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Hello Everyone,
I don’t post much on this board, but have been a member for a while now and enjoy reading many of the posts and debates.
I probably posted a while back with a similar post, but I thought I’d better articulate my feelings lately with regards to Catholicism. I’ll keep it short though.
I was born and raised Catholic but really didn’t give it much thought for seventeen years. In high school, I met a girl (now my wife) who was Baptist. I began going to church with her and was really taken by the theology. It was simple and made so much sense. Soon after, I accepted Christ and attended her church fairly regularly.
More recently though, I’ve been studying Catholicism and finding out a lot of truths I missed when I was growing up. I’ve been reading the Catechism, closely reading the Gospels, and studying some other materials. I came to the conclusion a while ago, that Catholicism wasn’t nearly as bad as it is represent or misrepresented by a lot of Protestant groups.
As best as I can, I always try to let truth guide my thinking and actions. But I believe that everyone has biases, different backgrounds, etc. that prevent one from obtaining a pure, unadulterated truth. I admit, that had I not been raised Catholic, I probably wouldn’t be studying it now. And also, that had some Pastors and other Evangelicals say that if you don’t believe if “Sola Fide” you really aren’t a Christian, I probably would have started attending Catholic mass a while ago.
So here I am at an impasse. What does a person do if they see positive things or even correct teachings in both the Catholic and Protestant churches? Can I reconcile the two? For example, I really think the Catholic’s teaching on Justification is much closer to that which is taught in the Bible, that Transubstantiation is probably true, and the theology of the Catholic Church. But I don’t necessarily agree with the Immaculate Conception, veneration to saints, and a few other teachings within the church. I try to look past them, as not all of the issues I have problems with are dogma, Marian apparitions for example, but still disagree with others.
Should I join a Baptist church for my wife and be a good husband? Should I try to convert her (which I think will never work)? Should we attend separately, knowing that when we have children it will just probably confuse them and do more harm than good? I also pray to God that He forgive my sins with regards to my theology. I don’t want to go to Hell because I didn’t pick the right church or believe the right thing. I know that statement is somewhat silly, but in a way, it’s how I feel. Evangelicals tell me that not believing in Faith Alone is believing in a different Christ and Catholics say that Protestants are outside the true church and are trusted to God. (I know the view has softened since the Second Vatican Council.)
Anyway, I’m just looking for (name removed by moderator)ut and advice as to whether anyone else has been in an experience like this!
P.S. I just would like to say that the people on this board are some of the most thoughtful, nicest, and intellectual people I have ever talked to. I wish all Catholics could be like you! So many times, lay Catholics just go through the motions and really miss the point of their faith and Mass. At the end of Scott Hahn’s book Rome Sweet Home, he calls for Catholics to be more like Bible believing Christians and Bible believing Christians to more like Catholics. You have the excitement and passion for the faith like an Evangelical would have but the understanding, intellectual rigor, and compassion that sometimes is forgotten in some churches.
Thanks!
I don’t post much on this board, but have been a member for a while now and enjoy reading many of the posts and debates.
I probably posted a while back with a similar post, but I thought I’d better articulate my feelings lately with regards to Catholicism. I’ll keep it short though.
I was born and raised Catholic but really didn’t give it much thought for seventeen years. In high school, I met a girl (now my wife) who was Baptist. I began going to church with her and was really taken by the theology. It was simple and made so much sense. Soon after, I accepted Christ and attended her church fairly regularly.
More recently though, I’ve been studying Catholicism and finding out a lot of truths I missed when I was growing up. I’ve been reading the Catechism, closely reading the Gospels, and studying some other materials. I came to the conclusion a while ago, that Catholicism wasn’t nearly as bad as it is represent or misrepresented by a lot of Protestant groups.
As best as I can, I always try to let truth guide my thinking and actions. But I believe that everyone has biases, different backgrounds, etc. that prevent one from obtaining a pure, unadulterated truth. I admit, that had I not been raised Catholic, I probably wouldn’t be studying it now. And also, that had some Pastors and other Evangelicals say that if you don’t believe if “Sola Fide” you really aren’t a Christian, I probably would have started attending Catholic mass a while ago.
So here I am at an impasse. What does a person do if they see positive things or even correct teachings in both the Catholic and Protestant churches? Can I reconcile the two? For example, I really think the Catholic’s teaching on Justification is much closer to that which is taught in the Bible, that Transubstantiation is probably true, and the theology of the Catholic Church. But I don’t necessarily agree with the Immaculate Conception, veneration to saints, and a few other teachings within the church. I try to look past them, as not all of the issues I have problems with are dogma, Marian apparitions for example, but still disagree with others.
Should I join a Baptist church for my wife and be a good husband? Should I try to convert her (which I think will never work)? Should we attend separately, knowing that when we have children it will just probably confuse them and do more harm than good? I also pray to God that He forgive my sins with regards to my theology. I don’t want to go to Hell because I didn’t pick the right church or believe the right thing. I know that statement is somewhat silly, but in a way, it’s how I feel. Evangelicals tell me that not believing in Faith Alone is believing in a different Christ and Catholics say that Protestants are outside the true church and are trusted to God. (I know the view has softened since the Second Vatican Council.)
Anyway, I’m just looking for (name removed by moderator)ut and advice as to whether anyone else has been in an experience like this!
P.S. I just would like to say that the people on this board are some of the most thoughtful, nicest, and intellectual people I have ever talked to. I wish all Catholics could be like you! So many times, lay Catholics just go through the motions and really miss the point of their faith and Mass. At the end of Scott Hahn’s book Rome Sweet Home, he calls for Catholics to be more like Bible believing Christians and Bible believing Christians to more like Catholics. You have the excitement and passion for the faith like an Evangelical would have but the understanding, intellectual rigor, and compassion that sometimes is forgotten in some churches.
Thanks!