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dmftx
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The more I try to truly comprehend the requirements of confession, the more confused I get. I come from an era where we went to confession weekly or, at most, biweekly. Needless to say, I was raised on the wrath of sin and eternal damnation. Frankly, at least it was clear cut.
Since then, we have been told that we only have to go to confession if we commit mortal sins and can pray to God for forgiveness of venal sins. As I have aged, this has been more concerning to me. I have had interesting conversations with several tenured priests who have said, more or less, to ask forgiveness of God for all sins and to go to confession 3 - 4 times a year unless I have committed a dire sin (not to be funny but what in the heck constitutes dire)? These are GOOD priests who I have no reason to doubt until we get to the topic of plenary indulgences.
We cannot obtain a plenary indulgence with any attachment to sin. Our church, and most churched around us, allow for confessions for 45 minutes once a week. There is often only one priest there. I am not trying to criticize but 45 minutes is not enough and people have been turned away when the priest has had to leave to prepare for evening mass.
Our churches are understaffed and our priests and deacons work very hard to serve our needs. But, what do we do when the requirement for confession is about a week or so before or after the indulgence act and confession with a priest may not be done?
Any pious thoughts on this are appreciated. As one gets older, the opportunity for a plenary indulgence becomes more important (if I could just get this attachment to sin resolved…but we are all sinners).
Since then, we have been told that we only have to go to confession if we commit mortal sins and can pray to God for forgiveness of venal sins. As I have aged, this has been more concerning to me. I have had interesting conversations with several tenured priests who have said, more or less, to ask forgiveness of God for all sins and to go to confession 3 - 4 times a year unless I have committed a dire sin (not to be funny but what in the heck constitutes dire)? These are GOOD priests who I have no reason to doubt until we get to the topic of plenary indulgences.
We cannot obtain a plenary indulgence with any attachment to sin. Our church, and most churched around us, allow for confessions for 45 minutes once a week. There is often only one priest there. I am not trying to criticize but 45 minutes is not enough and people have been turned away when the priest has had to leave to prepare for evening mass.
Our churches are understaffed and our priests and deacons work very hard to serve our needs. But, what do we do when the requirement for confession is about a week or so before or after the indulgence act and confession with a priest may not be done?
Any pious thoughts on this are appreciated. As one gets older, the opportunity for a plenary indulgence becomes more important (if I could just get this attachment to sin resolved…but we are all sinners).