I guess there is one advantage of having forums such as this, and that is that people can carp on line instead of “Father, I don’t like it when you…” or “Father, why don’t you… instead of …”
If nothing else, it reduces the number of people who tell him to his face what they don’t like.
There are approximately 17,000 parishes in the US, and for the greater majority of people, there is at least one, if not a multitude of other parishes at which they can attend Mass. Out of a minority of parishes, there are legitimate complaints; far more often it is just something someone doesn’t like.
And the likelihood is there are a far greater majority of people in the parish who either feel the opposite, or it is a matter which they really don’t care one way or the other.
Hooray for the internet, which allows people to vent, thus providing a minor relief to the poor priest, who catches hell from enough people already. These men try to follow Jesus, and try to bring Jesus to us. If we don’t like what is going on, we can make a bit of effort and go to Mass somewhere else; and if we are not willing to do that, then perhaps we can live with it - and as my grandmother would say to me decades ago, offer it up for the poor souls in purgatory.