Confirmation age

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cheddarsox:
How old were you when you were confirmed?
Very young… a recently-newborn infant, actually.
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cheddarsox:
Do you think this was a reasonable age to make such a committment?
I did not personally make any committment… I received the sacramental grace of the Holy Spirit, thus completing my initiation as a member of the Catholic Church.
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cheddarsox:
Do you think the age should be higher or lower than the age at which you received confirmation?
I think the age should be commensurate with the age at which an individual receives the other Sacraments of Initiation of our Church.
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cheddarsox:
Did you receive the sacrament of your own free will?
As an infant, of course not. But, then again, I technically did not receive the Sacrament of Baptism of my own free will either… nor did most of us. Contrary to popular belief, “free will” is not a prerequesite to receiving the sacramental grace of the Holy Spirit through the Sacrament of Confirmation.
 
My son who is currently in confirmation class is 14. But by the time confirmation rolls around he will be 15.
 
When I started the first of two confirmation classes at my church I was in seventh grade. Thanks to the excellent CCD program at our church, I would have been more than ready to be confirmed when the time came. (At the end of eighth grade) However, shortly after I started seventh grade, our church decided that they would change the confirmation age from the end of eighth grade to sophomores in highschool. Needless to say, I was and am not happy about that decision. My class will be the first to be confirmed at that age. I feel that I was ready for confirmation a long time ago; I went through the same classes even though I was not confirmed at their completion, and the present confirmation class that I am in seems only to be review! Besides that, I really am eager for the gift of the Holy Spirit.

So, in conclusion, let me say that I think one can be ready for confirmation at a very young age with the aid of proper religious instruction. As a matter of fact, I know many Byzantine Catholics who were confirmed as infants and see nothing against that. I do see a difference though, between being confirmed as an infant with the responsibility laying on the parents and godparents, than being confirmed later in life, when it is the responsibility of the confirmandi to be well-informed in their religion. As I said, anyone preparing for confirmation should be well versed in their religion and ready to accept the responsibilities that Confirmation lays upon them. The maturity and responsibility, as well as the required knowledge come with different ages for different people, so I don’t think that one age fits all.
 
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cheddarsox:
How old were you when you were confirmed?

Do you think this was a reasonable age to make such a committment?

Do you think the age should be higher or lower than the age at which you received confirmation?

Did you receive the sacrament of your own free will?

cheddar
I was either in 8th or 9th grade - for some reason, I can’t remember which year for sure.

I think it was pretty reasonable, and would rather my child be confirmed around 13 or so than in 2nd grade like most are now, coinciding with their first confession and/or communion. I think that a 2nd grader generally won’t fully understand all the teaching that goes with it, where an early teen would.

As for receiving it of my own free will, I received it when I was “supposed” to, with the rest of my same age peers in my church - so I guess no, in a way. But I also didn’t object to being confirmed, so in a way, yes, I did receive it of my own free will.
 
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