Consensual Non-Monogamy

[LittleSoldier]

Two reasons.

One, it’s a good excuse to throw a kick *** party. Two, for legal purposes. Making medical decisions, joint property, etc. But you’re right, whether or not we get a government seal really doesn’t affect our day to day lives.

LOL, well, no it was held at a beach resort. Ours will probably be something similar, though I’m inclined to actually do it ON the beach. Though we may have to have two, one for regular people, and one for our more freaky friends!

Well, Seeker, I think this thread has come to an end. I want you to know that I won’t judge you and I appreciate your not judging me.

Weddings on the beach are awesome (I’m really just guessing because I’ve never been to one).

I see that you’ve been active on some threads that for some reason I’ve forgotten about. I don’t know how it happened but I’ve been in a thread about YEC and one about gays in the military and I have no information or even opinion to offer about that.

I think you are a good person and I wish that others here saw the good in you. You aren’t Catholic and therefore you are not required to abide by Catholic morality. Your responses make sense to me. And you have helped me realize something about myself that used to cause me great embarrassment and now I’ve been able to tell my best friend about it. She didn’t judge me either.

Thank you for that.

 

[Seeker2010]

And you have helped me realize something about myself that used to cause me great embarrassment and now I’ve been able to tell my best friend about it.

Well, I’ll admit that this little tidbit has made me curious, but I expect you did not share what the ‘something’ is on purpose, which is of course your right.

To circle back around to my FDNY buddy, turns out he should be dead right now. He had a 100% blockage in one of his heart arteries, and has been walking around having multiple heart attacks and not even realizing it for the better part of a month now. They finally figured it out and inserted a couple of stents, so he’ll be fine, but it should have killed him. I guess someone upstairs is looking out for him, despite the fact he lives by the same moral code that I do.

And, btw, yer welcome.

 

[LittleSoldier]

Well, I’ll admit that this little tidbit has made me curious, but I expect you did not share what the ‘something’ is on purpose, which is of course your right.

To circle back around to my FDNY buddy, turns out he should be dead right now. He had a 100% blockage in one of his heart arteries, and has been walking around having multiple heart attacks and not even realizing it for the better part of a month now. They finally figured it out and inserted a couple of stents, so he’ll be fine, but it should have killed him. I guess someone upstairs is looking out for him, despite the fact he lives by the same moral code that I do.

And, btw, yer welcome.

I’m glad your friend is OK. He is also very lucky.

I’ll tell you what the “tidbit” is. It was the admission that I am sometimes attracted to women. I always knew that I was but I tried to hide it from myself and especially from others because it was so embarrassing. Now I realize that it’s just the way I am and it’s the way I act upon it that is important. Without it I’m not fully “me.” With it I am.

 

[Seeker2010]

Without it I’m not fully “me.” With it I am.

I think bisexuality in women is a lot more widespread than most people believe, to the point that I think most women are bisexual, at least a little bit. Perhaps it’s because I am attracted to women and can therefore understand why they would be, perhaps it’s because the circles I hang out in have large numbers of bisexual women, or perhaps it’s simply true, I don’t know.

Regardless, I’m glad you’ve come to peace with it, and whether or not you ever act upon it, I hope you do what makes YOU happy.

 

[Spirithound]

You aren’t Catholic and therefore you are not required to abide by Catholic morality.

Except where such morality is not specifically Catholic, but Natural.