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It might help to look at what the Church teaches. Canon Law is a good place to start.
First, what must the penitent do to be worthy of absolution?
Can. 987 To receive the salvific remedy of the sacrament of penance, a member of the Christian faithful must be disposed in such a way that, rejecting sins committed and having a purpose of amendment, the person is turned back to God.
The penitent must be truly sorry for their sins and must, at the time of the confession, intend never to to it again (“purpose of amendment”). There is nothing specific about what these terms mean - this is up to the confessor.
Second, absolution is dependent only on the norms of Canon 987:
Can. 980 If the confessor has no doubt about the disposition of the penitent, and the penitent seeks absolution, absolution is to be neither refused nor deferred.
To withhold absolution until the completion of a penance or to condition absolution on an act would be a violation of Canon 980.
And third, to require the penitent to reveal anything confessed in any manner, verbal or otherwise, breaks the seal:
Can. 983 §1. The sacramental seal is inviolable; therefore it is absolutely forbidden for a confessor to betray in any way a penitent in words or in any manner and for any reason.
Can. 984 §1. A confessor is prohibited completely from using knowledge acquired from confession to the detriment of the penitent even when any danger of revelation is excluded.
It is not a manner of “the Priest did not do it, the penitent did”; but for the Priest requiring the penitent to reveal their sins they would not do it, so to do so breaks the seal.
To a non-Catholic, this seems like is a hard teaching or worse, that the Church allows someone a “free pass” to never have to pay for their crimes yet be right with God. The Catholic knows that this is a short-sighted view that does not understand the nature of God. No one escapes justice. God is Love, God is Mercy, but God is also just and God meets out that justice along with His mercy.
It is more important to leave this world in a right state with God. Justice will be done at judgement day.
First, what must the penitent do to be worthy of absolution?
Can. 987 To receive the salvific remedy of the sacrament of penance, a member of the Christian faithful must be disposed in such a way that, rejecting sins committed and having a purpose of amendment, the person is turned back to God.
The penitent must be truly sorry for their sins and must, at the time of the confession, intend never to to it again (“purpose of amendment”). There is nothing specific about what these terms mean - this is up to the confessor.
Second, absolution is dependent only on the norms of Canon 987:
Can. 980 If the confessor has no doubt about the disposition of the penitent, and the penitent seeks absolution, absolution is to be neither refused nor deferred.
To withhold absolution until the completion of a penance or to condition absolution on an act would be a violation of Canon 980.
And third, to require the penitent to reveal anything confessed in any manner, verbal or otherwise, breaks the seal:
Can. 983 §1. The sacramental seal is inviolable; therefore it is absolutely forbidden for a confessor to betray in any way a penitent in words or in any manner and for any reason.
Can. 984 §1. A confessor is prohibited completely from using knowledge acquired from confession to the detriment of the penitent even when any danger of revelation is excluded.
It is not a manner of “the Priest did not do it, the penitent did”; but for the Priest requiring the penitent to reveal their sins they would not do it, so to do so breaks the seal.
To a non-Catholic, this seems like is a hard teaching or worse, that the Church allows someone a “free pass” to never have to pay for their crimes yet be right with God. The Catholic knows that this is a short-sighted view that does not understand the nature of God. No one escapes justice. God is Love, God is Mercy, but God is also just and God meets out that justice along with His mercy.
It is more important to leave this world in a right state with God. Justice will be done at judgement day.