My two oldest children were confirmed this past spring. They both picked saints that were in some way relevant to their aspirations or situation.
My daughter, who would love to be a book author and illustrator someday, chose St. Lucy (patroness of, amongst other things, authors and illustrators.)
My son, who has a severe speech impediment, chose St. Charles Borromeo, who himself overcame a speech impediment.
Side note: my son has apraxia, for which we could find no specific patron. The closest we found was a patron saint for stutterers, but his name was
St. Drogo!!! Clearly he’s also the patron saint of hobbits…
Perhaps looking for a saint for is a patron of something she especially enjoys or hopes to do, or who overcame a difficulty that she can relate to??
Best regards,
Margaret
PS One of my personal favorites, being in Opus Dei, is St. Josemaria Escriva, whom Pope John Paul II referred to as “the saint of the ordinary.”