And if they are no solution to the problem of disease, then why the problem of conception?
He did not give a moral theology text. He spoke generally.
There’s some moral theology for you, from the highest of all possible sources. Higher than your moral theologians, higher than the USCCB. God bless the Pope!
Please do not put words in his mouth.
 
Then you have exactly the same right to call a child who is a result of rape an ‘unjust aggressor’ as well, and seek an abortion to ‘defend yourself’ from that child. The rapist is the aggressor. The sperm are every bit as innocent as any conceived child would be. Sperm are NOT aggressors of any kind, let alone ‘unjust aggressors’ by any definition of the terms.

Such thinking makes me sick and is a slap in the face of God who is the author of all life and the giver of the gift and blessing of our human reproductive ability, even when the gift is abused during rape.

Sperm are NOT ‘sacred’ (as Monty Python put it) only within marriage - sperm are sacred as a source of life full stop. That’s part of why masturbation is wrong even for unmarried men - and why the sin of Onan was wrong even when it was not his own wife he was sleeping with but his brother’s.
So, if it is a sin for a woman to convince her attacker to put on a condom – the Church totally banning them – does that mean once the rapist has penetrated her, she should stop fighting, lest she make him withdraw and spill his seed on the ground?
 
No, not all all. The baby is growing as babies grow. The baby is not an aggressor. The baby grows as intended by nature.
And the sperm that produced that baby fertilised the egg - equally as intended by nature.
No, the baby is a new life. This is not morally equal to sperm.
And what IS morally equal to sperm? You think a sperm is morally on the level of a smallpox virus or a cholera germ, bringing pure evil, death and disease. It isn’t - a sperm brings no evil at all, and is no aggressor. It brings nothing but God’s greatest gift, the gift of life, whether that be within or without marriage, within or without rape.
Again, the a new innocent life changes the moral dimension. How is killing and innocent person morally equal to stopping an unjust aggressor?
And how is killing a sperm morally equivalent to stopping a cholera germ or a smallpox virus?
The moral theologian referred to in that post is as orthodox as they come.
And I’m sure most of the ones I’ve referred to were as well - just wrong in this instance.
Yes, and I defend his words on this very forum.
Then the question of this thread is answered and it should be closed - condoms are never acceptable to prevent AIDS.

Now you need to tell me why, since the AIDS virus could equally be seen as an ‘unjust aggressor’ - and IS morally much more equivalent to smallpox or cholera than sperm that will create a baby and do no harmful act - condoms are NOT acceptable to prevent AIDS in rape, but ARE acceptable to prevent conception in rape?
He did not give a moral theology text. He spoke generally.
He lives and breathes theology - every speech of his could be a moral theology text.
Please do not put words in his mouth.
Isn’t that what you are doing when you make false distinctions between using contraception in the case of rape and in the case of other sex, where he has made none?
 
So, if it is a sin for a woman to convince her attacker to put on a condom – the Church totally banning them – does that mean once the rapist has penetrated her, she should stop fighting, lest she make him withdraw and spill his seed on the ground?
No - for one penetration doesn’t guarantee ejaculation, for another most women couldn’t hope to judge exactly the right time or how hard to struggle etc, and so couldn’t hope to induce withdrawal at the right time or to prevent pregnancy by such a means. So such a consideration, I’d venture to bet, doesn’t even enter the heads of any rape victim.
 
Do you have a link to Church teachings that show this? Because everything that I have read, say that if the woman has not ovulated and is raped, the morning after pill is approved.
A little off-the-subject but I’m confused. I thought maybe I just didn’t read your previous e-mail correctly when you said “if no conception has taken place” but now I see that is what you meant. If she has not ovulated and there is no chance for conception why in the world would she even need a morning after pill??
 
A little off-the-subject but I’m confused. I thought maybe I just didn’t read your previous e-mail correctly when you said “if no conception has taken place” but now I see that is what you meant. If she has not ovulated and there is no chance for conception why in the world would she even need a morning after pill??
Because sperm can live for 3-5 days inside a woman and she might ovulate later that day, night or the next day… There is a chance for conception for up to 5 days.
 
And the sperm that produced that baby fertilised the egg - equally as intended by nature.
No nature does not intend on a violent attack. There is no right for the sperm to be there. It is a grave violation.
And what IS morally equal to sperm? You think a sperm is morally on the level of a smallpox virus or a cholera germ, bringing pure evil, death and disease. It isn’t - a sperm brings no evil at all, and is no aggressor. It brings nothing but God’s greatest gift, the gift of life, whether that be within or without marriage, within or without rape.
There is a distinct moral difference between an innocent life and sperm placed where they have no right to be.
And how is killing a sperm morally equivalent to stopping a cholera germ or a smallpox virus?
The sperm have no right to be there. They may be repelled.
And I’m sure most of the ones I’ve referred to were as well - just wrong in this instance.
Then produce some evidence.
Then the question of this thread is answered and it should be closed - condoms are never acceptable to prevent AIDS.
That much is true. That has nothing to do with rape as stated.
Now you need to tell me why, since the AIDS virus could equally be seen as an ‘unjust aggressor’ - and IS morally much more equivalent to smallpox or cholera than sperm that will create a baby and do no harmful act - condoms are NOT acceptable to prevent AIDS in rape, but ARE acceptable to prevent conception in rape?
You can repel the AIDS virus. What you cannot do is contracept during the cunjugal act. When two people consent to the act there is a moral difference than when it is forced.
He lives and breathes theology - every speech of his could be a moral theology text.
That is just silly and does a disservice to him.
Isn’t that what you are doing when you make false distinctions between using contraception in the case of rape and in the case of other sex, where he has made none?
The sin of contracpetion involves a cunjugal act.
 
No nature does not intend on a violent attack. There is no right for the sperm to be there. It is a grave violation.
Nature (God) absolutely intends sperm to potentially fertilise egg as a result of any heterosexual vaginal sex occuring during a woman’s fertile time. If it (He) didn’t, pregnancy would be impossible after a rape! There is no ‘violent attack’ involved in the act of sperm fertilising an egg - the process is the same in every case where an egg is fertilised, and I can assure you doesn’t involve a violent attack by the sperm upon the egg. Why should insensible sperm be treated differently based on an unrelated issue - the violence of the rapist who produced them?
There is a distinct moral difference between an innocent life and sperm placed where they have no right to be.
Sperm are innocent too! A sperm has every bit as much right to be wherever God has allowed it to end up as a baby does.
The sperm have no right to be there. They may be repelled.
What is this? You’re morally making them the equivalent of the armies of Nazi Germany or a deadly plague virus or something. Sperm are NOT an unjust aggressor and they have, as I said, every right to be wherever God allows them to be put.
That much is true. That has nothing to do with rape as stated.
It has everything to do with rape. As per Benedict’s teaching that you’ve assented to, condoms are unacceptable to prevent AIDS full stop. That includies AIDS resulting from rape.

Since, as the Pope indicated, condoms aren’t to be used to prevent nasty AIDS viruses from invading your body, even if you’ve been raped, then on what basis do you assert that they CAN be used to prevent nasty sperm, which are far less ‘unjust aggressors’ than any AIDS virus?
You can repel the AIDS virus.
Not with a condom you can not - that’s the whole POINT of what Pope Benedict has just said! They are not to be used to prevent AIDS - not within marriage, not outside of it.
That is just silly and does a disservice to him.
It’s the highest compliment to him - I’m not saying that’s ALL the Pope is, far from it, but his theological mind is second to none, and even his off-the-cuff remarks show it.
The sin of contracpetion involves a cunjugal act.
Again, Benedict doesn’t distinguish the sin of contracepting to avoid AIDS in cases of rape from the sin of using it within marriage. So NOT all sins of contraception involve the conjugal act.
 
No nature does not intend on a violent attack. There is no right for the sperm to be there. It is a grave violation.

There is a distinct moral difference between an innocent life and sperm placed where they have no right to be.

The sperm have no right to be there. They may be repelled.

Then produce some evidence.

That much is true. That has nothing to do with rape as stated.

You can repel the AIDS virus. What you cannot do is contracept during the cunjugal act. When two people consent to the act there is a moral difference than when it is forced.

That is just silly and does a disservice to him.

The sin of contracpetion involves a cunjugal act.
I agree and Humana Vitae governs contraceptive acts in conjugal relations.
Jimmy Akin discussed this on his blog at one time.

jimmyakin.org/2007/09/bad-news-in-c-1.html
But this goes beyond what can be shown from the language of HV. The way HV is phrased in the original Latin (and in the literal translation of the passage given in the Catechism), all you can say with certainty is that Paul VI condemned all use of contraception within marriage.
He did not address–or cannot be ascertained certainly as addressing–the situation of sexual relations outside of marriage.
Thus, some have held that at least some forms of contraception (ones that aren’t abortifacient, for example) might not compound the evil of non-marital sex. Some might argue that, although non-marital sexual acts are gravely wrong, contraceptive non-marital sex might be less gravely wrong than non-contraceptive non-marital sex since it has a lesser risk of bringing a child into the world outside of wedlock.
By divine law, children have a right to be conceived only within a family that has a father and a mother who are married to each other. To the extent that they may cause children to be conceived outside of wedlock, non-marital sexual acts can be viewed as grave sins against charity regarding the child that may be conceived, as well as other affected parties (such as innocent spouses).
In case of rape, one pursuing this line of argument might maintain, there is no sin in the victim using at least certain forms of contraception since the victim is not married to the rapist (apart from cases of marital rape) and did not consent to the sexual act.
I haven’t seen a Vatican document stating that the Bishop’s are wrong and contraception cannot be used in the case of rape.
 
I haven’t seen a Vatican document stating that the Bishop’s are wrong and contraception cannot be used in the case of rape.
Teaching direct from the Pope’s own mouth - such as his recent statement that condoms can’t be used to prevent AIDS full stop - would indicate the contrary of what the Bishops have said. Their teaching is only authoritative when they are on the same page as His Holiness, which it appears they aren’t.
 
Teaching direct from the Pope’s own mouth - such as his recent statement that condoms can’t be used to prevent AIDS full stop - would indicate the contrary of what the Bishops have said. Their teaching is only authoritative when they are on the same page as His Holiness, which it appears they aren’t.
I think there is a difference between the treatment for rape and the prevention of a disease that could be prevented from abstinence. I’m sure a woman would choose to be abstinent when presented with rape but she is not given that choice.

There is a very clear difference between conjugal and non conjugal sexual relations. Intentional contraception is never ok in conjugal relations. Intentionally thwarting the procreative and unitive aspects of conjugal relations is never allowed.Condoms always intend to thwart the unitive aspect. The one flesh union is impossible. Condomistic sex is never conjugal. With the exception of the perforated condom allowed for medical testing. Conjugal/ marital acts are just , rape is never just.

Hopefully the Vatican will make a statement that is very clear for those who cannot see the difference between conjugal acts and rape.
 
I agree and Humana Vitae governs contraceptive acts in conjugal relations.
Jimmy Akin discussed this on his blog at one time.

jimmyakin.org/2007/09/bad-news-in-c-1.html

I haven’t seen a Vatican document stating that the Bishop’s are wrong and contraception cannot be used in the case of rape.
Unfortunately, the word contraception is used in differing contexts. The medical use of the word contraception is not always equal to the use in a theological context. Medication used post rape, applied locally, to repel the sprem may be called “contraceptive” in the medical field but that does not translate into the sin of contraception.

In the same way saying contraceptive sex is intrinsically wrong is true but must be understood as the Church teaches. We first have to understand what is meant by “contraception” and what is meant by conjugal sex.

That is why the Church has a long tradition of moral theology to parse all this out.
 
Nature (God) absolutely intends sperm to potentially fertilise egg as a result of any heterosexual vaginal sex occuring during a woman’s fertile time. If it (He) didn’t, pregnancy would be impossible after a rape! There is no ‘violent attack’ involved in the act of sperm fertilising an egg - the process is the same in every case where an egg is fertilised, and I can assure you doesn’t involve a violent attack by the sperm upon the egg. Why should insensible sperm be treated differently based on an unrelated issue - the violence of the rapist who produced them?

Sperm are innocent too! A sperm has every bit as much right to be wherever God has allowed it to end up as a baby does.

What is this? You’re morally making them the equivalent of the armies of Nazi Germany or a deadly plague virus or something. Sperm are NOT an unjust aggressor and they have, as I said, every right to be wherever God allows them to be put.

It has everything to do with rape. As per Benedict’s teaching that you’ve assented to, condoms are unacceptable to prevent AIDS full stop. That includies AIDS resulting from rape.

Since, as the Pope indicated, condoms aren’t to be used to prevent nasty AIDS viruses from invading your body, even if you’ve been raped, then on what basis do you assert that they CAN be used to prevent nasty sperm, which are far less ‘unjust aggressors’ than any AIDS virus?

Not with a condom you can not - that’s the whole POINT of what Pope Benedict has just said! They are not to be used to prevent AIDS - not within marriage, not outside of it.

It’s the highest compliment to him - I’m not saying that’s ALL the Pope is, far from it, but his theological mind is second to none, and even his off-the-cuff remarks show it.

Again, Benedict doesn’t distinguish the sin of contracepting to avoid AIDS in cases of rape from the sin of using it within marriage. So NOT all sins of contraception involve the conjugal act.
Please see this and this .

It is licit to eliminate the sperm if no conception has ocurred. That would mean you can stop them from getting there in the first place.

The other poster mentioned withdrawal. That is an excellent point. Following your logic the woman may not try to stop him as that is “contraception”. Your position seems not consistent with what the Church teaches. Do you have evidence supporting what you claim? I am happy to change my understanding to be in full aggreement with the Church. So far I have seen none from you.
 
This thread is beginning to reach the outermost proportions of argumentative stupidity.
All people can talk about here is Condoms, Contraceptives HIV, Sperm and the Female Ovalum and who knows what else.
Do people here really give a damn about the Rape Victim ?
 
This thread is beginning to reach the outermost proportions of argumentative stupidity.
All people can talk about here is Condoms, Contraceptives HIV, Sperm and the Female Ovalum and who knows what else.
Do people here really give a damn about the Rape Victim ?
The question IS about use of contraceptives and HIV, why would we NOT talk about those things? Contraceptives are designed to prevent sperm meeting egg, why would we NOT talk about those things?

We all, I am sure, have the utmost compassion for rape victims. Saying that compassion for a rape victim should extend to allowing her to contracept is as wrong as saying that compassion for someone who is suffering a terminal illness should extend to allowing them to kill themselves or have others euthanase them. Compassion is not an excuse for sin, contraception is a grave sin.

As for the difference between conjugal sex and rape - the difference is obvious. Rape is a horrific act and a deadly sin, conjugal sex is blessed by God. In that both rape and conjugal sex can create life, they have an attribute in common. And that attribute in itself is a good, is a right, is a blessing, that should never be denied.

Let me draw an analogy - the murder of Christ was a heinous, horrific act and a deadly sin, no doubt about that. At the same time it produced the greatest holiest fruit of just about any act in human history - our salvation. We as Christians can and must condemn the murder while gratefully accepting that blessed fruit of it.

Ever heard the term ‘felix culpa’, ‘happy fault’? It’s used in Holy Week services each year. It refers to just such a situation - an evil which God uses to bring forth a blessing. Rape, while being an evil, can bring forth the blessing of a new life and we must allow that blessing to come forth if God permits it.

Withdrawal? What utter nonsense you are talking, Seatuck. As if any rape victim has enough control over the situation either to induce the rapist to withdraw or to prevent them from withdrawing!
 
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