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How in the world do I answer this question? My boyfriend is Lutheran and he believes that their communion service (every Sunday) is valid. Meaning he believes the “pastor” consecrates the hosts and the wine (and not to mention the grape juice). I tried to tell him that since a priest wasn’t doing it that it wasn’t actually done. He then asks me to show him in the Bible where it says that only a priest can perform the consecration. I can’t debate with him on this sola scriptura stuff.

Sigh, I’m just so tired of all of this with him. Its truly draining me. I prayed to God today at Mass begging Him to give me the insight and strength to try and show my boyfriend the way to Catholicism - to show him that being Catholic is the right thing to do. The best way I can describe it is I am the Catholic train that’s unstoppable and he is the Lutheran wall that’s unmovable.

Sorry all for the venting, its just wearing me out and I’m actually thinking that ending things with him would be for the best. My being Catholic is a huge part of my life, a part of my life he has nothing to do with, its such a struggle.
 
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Lorrie:
How in the world do I answer this question? My boyfriend is Lutheran and he believes that their communion service (every Sunday) is valid. Meaning he believes the “pastor” consecrates the hosts and the wine (and not to mention the grape juice). I tried to tell him that since a priest wasn’t doing it that it wasn’t actually done. He then asks me to show him in the Bible where it says that only a priest can perform the consecration. I can’t debate with him on this sola scriptura stuff.

Sigh, I’m just so tired of all of this with him. Its truly draining me. I prayed to God today at Mass begging Him to give me the insight and strength to try and show my boyfriend the way to Catholicism - to show him that being Catholic is the right thing to do. The best way I can describe it is I am the Catholic train that’s unstoppable and he is the Lutheran wall that’s unmovable.

Sorry all for the venting, its just wearing me out and I’m actually thinking that ending things with him would be for the best. My being Catholic is a huge part of my life, a part of my life he has nothing to do with, its such a struggle.
Does Scott Hahn have something that will help?
 
If this relationship is more of a drain than a good thing in your life, then I too think you would be wise to end it. Try to find a good, solid Catholic man who shares your desire to grow in the faith, so that you both will equipped to aid one another on your journey to heaven instead of fighting each other every step of the way. You don’t want a lifetime of heartache when you could have a lifetime of sharing your faith with each other and your children. 😉
 
netmil(name removed by moderator):
Does Scott Hahn have something that will help?
I was thinking of Rome, Sweet Home by him. My boyfriend would read it. He’s very respectful of my religion and I try to be of his, the relationship has just been so hard lately.
 
Dear Lorrie,

You’re right. You can’t be debating with him all the time, but you can definitely run here and ask us to do it for you. I’m not joking at all. It’s very tiring, and you’d be better spending your time praying for him, right? After all, the Spirit converts, not us. People like myself tend to neglect prayer, but it certainly has its rightful place.

But, I can answer your question perfectly since I’ve been talking about this in six million threads lately! Including this one, this one, and this one with a Lutheran. Check my posts, specifically posts 29, 30, 31, and 33. I’m going to liberally copy from those posts. To be honest, I’ve been cutting and pasting from that thread with the Lutheran man, but it seems like you don’t need any extra complications, so I’ll see if I can lay it out as clearly as possible.

The question is a question of authority. The Church had always held that a priest needed to be ordained with the Sacrament of Holy Orders. The Protestants at the time of the Reformation wanted to break with the Church, and thus needed an alternate theology to justify themselves. Realize that Protestants like Martin Luther still believed in the Real Presence (although he would later alter the position, but still believe in a different version of it). So, in order to break, they still needed to find a source of authority for the consecration. Remember: Lutherans were breaking from the authority of the Church, so they wouldn’t have bishops to consecrate priests. Also, the alternate theology on the priesthood of all believers was a way to knock down the “wall” the Catholic Church had built which subjected temporal authority to spiritual authority. (That is a link to one of Luther’s writings, Address to the Christian Nobility of a German Nation)

Luther:
First, if pressed by the temporal power, they have affirmed and maintained that the temporal power has no jurisdiction over them, but, on the contrary, that the spiritual power is above the temporal.
But this one really gets to the crux of it:
As for the unction by a pope or a bishop, tonsure, ordination, consecration, and clothes differing from those of laymen-all this may make a hypocrite or an anointed puppet, but never a Christian or a spiritual man. Thus we are all consecrated as, priests by baptism, as St. Peter says: 'Ye are a royal priesthood, a holy nation (i Pet. ii. 9); and in the book of Revelation: ‘and hast made us unto our God (by Thy blood) kings and priests’ (Rev. v. io). For, if we had not a higher consecration in us than pope or bishop can give, no priest could ever be made by the consecration of pope or bishop, nor could he say the mass or preach or absolve.
That is exactly the point: a special ordination would mean that priests are special and set apart. Luther denies that Holy Orders really does anything because he needs to knock down the “first” of “three walls” that the “Romanists” have used to “protect themselves” (the first wall is referred to in my first quote).

The special ordination of priests, and the Catholic belief of the indelible mark that Holy Orders imparts on the recipient made the ordained set apart.

Enter the Priesthood of all Believers. This is certainly a Catholic belief, but the Protestants took this to mean something entirely different. The Protestants took the idea that “you are a royal priesthood” to mean that everyone has all the power and authority that the ordain priesthood does. Catholic teaching is that the baptismal, or common priesthood is something distinct from the ordained, ministerial priesthood.

The Catechism says:
1546 Christ, high priest and unique mediator, has made of the Church "a kingdom, priests for his God and Father."20 The whole community of believers is, as such, priestly. The faithful exercise their baptismal priesthood through their participation, each according to his own vocation, in Christ’s mission as priest, prophet, and king. Through the sacraments of Baptism and Confirmation the faithful are "consecrated to be . . . a holy priesthood."21

(cont.)
 
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Della:
If this relationship is more of a drain than a good thing in your life, then I too think you would be wise to end it. Try to find a good, solid Catholic man who shares your desire to grow in the faith, so that you both will equipped to aid one another on your journey to heaven instead of fighting each other every step of the way. You don’t want a lifetime of heartache when you could have a lifetime of sharing your faith with each other and your children. 😉
Thank you for the wise words of encouragement! As a side note, I can’t have kids due to the removal of my ovaries and fallopian tubes (and I don’t think adoption would be right for me) so no worry there. 😉
 
1547 The ministerial or hierarchical priesthood of bishops and priests, and the common priesthood of all the faithful participate, “each in its own proper way, in the one priesthood of Christ.” While being “ordered one to another,” they differ essentially.22 In what sense? While the common priesthood of the faithful is exercised by the unfolding of baptismal grace --a life of faith, hope, and charity, a life according to the Spirit–, the ministerial priesthood is at the service of the common priesthood. It is directed at the unfolding of the baptismal grace of all Christians. The ministerial priesthood is a *means *by which Christ unceasingly builds up and leads his Church. For this reason it is transmitted by its own sacrament, the sacrament of Holy Orders.
“’…Now if you obey me fully and keep my covenant, then out of all nations you will be my treasured possession. Although the whole earth is mine, you will be for me a kingdom of priests and a holy nation.’ These are the words you are to speak to the Israelites.”

Exodus 19:5-6
From Revelation 1:5-6:
5 …To him who loves us and has freed us 5 from our sins by his blood,
6 who has made us into a kingdom, priests for his God and Father, to him be glory and power forever (and ever). Amen.
Where you see a contradiction between God calling certain people to share in His priesthood and the way the Christian people form a royal priesthood, there is none. Priesthood is what we’re going to have to explore.

First, we need to look at Leviticus, 7:11-21. Here we have regulations set down by God for offering sacrifice. Only in the peace offering can the giver of the victim partake of the sacrificial meal. Usually only members of the priestly family can eat sacrificial offerings.

Leviticus 22:10-13
10 "Neither a lay person nor a priest’s tenant or hired servant may eat of any sacred offering. 11 But a slave whom a priest acquires by purchase or who is born in his house may eat of his food. 12 A priest’s daughter who is married to a layman may not eat of the sacred contributions. 13 But if a priest’s daughter is widowed or divorced and, having no children, returns to her father’s house, she may then eat of her father’s food as in her youth. No layman, however, may eat of it.
Now, when it came to be that a man of the priestly clan was disqualified from the exercise of the priesthood (offering sacrifices), he could still partake in the sacrificial offering.

Leviticus 21: 21-23
21 No descendant of Aaron the priest who has any such defect may draw near to offer up the oblations of the LORD; on account of his defect he may not draw near to offer up the food of his God. 22 He may, however, partake of the food of his God: of what is most sacred as well as of what is sacred. 23 Only, he may not approach the veil nor go up to the altar on account of his defect; he shall not profane these things that are sacred to me, for it is I, the LORD, who make them sacred."
This is a distinction between the priestly ministry and the dignity of the priestly clan. Thus in Christ’s Church, priests are set aside to carry out sacred functions (especially the Eucharist, or as Lutherans term it, the Lord’s Supper). Priests also are official preachers of the Church. Everyone else, all the members, form a priestly people because they are called to unite themselves to Christ’s sacrifice by partaking of the Body of the Lord.

This is a distinction between the priestly ministry and the dignity of the priestly clan. Thus in Christ’s Church, priests are set aside to carry out sacred functions (especially the Eucharist, or as Lutherans term it, the Lord’s Supper). Priests also are official preachers of the Church. Everyone else, all the members, form a priestly people because they are called to unite themselves to Christ’s sacrifice by partaking of the Body of the Lord.

(cont.)
 
Hence, 1 Peter 2:9
95 But you are “a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people of his own, so that you may announce the praises” of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.
With 1 Cor 11:26
26 For as often as you eat this bread and drink the cup, you proclaim the death of the Lord until he comes.
In the Old Testament, priests were called from among Aaron’s descendants who were a priestly clan within God’s people. NT priests are chosen from among baptized people, who are children of God, brothers of Jesus, and members of God’s family. The members of God’s Church form a race of priests. The ministerial priesthood is a special calling.

Now, I had presented a syllogism (informally) on whether or not the version of the priesthood of all believers that Protestants believe in could truly be correct. It works something like this.
  1. Lutherans claim that by baptism all believers gain the power/authority that a priest has in the Catholic faith.
  2. Women are baptized.
  3. Therefore, according to Lutheran belief, women should be able to be a part of the ministerial priesthood.
  4. However, women cannot be a part of the ministerial priesthood.
  5. Therefore, the Lutheran version of the priesthood of all believers is incorrect.
It all hinges on #4. So, I guess I have to prove #4 for you, no?
 
Ok, here is my argument for why women cannot be priests.
  1. Women cannot fulfill a function of the priesthood, preaching.
“I do not permit a woman to have teaching authority over a man” [1 Tim. 2:1].).
1 Cor 14:34
34 women should keep silent in the churches, for they are not allowed to speak, but should be subordinate, as even the law says.
  1. Christ called no women to the priesthood.
If Christ had wanted to, He undoubtedly could have. Mark 3:13 states that he selected the apostles “as He desired,” or “those whom He wanted.” It wasn’t merely cultural. You can criticize God for that one, if you wish. In any case, a model among women, who is noted as “blessed among women” and someone who “found favor in the sight of God,” would certainly have been a prime candidate. Mary, however, was never chosen.

Heb 5:4
4 No one takes this honor upon himself but only when called by God, just as Aaron was.
You have to be called by God to be a priest. Women were not called in the OT, nor in the NT, nor by the constant tradition of the Church for two millenia.
  1. The Old Testament allowed no women priests. Even the ideal priesthood of all believers did not contain women priests. The levitical priesthood contained sons of Aaron’s line. The priesthood of Melchecidek was that of a man (Melchecidek) and of Christ (a man also).
  2. Priesthood is intimately connected with fatherhood.
Judges 17:10
10 “Stay with me,” Micah said to him. “Be father and priest to me, and I will give you ten silver shekels a year, a set of garments, and your food.”
Judges 18:19
19 They said to him, “Be still: put your hand over your mouth. Come with us and be our father and priest. Is it better for you to be priest for the family of one man or to be priest for a tribe and a clan in Israel?”
Women cannot be “fathers.”
  1. The priest acts in the person of Christ. Christ was male, Christ was a Son.
Jesus intercedes on behalf of us as the Son of God. Since the priest acts in the person of Christ (“This is my body that is for you.” 1 Cor 11:23), it is also important that he can accurately represent Christ as a male, and as a son.

Furthermore, to extend the idea of the maleness of a priest:

Ephesians 5:24-31
23 For the husband is head of his wife just as Christ is head of the church, he himself the savior of the body. 24 As the church is subordinate to Christ, so wives should be subordinate to their husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the church and handed himself over for her 26 to sanctify her, cleansing her by the bath of water with the word, 27that he might present to himself the church in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. 28So (also) husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29For no one hates his own flesh but rather nourishes and cherishes it, even as Christ does the church, 30because we are members of his body.
Christ is the New Adam in Romans 5:12-14. In Genesis 2:18 Adam is made “a suitable partner.” The Church is the Bride of Christ. Therefore, a male priest perfectly corresponds to Christ’s role, which the priest carries out.
  1. Finally, Protestants claim to be Bible Christians. Where are women priests in the Bible? It can’t be found. There simply is no support for it. The evidence points, rather, to the contrary.
For these reasons, and I am sure, more, women can’t be priests.
 
Lorrie,

Your problems with your boyfriend could be God’s way of nudging you toward a religious vocation.

Just a thought. :tiphat:
 
Dr. Bombay:
Lorrie,

Your problems with your boyfriend could be God’s way of nudging you toward a religious vocation.

Just a thought. :tiphat:
Oh sweet fancy Moses!! Dr. Bombay please don’t say that! I’m so worldly, I don’t see how I could ever do that. I love make-up, I love to shop - Prada and I are best friends…lol. And here I was thinking about joining your little fan club you have going on. 😉
 
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Lorrie:
Thank you for the wise words of encouragement! As a side note, I can’t have kids due to the removal of my ovaries and fallopian tubes (and I don’t think adoption would be right for me) so no worry there. 😉
Thank you for your kind words. 🙂 Well, the only worry you’d have, then, is falling for a Catholic man that wants to have children, even if it means adopting–that wouldn’t work out any better than your present situation, would it?

Pray about it, and if things don’t go right for you and your current boyfriend, then let him go and trust God to lead you where he wants you to be and to what he wants you to do.
 
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Lorrie:
Oh sweet fancy Moses!! Dr. Bombay please don’t say that! I’m so worldly, I don’t see how I could ever do that. I love make-up, I love to shop - Prada and I are best friends…lol. And here I was thinking about joining your little fan club you have going on. 😉
Ah, Lorrie, Lorrie, Lorrie…

A wise priest once told me, nobody is worthy of a religious vocation. But maybe Jesus has other ideas. I’m sure Levi the tax collector hardly thought he was the best choice to be one of Jesus’ disciples. But our Lord knew best.

I’m not saying you have to run off to a convent tomorrow. Just something to take to God in prayer. Remember, His will, not yours be done. This is something I’m still really struggling with. I want to do it my way, not His.

I will pray for you and your budding vocation. 😃
 
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Della:
Thank you for your kind words. 🙂 Well, the only worry you’d have, then, is falling for a Catholic man that wants to have children, even if it means adopting–that wouldn’t work out any better than your present situation, would it?
This is quite true!
Pray about it, and if things don’t go right for you and your current boyfriend, then let him go and trust God to lead you where he wants you to be and to what he wants you to do.
Thank you again, your words truly couldn’t be more encouraging. I actually just discussed it with my mom. She came over and I laid my head in her lap while she ran her fingers through my hair (she does this when I need to talk about something serious) and she advised me to just look at the big picture and to pray about it. Basically saying what you said. 😉 Thanks again Della!!
 
Dr. Bombay:
Ah, Lorrie, Lorrie, Lorrie…

A wise priest once told me, nobody is worthy of a religious vocation. But maybe Jesus has other ideas. I’m sure Levi the tax collector hardly thought he was the best choice to be one of Jesus’ disciples. But our Lord knew best.
Very good point!
I’m not saying you have to run off to a convent tomorrow. Just something to take to God in prayer. Remember, His will, not yours be done. This is something I’m still really struggling with. I want to do it my way, not His.
That’s my problem too (as is most people’s). I wonder if the nuns would let me wear Prada under the habit? 😃
I will pray for you and your budding vocation. 😃
Knock yourself out! :whacky:
 
There is a lot for us bystanders to learn on this thread too. Thanks. I learn so much reading these comments. :clapping:
  • Kathie :bowdown:
 
Greetings! My ears were ringing.

RobNY said:
4. However, women cannot be a part of the ministerial priesthood.

I dispute that (of course). But I maintain that a woman should not (ordinarily) be permitted to be a minister. I think Paul would agree:
“I do not permit a woman to have teaching authority over a man” 1 Tim. 2:1
I would note that in the (unlikely) event a woman were minister to a population of only women stranded on an island, that woman would not be exercising teaching authority over a man.🙂

As far as Jesus and everyone else not choosing woman priests, I guess they would also agree that shouldn’t be permitted.
 
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Lorrie:
How in the world do I answer this question? My boyfriend is Lutheran and he believes that their communion service (every Sunday) is valid. Meaning he believes the “pastor” consecrates the hosts and the wine (and not to mention the grape juice). I tried to tell him that since a priest wasn’t doing it that it wasn’t actually done. He then asks me to show him in the Bible where it says that only a priest can perform the consecration. I can’t debate with him on this sola scriptura stuff.
a more productive search might be in the writings of Martin Luther and the confession used by your BF’s particular Lutheran denomination, Luther specifically denounced the priesthood and the hallmark of Lutheran protestantism was denial of the sacrficial priesthood and Transubstantiation. Those Lutheran bodies that maintain a belief in the “Real Presence” mean by those words something radically different that the connotation of the Catholic Doctrine of Transubstantiation. Might be better to help BF explore what Lutherans really believe, and the develoment of their doctrines and theology before beginning a comparison with Catholic belief.
 
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Angainor:
Greetings! My ears were ringing.I dispute that (of course). But I maintain that a woman should not (ordinarily) be permitted to be a minister. I think Paul would agree:“I do not permit a woman to have teaching authority over a man” 1 Tim. 2:1

I would note that in the (unlikely) event a woman were minister to a population of only women stranded on an island, that woman would not be exercising teaching authority over a man.🙂

As far as Jesus and everyone else not choosing woman priests, I guess they would also agree that shouldn’t be permitted.
Dearest Angainor,

Pleased to see you!
  1. The Timothy quote shows that women merely can’t fulfill a function of the priesthood. You would agree with me that the ability as in the physical capability to preach/teach is something that all people have, even non-Christians. So when he says, ‘permit,’ it must be because women are capable but not allowed. Now, if Paul had said that, I do not permit a woman to consecrate the elements, then perhaps the point would be stronger, because the authority/power/ability to consecrate the host is not something that human beings have by birth, but rather by transmission of authority from the Divine. However, Paul merely comments on disallowing women from fulfilling the function of preaching even if they are able.
The language of permit is used because it is physically possible for women to do so, yet illegal. No such language would or has been used in regards to women for the function of the consecration, or in the case of Catholics, for the Anointing, for Confession/Penance, Confirmation, etc…

There is no evidence, biblically or Traditionally, to show that women have the ability to consecrate the elements. In lack of such evidence, the permission argument breaks down. I know you consider the priesthood of all believers to give that authority, but I do believe that my arguments show that the royal priesthood does not imply the authority of the ministerial priesthood, as well as Jimmy Akin’s astute arguments on 'the Threefold Priesthood.’ (which I encourage you to read).

Here’s what I’d be interested in. Besides extrapolations from the priesthood of all believers passages, are there any others which lend credence to women being able to function as priests (and for our intents and purposes, we will stick with the consecration as the hallmark of a functional priest)? That would do a good deal to convince me. Also, if for these passages (or for the priesthood of all believers passages), if you could show me how the Fathers interpreted these passages in such a way that would give credence to the notion, it would personally go very far towards convincing me. IMO, I don’t think the evidence from the Fathers for that position exists, but I’d love to hear the biblical justifications.

-Rob

PS-- It’s been wonderful speaking with you again, you always make me put my thinking cap on. See you around.
 
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